Waiting for ov after mc. 8BFPs so far!! *"the list" page 291*

[Munchkin30]

Lol! Thanks hon. Yes with my dd I tested at 10dpo and got a bfn, then didn't test til 13dpo and bfp! With my last pregnancy I don't think I tested til 11dpo and got a faint bfp my major symptom is still waking up at 5am!! I'm sure that's my major pregnancy symptom....

 

[aurora32]

Morning all,

Great news Munchkin, fingers x its a bfp for you , im thinking around November for me to see a bfp after my hormones settle down. Just have to wait and see xx

 

[celine]

Ive never had a bfp before 13dpo myself, some exciting stuff happening in here

Me im a bit lost, the pregnancy after a loss forum is a bit dull its just like mostly geoups of ppl due in April or due in march etc. I dont quite belong there i feel... The dirst tri forum is anniying with ppl posting threads called omg and when u open it says ginger biscuits are heavens answer to ms.... So im not quite sure where to be really. I feel bad posting here bcos i dont want ppl to feel saddened but rather hopeful. You all dont mind me sticking it out here for bit? I mean even if we all get our bfps in thnext month munchkin and i would be the only ones in the oregnancy after a loss group for april .

Otherwise feeling alright, trying not to wish the days away but more waiting for the scan next Tuesday. School starts this monday horaaaay! My son turned 4 so he will start big school ill be able to clean the house better and grocery shop with only one kid woohoo.

 

[ItsAWonder]

Celine - as for me - I am happy to have someone here who is pregnant! Good for you! It's what we all want and, after lots of sadness, seeing you here gives me hope and fills me with excitement. Please stay!

Literati - congrats on AF's arrival. What a relief. This is my first cycle ttc again as well and it feels good to be on the hopeful end of this all. So - welcome back.

Munchkin - hang in there. Only a few more days to go to really know what's going on. Fingers crossed for you my dear!

Here - only 2 dpo and counting the days. Just realized I will either get AF or not when my mom is in town. She has no idea that I am trying to get pregnant or have had miscarriages and I am not ready to tell her. (I love my mom, but she will make it all about her rather than support me. She will also tell everyone she knows so she has reason to cry and have people 'oooh' and 'ahhh' her.) Time to begin preparing for a brave face....

 

[celine]

Its a wonder how long is your mom in town for? My mom has lives with us just over 5 years and is keaving at last next month, im not telling her about this pregnancy just yet as i dont need more comments about how can i cope with th kids and tension in the home (which comes from her!) ok rant over.
And when will you test?
Munchkin your temps are looking positive too

 

[ItsAWonder]

She won't be in town very long which is bitter sweet. I only get to see her about 1ce a year and she will be here for just under one week. (Congrats on getting your house back. Is that bitter sweet as well?)
I won't test unless I miss a period. My chemical was so heartbreaking - seeing the positive and bleeding just days later. I don't want to go through that again. My last pregnancy I was about 5 days late before I tested. Yes, I lost that one too, but I was initially comforted by seeing a very, very dark line. If I miss AF I will test after my mom leaves so probably not until 9/4 or 9/5

 

[Munchkin30]

Hey ladies,
Celine you don't need to go anywhere! Stay here where we need you. When we're all in first tri or pregnancy after a loss we can start our own gang
I'm feeling pretty crappy today, feel like afs starting all the time I know it's not necessarily a bad thing but I think I instinctively know its going to be bad news this month oh well x x x

 

[celine]

Awww munchkin, i cant wait to see your temps tomorrow and hopefully a sneaky hptmpic?

 

[Anniebobs]

Same goes for me Celine, I like that you got pregnant so quick it gives me hope!

 

[Munchkin30]

Awww munchkin, i cant wait to see your temps tomorrow and hopefully a sneaky hptmpic?

Thanks! I think my temps were only up today cos i Jose out of bed to hpt and forgot to temp but It was so early I went back to bed and tested 20 mins later. I really wouldn't be surprised if its under coverline tomorrow and AF is on her way I'm at a hotel with a pool so I went and bought sanitary towels and tampons as well tonight ready so I can still go swimming!

Glad everyone seems to be doing well and being positive! Lovely to have you all on this journey x x x

 

[aurora32]

You have to stay here Celine, we need you over here, give us moral support and hope for our own bfp, fingers x munchkin its looking very hopeful xx

 

[Literati_Love]

Thanks for the support, everyone! It feels good to be back in the TTC groove again. Looking forward to hearing about all of your BFPs in the coming months ahead!
I agree that you stay, Celine! It is comforting and exciting knowing that you are already pregnant. You are like the goal we are all working towards!

Munchkin, do you normally have a very short LP? I really hope you are wrong about AF being on its way!

 

[celine]

Come on munchkin....update? Tx guys im feeling the love snd so cheerng you on!

 

[Anniebobs]

Can I ask how long it took you all to get a bfn after the mc? I know munchkin you took about 3-4 weeks didn't it. Celine yours must have been super quick! I'm still bleeding so not expecting it any time soon, I just can't wait to get ttc though!!

 

[Munchkin30]

Hey ladies! I'm so desperate to be able to give you good news but every day i seem more and more uncertain! My temps have shot up but I'm staying in a boiling hot hotel room and had been up to pee twice so that could be why. I did 1 hpt and it was bright white then I left it and looked again and it had fluff over the but with the line and when I wiped it off there was a faint mark where the line should be so I tested again and I swear there's a line, but only in the right light!! It looks so white in other lights. I'm just wondering whether to get oh to look or if he'll think I'm a total loon!!
I was also awake at 5 this morning again after being awake til 12.30 with the child so my eyes might be a bit blurry!
How's everyone else? X

 

[Anniebobs]

That's so exciting munchkin I hope this is the start of it for you! And the fact that AF still isn't here means that you've got a decent lp anyway even if she does show

 

[Munchkin30]

Oh and literati my Lp is usually 13 days but as we've said before, all bets are off x

 

[Munchkin30]

Anniebobs it seems to vary so much between ladies when they get a -ve hpt. Some are just a few days, some are 12 weeks! I did a few things which may or may not have helped flush the hpt (it took nearly 4 weeks, but after a 12 week pregnancy it could have been much longer I don't know!)
I drank gallons of water and nettle tea and raspberry leaf tea. I also took milk thistle among lots of other things! I can give you the full list if you like but it's very long!!

Xx

 

[celine]

Anniebobs the first time i tested after the mc was two weeks later and it was already bfn, then a week later only i ovulated. Munchkin im loving your updates!

 

[Anniebobs]

Thanks girls. Munchkin I think that's what I'm worried about - I was pregnant for 13 weeks so it's gonna take AGES! I'm doing yoga and drinking tons of water at the moment but might look into those too. RLT tastes awful though, I'd have to get the capsules!