Crissie - it looks like you had a dip at 5dpo last month, might be normal for you?
Merry - I know the timing wasn't ideal, but it wasn't horrible either. Just think.. what if you had O'd before you got any BDing in? That would be much worse timing. Maybe his sperm will surprise you and live nice and long...
I can't remember what his SA issues were, but they might not have been a life-length issue. If they were slow swimmers, it might be perfect since it gives them more time to get up those tubes to meet the egg.
Try not to lose all hope completely!
I know that it wasn't the worse timing ever but don't want to get my hopes up. I've been reading up about life spans and it says that in fertile CM, which it was as I has eggwhite for the few days leading up to ovulation, that the sperm can live up to 5 days. So three days has a possibilty of conception, but it's not as high as on the day of ovulation. Also interesting note if I do get a BFP this month it's more likely to be a girl, as girl sperm lives longer than boy making sperm.
The problem with his SA wasthe shape of the sperm, the percentage of normal wasn't high enough.
Also read that there is still a chance that I could concieve tonight, due to random nature of ovulation, eggs lasting 24 hours and some times you produce two eggs within 24 hours etc. So will see if he is up for it tonight.
He said he really wanted to yesterday but just couldn't, which has never happened before. He went sparing for his martial art in the evening and got cracked twice, once on his jaw and once on his nose. He didn't break any thing but gave him a bit of a shock and thats maybe why he couldn't. Will ask him about tonight.
Not feeling down now, more neutral, when I was hoping to be buzzing with happiness today. Guess we will see in two weeks, fx any way. You guys are always so positive,
I love that. Normally I am, you wouldn't tell by my posts I know. I'm known for being chirpy. So will try to be more positive about the whole ttc thing in the future.
Now for some smileys as I'm at the computer