Waiting for ov after mc. 8BFPs so far!! *"the list" page 291*

[Munchkin30]

Check this out on AMZN: Trying Again: A Guide to Pregnancy After Miscarriage, Stillbirth, and Infant Loss: A Guide to Pregnancy After Miscarriage, Stillbirth and Infant Loss https://amazon.co.uk/dp/B004CCQYC0

 

[Munchkin30]

I think it well could of...i think if i hadnt done my digi when i got that one positive opk i also would of doubted, so im not sure what to think, did you see any changes with the ferning?
Btw i have kindle on my ipad and would love that link to the book pls.

Link is above. I'm really hoping this is ov. I've had boob pain and mild ov type cramps today but it could be my body playing tricks on me or all in my crazy mind!! Will bd again tonight anyway and see if we get a temp rise tomorrow x

 

[garfie]

Hi Munchkin I would say you will see a temp rise tomorrow I know I'm 7DPO but I also know I'm not really in with a chance this month - so I want it to hurry up and pass

My LP has been known to go anywhere from 5 - 14DPO although as we know my body has had a few setbacks - the average is 11DPO which is what I think FF is going by

AFM - Still got that sharp pain - maybe I haven't O at all and the temp rise has been a fluke



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[celine]

Do you usually feel ov?

 

[garfie]

Celine - I sometimes do but not like this - but maybe everything will be magnified as this is the first one after the DNC

So for now I guess I still wait

Might test tomorrow - not that I'm expecting anything - just because I went and bought some today and I can't leave them in the cupboard all alone now can I

How are you feeling today hun - any symptoms yet?



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[celine]

I agree you need topee on something!

 

[Literati_Love]

garfie - That's too bad your timing didn't work out this month. But we can both start a new cycle of trying next time! You only Oed 2 days before me, so it looks like we'll get AF at about the same time. Do you normally have a short luteal phase? I'm surprised you would be expecting AF already! I am not expecting mine until Aug 15/16. I've been getting weird twinges and stuff this cycle as well. I think perhaps my uterus hasn't quite shrunk back to normal yet? I'm not really sure...but it is slowly going away so I think my body is going back to normal.

edit: Sorry about that - I hadn't read your later post when you said your typical luteal phase length. It has quite a wide range, doesn't it?

Munchkin - I hope you really do ov this month! I understand feeling frustrated and starting to give up already. I see how you feel like you would be squandering a chance if you didn't try this month. I almost wish we had gone ahead and tried this cycle, but I still feel that it would have been awful to be finding out I was pregnant while I was traveling and several hours away from my hubby with no one to take me to the hospital if something went wrong. So I am accepting that I have lost a month and I guess I will move on.

 

[Munchkin30]

Do you usually feel ov?

Yes I usually get clear pinching pains where my ovaries are. I remember noticing them before I started ttc and never knew what it was! However as with everything all bets are off after miscarriage

 

[celine]

 

[Munchkin30]

Grrr OH is really stressed tonight about something and nothing and I've told him we could do with BDing tonight but he's just wandering round the house looking at me like I'm nagging him! I might not even be ovulating but I'm so worried about missing it
I don't want to have to DTD if he's not up for it, I certainly don't want to nag him. After my dd waking me up lots last night I just want to go to bed and sleep, in fact I just want to be pregnant like I was 3 weeks ago but I'm not so here we are again!!

Grrr. Rant over

 

[celine]

*hugs* get some sleep xxxx fingers crossed for morning nookie?

 

[Munchkin30]

Thanks! Sadly no chance as he's got a super early start! Praying he'll still be up for it tonight it's difficult to explain why it's so important without putting the pressure on which is lethal! It's only 10.35pm here. The night is still young I hope!!
How are you? X

 

[Munchkin30]

Well we bd'd! When we went to bed oh said he was too stressed for sex so we had a bug heart to heart, he explained why he was stressed, I explained why I was and how important baby making was to me and had a rant about another one of my antenatal group friends announcing her pregnancy on Facebook tonight and had a little cry and one thing led to another and I'm now lying on my back willing the little fellas to swim for their lives! It's now after midnight and last night my dd was up at 2.30 and 6 so I'm not expecting much sleep but praying my temp goes up tomorrow else it'll all have been in vain!!

 

[Literati_Love]

Munchkin - I sure hope it was not in vain! Your husband sounds like a very understanding and nice guy. At least you have such a nice partner to go through this with.

 

[Munchkin30]

Aww he is amazing but he's a total workaholic and often gets so caught up in his work he doesn't think of anything else! When we talk though we're great. We're both read heads though and can REALLY wind each other up at times!!

 

[Munchkin30]

Is it worrying that I've entered my BDing on my fertility friend chart whilst I'm still lying here?? How romantic!! Glad oh is asleep

 

[Literati_Love]

That's too bad he's a workaholic but ya, no relationship is perfect! We all drive each other crazy at times.
Hahahaa don't worry, I do that ALL the time. The time after BDing is not really romantic at all!

 

[Munchkin30]

Yes he's an excellent provider and at least he's not unemployed bumming around on computer games all day!!

Well my temp didn't rise today what a shame if I'd not been waiting for oh to bd I could have had 2 more previous hours sleep to prepare me for the 5.50am wake up ca from my princess! Yawn...

How's everyone else? Celine did you download the book?

 

[celine]

Haha your dh sounds alot like mine, good that you did bd in case but urgh 5am wake up call...
Havent yet have to ask hubby and he is a workaholic so i barely see him in the week im always alseep

 

[Munchkin30]

It's hard isn't it, the men are working so hard out of the house and we're working hard in the house to make up for it (although I work 2-3 days a week too) and then we just never see each other! Makes ttc hard work!
How are you today?

I've decided I'm not going to ov this month, I think my body had a go but cant quite get there yet. So I'm now praying for AF x