Munchkin and Celine - You need some positive pregnancy affirmations! We all understand why you're worrying. Hopefully as time goes by, you'll find it easier to relax and trust that you are carrying your rainbows
Thank you Arabelle! I could do with getting a few of them going that I could chant or something! Glad you're feeling more positive after your break. Next month will be fun ttc with all the excitement of early ttc months!
my first AF after mc was very heavy. It's not surprising really, the mw told me it would be xxx
Rachel you're so early you can't be sure AF will come but I totally understand the "defensive pessimism"
Grgirl I totally understand. In all my ttc time I have never once taken a month off, couldn't bear to watch ov go past. But some ladies on here seem to think it really helps and I kind of get that too. I hope you get some answers from your drs appointment. Me and oh always row at AF time. I get so anxious and shut him out in my own little world then just blow up when I know AF is on her way. But then we end up talking and feeling closer for if. Ttc puts so much pressure on relationships it's not surprising. Sorry you're feeling ill too. What a crappy few days for you but it will get better and the hope will return xxx
Boodley I'm glad you're not feeling too bad and as I said taking that month off does seem to help. And you can enjoy Christmas and relax and not worry. I worked out if I'd not got my bfp bding would be starting again tomorrow and the thought of that exhausts me!! I understand the timeframe bit too. It's the same with babies as well, if someone could say 'by June you'll be getting a straight 8 hrs sleep' it would be so much better. But as you said they are totally worth it, a true blessing x
Penguin I hope you get some positive answers from the dr xx
Literati you're totally in this month. I think with so many ladies having time out this month all our hopes are on you and Rachel. But I also get the negativity and not wanting to get your hopes up.
Your bding timing was brilliant though so maybe allow yourself to be a bit hopeful
Sig 7 is really really low. My epu said they don't consider you might be pregnant unless your level is 25 or up. And it's dropped so it sounds like residual hormone. Drink loads of water and nettle tea and flush your system. Are you getting any more tests? I'm sure my epu wouldn't test again after that.
Jrepp sorry she arrived.
but glad you can now get on with your next cycle and some serious loving! I'd recommend the every other day from cd8 til a pos opk then every day for 2-3days so your hubbies doesn't get too exhausted. You could even turn him down on the off days to really get him going!!
Linny I'm sorry about the cm and that your lovely confidence has been chipped
it would scare the bejesus out of me but cramping is so normal (I'm worried at the moment cos I've had no cramping!) and there's so much going on down there a but of old blood creeping out sounds normal, but I'd say don't be worried about nagging your epu and 'exxagerating' a bit if necessary to get reassurance if it carries on or gets worse xxx