Waiting for our BFPs! Please hurry :-D

Yeah thats what I thought - we cant really take no chances with us getting married abroad - if it was over here we wouldnt mind so much but we have both agreed we dont want a baby younger than 6 months old being out in the Cypriut heat so I think its going to be the pill for 15 months then he will have to wear condoms until the wedding :-( arghhhh its sucks to think we would have had a 3 year old child at our wedding if we didnt have any of the miscarriages or ectopic. xxx
 
I havent been on the pill for 9 years now. We used the pull out method and it worked fine....now I can see why lol. The pill is quite good as lots of people conceive quickly as soon as they stop taking it.

Im 12dpo now and have mild af cramps. I think she will be here soon. My temp went very high this morning which is just cruel. It's playing tricks on me and mind games lol xxx
 
I dont know if its true or now or how much medical insight has actually gone into out but there was a thread on here a few months back/last year about long term use of the pill can cause your first mc - whether its just pure coincidence i dont know but there was a huge majority who had been on the pill longer than 2 years and mc their first? thats all im weary about but if i come off it after 15 months i should be ok?

Will you test hun or just wait and see if af arrives?? any other symptoms xxx
 
I was on BC for about 8 years. I was off it for about 2.5 years until we started trying. I don't link it to my MC.
I know some women go on the pill intentionally to boost their fertility, but IMHO it's rubbish. Some women get pregnant the second they get off BC, and for some- it totally wacks everything out of balance and then you're left with wonky cycles for 6 months or more.
Personally, I wouldn't go on the pill again because it made my life miserable. I never had any sex drive, plus a bunch of other health issues. The only downside was that I got acne.
MrsB, that was what I was thinking as well! Looking back, we should have had at least one accident during the time we used the pull out method! I'm just telling myself that everything is fine and DH managed to get out in time.
We actually had one condom incident, and after that I took the morning after pill. We fought like HELL after that. We didn't really talk about taking it, DH just kind of freaked out and sent me out to get it and take it. I was unemployed at the time. I still blame my heavier periods for that!
 
I came off the pill because it was giving me migraines.

Im just going to wait as im sure af will come in next few days if not today. I don't have any symptoms! I know I cant be pregnant without my sore boobs :-)
Xxx
 
My headaches decreased greatly after coming off the pill as well.
You never know- every pregnancy is different <3
 
MrsB I agree with Nina hun no 2 pregnancies are the same the sore boobs might appear at 5 weeks :-D I do get what you mean though as iv caught myself doing it this morning - prodding them and thinking hhmmm they arent sore = bfn for me!

Awww Nina given the circumstances for when you took the morning after pill it sounds like the best idea at the time hun and who is to say that you would have been pregnant after that - dont beat yourself up about the past hun xxx
 
Yes Cath is right Nina. Lots of people take the morning after pill, i have done in the past but not with DH.

I'd expect to have some symptoms with a bfp. I know AF will come but my chart is so different this month:

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its too 'plain' isnt it hun?? Your chart is looking amazeballs MrsB! xxx
 
Mrs.B, your chart looks good! Why on earth are you thinking you're out?!
Especially if your chart is different. FX!

I don't think my MC was relating in any way to the morning after pill, I took it a year before we started ttc. I really think I just had bad luck.
I never got sore boobs. But don't think I don't prod and jab at them as well!
 
I just know im out because I have nothing I had last bfp lol but its definitely an unusual chart for me anyway.

Yeah the site is too plain and bright! I prefer it on my phone version xxx
 
Cath: I would use condoms to not take a risk. I think that's the best choice. AND sex on the wedding night will sure feel better after so long of using condoms. :blush:

Mrs B: Your chart looks amazing! Fingers are so crossed!

Nina: I think a lot of my recent period issues were due to the morning after pill. I really believe it. I used it twice in the year before my husband and I started dating and it really messed my system up. The pill didn't seem to mess me up, though.
 
Ohhh crumbs lol sorry hun I didn't think of the bloody time difference! Xxx
 
The time difference is confusing u hadn't thought either cath.

Mrs B this could be a good thing. Like has already been said every pregnancy is different and if your chart is good then that's a great sign. Crossing everything....apart from my legs ; )
 
Happily, there are so many hormones jammed into that thing that anything is possible.
It's scary really.
 
MrsB your chart looks amazing!!!! If your temp is high again tomorrow I'd be testing! :-))

Cath - I think the pill messed my body up - plus it took 3 months after coming off it to get my period back. I def won't be going back on it until I'm done having kids. If you could bear to keep temping you wouldn't need to use condoms all the time, just around o time. On the other had the pill is v good at skipping a period if you're going on holiday!
 
Thanks ladies.

Ll84 love how u are crossing everything but your legs lol I like it!!!!!

Xxx
 

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