Waiting for ov after mc. 8BFPs so far!! *"the list" page 291*

[celine]

Thinking of you sofa, i think those scary thoughts are what each of us will go thru...im trying not to even think about my scan because my mind totally goes there!
Linny how are you this morning?

 

[Sofaqueen77]

Hi all,
So scan went really well, Im close to tears still!
Measuring 7w exactly, seen the little heartbear!
Tech said everything perfect! Back again in two weeks for another scan!

Thank you everyone for your support! xxxxxxxx

 

[garfie]

Sofa - That is excellent news - so pleased for you hun

How are we all? - I'm still stalking and keeping up with you all but at the moment I have a lot on as the deadline looms ever closer for the rebuilding of the factory (some of you may remember that we had a family fire in February - the factory burned to the ground luckily no one was hurt).

So I've been working a lot more - and when I'm not working I'm doing avon, housy things and looking after two children, animals etc.

Wills (my eldest who has autism) is also having a few problems at school - so I feel like I'm back and forth to school a lot as well at the moment.

On Tuesday my baby turned 11 - I think that was also a turning point for me - I don't often say hubby is right but if they don't find anything after these blood tests and scans I think I will be a mum of 2 earth babies and 5 angels - I will be done

Anyhow this morning I tested (Remember the Dr said I didn't Ovulate) and I got a squinter and I mean a squinter on an IC (sadly I've had these before) and still she has arrived and looking at my temps - well so for now I'm calling it an evap

Have a nice day ladies - my one day off - and it's avon day:happydance I will try and catch up better later - byeeeee!

 

[Linnypops]

LL - Thanks lovely. I did actually tell DF to pour me a small glass of vino when i first saw blood. I just thought 'Here we go again', but the smell put me off, and I thought I was giving up too easily as well. So at the moment it's just chocolate and 30 Rock repeats to get me through the days. hahah.

Sofaqueen - Woohoo! High fives lady! X

Celine - Feeling ok ... no bleeding now, just occassionally very tiny bits of slightly off-coloured cm. How are you!? You're past the milestone. I was reading last night that the period between 6-8 weeks is the most sensitive part of a pregnancy. You've made it through love! X

Garfie - So much for modern medicine eh? x

 

[celine]

Garfie post us the squinter please! I havent poas in soooo loong! Gimme my fix?

Sofa yeay thats brillant news!

Linny it sounds promising hun just stay on your bum and chill!

For me..im getting nervous, so nervous for next week. Im so happy its girlie weekend away so i can stop focusing. Of course my roomie is preggo and due the week i was in april but im over that..i was temoted to call mw for a scan tomorrow...i so badly want to know that all is ok...but then, would i really be ok in case something is wrong to go away and room with my preggo friend? Thats all thats holding me back, oh and that hubby wont be home yet..wasnt feeling as tired which worried me...but then i did go to bed at 9:30/10 and slept thru til just after 5 so i guess more rest means im not as tired? I felt nauseated this morning so its all good i know. Still i cant help but be fearful.

 

[garfie]

Just for you Celine

 

[celine]

Ooooh! I know you may not be holding any hope but i am!

 

[arabelle]

Sofa- wonderful news! Congrats!

Linny - I can't imagine how terrified you're feeling right now, but if you're just spotting, it could be just that. Are you still cramping? Thinking of you and hoping Monday comes soon.

Garfie- I think I see your squinter.

Afm- AF is angry! Tmi... I've never had such a heavy flow. I freaked out a bit yesterday at the amount of blood and huge clots but she seems to have settled a bit today.

 

[GRGirl]

Sofa- FX for you but 7 weeks is great!

Celine- you made it to 8 weeks, yay! Getting closer and closer

Linny- GL for you today too but I'm sure everything will be ok

Lit- FX you get your BFP here in a few days

Arabelle- yep, AF is bad for me as well right now Owww

AFM- cd 2 today, AF came and with a vengeance *sigh* the cycles after a loss are always bad AF for me, painful and heavy, and this one is BAD. Super painful and heavy I'm hurting emotionally and physically but gotta move on, right? Have my 1st appt with the RE 11/27 and my regular OB took 12 tubes of blood 2 days ago. Running tests for clotting disorders, any deficiencies, progesterone levels, etc. I now have an "Infertility Specialist" It makes me hopeful for answers but also makes me sad, like now I have an official specialist because my body's so broken a normal OB can't help me *sigh*

Did get my beta back from the OB- 9. Yep, that'd be a Chemical. Took a FRER this morning and it was completely BFN, so I'm probably at/close to 0 now.

Trying to work on my PMA this cycle, but I'm with LL- I'm just not very hopeful right now. Hope hurts too much.

 

[Literati_Love]

GRgirl - aww, dear, I just want to hug you so tight right now! So sorry you're feeling so down and don't have any hope. We can be the little negative Nancys this month. =P I am sorry you feel like you are 'broken' because now you're having to see an infertility specialist. That is tough. but you really aren't and now you are going to get the help you need to have a happy, healthy pregnancy!

Arabelle- sorry AF is so awful. I was shocked by how many clots I had the first three cycles as well.

Celine- I am so happy you've made it to 8 weeks! That seems like a big milestone to me. Of course you are feeling anxious, but hang in there! Your girls' weekend will help distract you and then before you know it you'll have your scan and I'm sure it will be great news! The nausea is such a good sign.

Garfie - yay for a squinter! I am hoping it is not an Evap! Let's prove those doctors wrong!

Sofa - that is supremely excellent about your good scan! How great is that? Just sit and revel in that happy feeling for a while!

AFM - my temps did take a happy turn today so I did let myself feel a bit hopeful for a few minutes although I really shouldn't!

 

[boodley]

L.L. chart stalking! They sure did - pretty clear rise! Ooooh, fx fx fx! When are you testing?

GRgirl <<hugs>> it's so tough. But there may be a really simple thing that can be done to change all for the better now. Sounds like the blood tests will be really thorough anyway. Hope you had a glass of Guinness after giving so much blood! I know I feel like I'm broken at times too so I get where you're at there. It's good now that you're on the way to having a plan to make those babies sticky.

Boo to heavy painful AF, you and Arabelle.

Linny - glad spotting has stopped; Here's hoping Monday comes quickly.

Garfie - I think I saw something too, and I got very good at looking for squinters waiting for my negative! Here's hoping it's not an evap! Will you test again?

Sofa - Congrats! I'd imagine you were so nervous going in - what a great thing to see! Hope I get that chance someday soon. Sounds like all's going well.

AFM: still the same! Don't look like I'll ov at usual time, so something must be disrupted, though temps are at low level they generally reach before ov so oestrogen must be ok?!? Spotting a little, but it's brown now at least. No more pains, so I presume that's good. Waiting for inspiration! Beginning to catch myself thinking "well, if I don't ov till next week, that's two weeks for my lining to build back up, which could be ok"........worst person to follow through on a plan to wait EVER!

 

[Literati_Love]

Boodley - the plan is to test next Wednesday (the 27th)!

Hahaha I totally understand why you'd try to convince yourself to try right away again. Whatever you decide, I am sure it will be the right choice!
Any number of factors (stress, certain supplements, illness, the m/c) could be delaying your ovulation so I wouldn't worry. And I agree with your lower temps your estrogen must still be working its magic!

 

[Linnypops]

Boodley - hehe...it seems rude not to if ov is happening. I guess you can go with your gut when the time is right

 

[celine]

Boodley after my first mc i ov-ed 3 weeks after with the mmc i mc 11. Sept and ov 9 oct!

 

[Jalanis22]

Hey ladies....i had a d& c on the 31st of oct....i havent had my AF yet but we tried BD once thats it...i had CM like 4 days ago but not sure if its ovulation or just there.

 

[boodley]

Linny - laughed when I saw your post coz I thought "it has nothin to do with my gut" - wink wink, nudge nudge xx

 

[Linnypops]

Boodley - haha. I just did a snort of dirty laughing then. X

Jalanis - you're very welcome here love, so sorry to see your loss... Are you wanting to try again before af comes or more ntnp? Tbh ovulation in the cycle after mc is totally random from what I've seen. It varies so much and previous cycle lengths get chucked out the window. Good luck anyway!

 

[Jrepp]

Afm- AF is angry! Tmi... I've never had such a heavy flow. I freaked out a bit yesterday at the amount of blood and huge clots but she seems to have settled a bit today.

I'm sorry AF was so rotten for you yesterday, but glad that it has mellowed a bit today!

AFM- cd 2 today, AF came and with a vengeance *sigh* the cycles after a loss are always bad AF for me, painful and heavy, and this one is BAD. Super painful and heavy I'm hurting emotionally and physically but gotta move on, right? Have my 1st appt with the RE 11/27 and my regular OB took 12 tubes of blood 2 days ago. Running tests for clotting disorders, any deficiencies, progesterone levels, etc. I now have an "Infertility Specialist" It makes me hopeful for answers but also makes me sad, like now I have an official specialist because my body's so broken a normal OB can't help me *sigh*

Did get my beta back from the OB- 9. Yep, that'd be a Chemical. Took a FRER this morning and it was completely BFN, so I'm probably at/close to 0 now.

Trying to work on my PMA this cycle, but I'm with LL- I'm just not very hopeful right now. Hope hurts too much.

Does AF seem to be worse for you if you take NSAIDs? I only ask because I have a very rare blood disorder and periods were always a bitch for me. I would bleed through a pad every half hour or so, cramp so bad I literally couldn't move and would be miserable. Since my diagnosis I have cut out NSAIDs and my periods have substantially decreased in pain and blood.

AFM - my temps did take a happy turn today so I did let myself feel a bit hopeful for a few minutes although I really shouldn't!

Even a few moments of hopefulness are a great blessing. How are you feeling otherwise?

AFM: still the same! Don't look like I'll ov at usual time, so something must be disrupted, though temps are at low level they generally reach before ov so oestrogen must be ok?!? Spotting a little, but it's brown now at least. No more pains, so I presume that's good. Waiting for inspiration! Beginning to catch myself thinking "well, if I don't ov till next week, that's two weeks for my lining to build back up, which could be ok"........worst person to follow through on a plan to wait EVER!

I definitely feel like o was pushed back for you, the question is though, was it delayed due to the surgery stressing your body, or did your body reset and start over. Either way, good luck!

Hey ladies....i had a d& c on the 31st of oct....i havent had my AF yet but we tried BD once thats it...i had CM like 4 days ago but not sure if its ovulation or just there.

Welcome! Are you temping or using opk's?


Afm: yesterday had a very light flow, today is just a few spots. Temp is pretty steady, but I'm fighting a nasty headache. I think it's due to the weather.

 

[Jalanis22]

Hi jrepp no im not temping im just going on with it lol..

Linnypops.....its ok thanks and well im actually trying again but so far we have only BD once and yes i know lol i have been asking for how you guys get the cycles or if you count them the day of the d&c which i just bled for like 5 days and thats it....but if its the case that bleeding counts as cycle day 1 then im on day 22....hopefully AF shows up to get back on track or make a miracle happen

 

[GRGirl]

Jalanis- welcome! I count first day of red bleeding as cd 1. I did with all my losses too.

Jrepp- I actually can't take NSAIDs, so I never do, except this last cycle I started a low dose baby aspirin. I usually just grit my teeth and deal with cramps or pop a Tylenol.

Afm- got most of my blood work back, everything ok, no clotting disorders, just low Protein S. It wasn't too low though. Doc says it may be just "bad luck", keep taking my baby aspirin, and the RE will decide if we should add Heparin injections (I guess standard treatment is baby asp & the Heparin, but since it isn't that low, it may not be necessary to do shots?) idk guess we will see but tbh I don't think 3 losses is "bad luck". Maybe it is