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I'm 18dpo, never made it this late. I guess I caught the end of a chemical if I got a very faint positive on 15dpo.
I'll get bloods done on Sunday if AF still isn't near.
My LP is usually 15 days, but last cycle it was 17. My cycles are 28 days, and today is CD29, so I guess I am officially "late".
 
Well that's good! You don't know that is chemical yet. Keep positive af my not arrive
 
Nina wish I could stalk your temps. Haven't u tested again? It might be stronger now or do digital? Xxx
 
I didn't temp this month, and I used an IC this morning, plus an opk. the IC was negative, and the OPK was just barely there.
I'm just so fed up with this.
I knew a girl on a forum once who also went through a MC, her AF was 2 weeks late and she didn't use an HPT because she didn't rely on them. well, we were all sure she was pregnant but bloods came back negative. She didn't come back to post what had happened, but I sure wonder about her every other day.
I told DH I don't want to do either tests, but how awkward would that be, coming to a dating scan at 8 weeks and you're not even pregnant :/
My doctor would have a ball, he thinks we're already total freaks!
 
Just wait it out then hun and see what af does. Sorry about the neg ic xxx
 
Nina - how frustrating. Limboland is a horrible place to be. Huge hugs. Fingers crossed you get bfp or af soon so you can move onwards and upwards.
LL - good luck for your scan tomorrow. Looking forward to hearing that bean is in the right place!
 
LL good luck hun.

Hilslo hows u??

I've spoke to Cath on Facebook and she said congratulations to all the new bfps!!

Xxx
 
Ooh say hello back! I miss her!
I'm doing ok. Good days and bad days. I've booked in a scan to see if it's ectopic on Friday next week. I'm struggling at times though as I'm just waiting for whatever it is that will go wrong with this one to happen. I've had ectopic and mmc so I'm guessing blighted ovum, molar or straight forward miscarriage this time. Sorry, half joking and half serious. I'm still on progesterone so keeping my fingers crossed that has some impact. I'm too scared to put in a positive hot in ff as I don't want to see when my edd is. I don't want another date to have to have painful memories attached to it!
Strange. Aimed so hard to get pregnant but now I'm here I'm not grateful I'm here. My life was just starting to feel like normal life again. Now I've got constant fear and can't think of anything else.
I'm sorry to moan. I know I should be more thankful but I think I'm struggling more now than before. It's brought back so many bad memories.
 
Hilslo what u are feeling is completely normal for someone who has experienced what you have. I felt like that too and now im scared if getting bfp. I want to get bfp and don't as well. This is some crazy mind games.

Today I learnt two things. 1 - a friend of mine lost her full term baby :-(. 2- one of my best friends is pregnant and due when I would of been. So its been an eventful day xxx
 
Nina im very sorry to see u started a new cycle but at least this one is in 2014. A fresh year and a fresh start xxx
 
Hislo I agree what you are feeling is completely normal !! Hope you are ok. Once you are over you milestones you will become more relaxed in pregnancy. I have my fingers and toes crossed for you.

Xxx
 
Hilslo I am exactly the same I worked myself up so much yesterday that I was sobbing before the scan. They showed me bean with a heart beat and for about 2 hours I was over the moon then the worry set back in and this morning I'm thinking I don't feel as sick as yesterday what if the heartbeat has stopped.
 
Hilslo, thats my thought as well, morbid as it is, next it'll be ectopic, I've already had the others :/
Its just a way of copping.
 
Thank you ladies! You make me feel better and really do understand more than anyone else I know.
LL - I'm thrilled bean is in the right place. First hurdle jumped!
MrsB - losing a baby at full term must be one of the worst things that could ever happen. I know we both lost ours around the 13-14 week mark which was really tough so I can't imagine what your friend is going through.
It's also tough having someone close to you due around your Eddie. A constant reminder of where you should have been. I had a v close friend that was due 3 weeks after my first. I found out she was having twins which at the timeade me feel better as it was different to my single lost bun.... Then I got pregnant with twins and lost them and suddenly it was another reminder! Simply can't win!

Nina - has af started? I hope so. 2014 means a new start and new luck.

Blue stars - I've just realised you don't temp ( or at least I can't see it on your chart) do you use opks? Are you now in the tww?
 
LL its great that your baby is in the right place and u saw a heartbeat. Congratulations! Try to keep positive.

Nina how are u?

X
 
Lady, so happy to hear your scan went well! I know how worried you must still be though <3 it will get easier ((hugs))

Mrsb, I'm so sorry to hear about your friend. My sister lost her baby at 36 weeks, and a woman I work with also lost hers third tri, not sure when or what happened (it happened before I came to work there) It's so incredibly sad and hard to understand why it happens. It's just not fair on so many different levels.
due dates are always hard, and I'm sorry you have to go through that with a friend of yours. Hopefully she'll be kind and gentle as she can be with you ((hugs))

Blue <3 let us know where you are in your cycle! Are you taking anything, or have an appointment planned?

AFM, bleh. I am just so disappointed in my body.
I know all losses are sad and hard, but I just feel less attached to a chemical than my MC. To me, it was the start of something, but it was only just cells. It was, we were so close, I don't know why these things go wrong, or don't happen. I just can't believe how close we were.
I hate my long cycles, the LP is longer than waiting to ovulate, and this last cycle I didn't even take the vitex. I just feel drained. But onward to a new year.
This is the last month before my second EDD, and I have absolutely no feelings whatsoever, just emptiness. I just want it over with. I am also not feeling optimistic about this month, but not temping and charting does help.

I hope everyone has a lovely and calm weekend <3
 
Yeah I just need to deal with my friends pregnancy and due date coz her child will always be a part of my life and a constant reminder forever.

Nina we will get there hun xxx
 
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