how do you feel about going on contraception again? Would it give you more peace of mind than your methods now? If you took the pill there is nothing stopping you TTC right away as soon as you are both ready?
Sorry hes pushed the date back
Thats not what we want to hear but you are in good company here during the wait. Why does he want to push back the date if you dont mind me asking.
It does give me peace of mind yes, but due to my endometriosis, fibroids and daily migranes, I'm only allowed on one type of contraception now which is the mini pill and i absolutely hate it! I'v tried 3 different types and the side effects i get are just awful (panic attacks, depression, anxiety, daily nausea, palpatations, acne, weight gain). I loved the combined pill but they won't let me on it anymore and i can't have the coil, injection or implant either (due to the hormones which could 'feed the endometriosis, as the GP's say and also the location of the coil which is where some of my endo is = severe pain). So i really don't want to go back on the pill and neither does my OH. He has the option to pull out or use condoms but he chooses not too
Thank you, it's nice to be able to talk to you ladies about it and know i'm not alone
It's because he feels 2017 would be a better time for a LO, not only because he feels that is when he would feel ready and would like a child but also because he said that it would be hard for me to be pregnant in my last 6 months of university, which i agreed with. However he also agrees with me that it would be harder finding my graduate job when i graduate if im visibly pregnant! Plus having a LO for when we originally planned, would mean i would have it just as i finish uni and would give me 9 months with our baby before starting work as we are not allowed to practice until we are registered with a professional body (HCPC) which won't be until october 2017. So it wasn't a 'No' but i'v certainly taken his wish on board and would push it back a few months so that our LO would be born in the first few months of 2017 as opposed to the last few months of 2016, which is what he would prefer. I don't want to but i want to make him happy too!
I did just have a chat with him though about 'accidents' and asked if he would be angry with me if that happened and i also again asked if he wanted me to go back on the pill. He said he wouldn't be angry, he wouldn't leave me and no he thinks it's better for me to be off the pill. So i'm a bit confused now considering the last conversation, but a lot more relieved
I just don't know whether to go back on the pill anyway for peace of mind despite neither of us wanting me to, or to carry on with charting with my OH having the full knowledge that it's not 100% effective and im still learning, so accidents might happen!
Gosh, sorry for the essay! I hope i'v made sense
I worry i'm sounding naive but i just want to do the right thing
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The little tips you gave were exactly what I needed to hear at the moment. AF is 5 days late with no BFP yet. It's been a tad frustrating.
