Waiting to start IVF in January anyone else?

[star25]

Mobaby, I just had the one beta, seems silly really not having anything to compare it to, just have to wait fpr first scan which is less than 2 weeks ago, just wish I knew beforehand that everything is ok x

 

[19yrOldGirl]

I only get one beta if over 50 too xx

 

[star25]

Is it your otd today 19 or have I got that completely wrong? X

 

[MoBaby]

Bump we have 5 frosties; transferring 2. It terrifies me but I need this to work. Transfer time is 3 pm!!

 

[boobear2872]

Good luck mo baby

 

[19yrOldGirl]

Today beta was 20....... X

 

[MoBaby]

19 what day are you? As you know I was 30 and lost the baby. I'm sorry about this

 

[FirstTry]

I'm so sorry Amore That is extremely difficult.

I'm sorry your beta wasn't higher, 19.

 

[star25]

Are you having another beta 19? X

 

[19yrOldGirl]

Yeah Monday I'm meant to go in but I cant get time off work for it.....
My first try my beta was 44 and I lost that one so I'm more then sure this is going the same way. Iv no other reasonable explanation for the low number. I'm 9dp 5dt.

However confusing me is the fact my test I done still says positive and apparently picks up an hcg amount of over 40?? Anyone help me with this one x

 

[FirstTry]

Yeah Monday I'm meant to go in but I cant get time off work for it.....
My first try my beta was 44 and I lost that one so I'm more then sure this is going the same way. Iv no other reasonable explanation for the low number. I'm 9dp 5dt.

However confusing me is the fact my test I done still says positive and apparently picks up an hcg amount of over 40?? Anyone help me with this one x

Blood tests are more accurate than urine tests.

 

[MoBaby]

My digital was positive a couple days before beta 32 on one try so they are very sensitive.

 

[Aurora CHK]

Hi ladies :wave:

Amoreamy, sending you huge hugs: I know how important this was. Feel free to share anything about your experience either here or in a journal. I saw your signature says blighted ovum - I wondered how you know or is that me being ignorant about what causes a chemical pregnancy? (Have I had blighted ovums too?)

Lots of love to you and everyone else too.

Loads of luck Mo!

Sorry to have missed so much but I'll try to catch up! X

 

[MoBaby]

Blighted ovum is only confirmed by ultrasound. Would see empty sac. Takes a while to miscarry them. Can be cause of mmc but you have to see the sac on ultrasound and it be empty at a certain point (5-6 weeks). Chemical pregnancy is having a positive pregnancy test then AF coming or nothing seen on ultrasound and ectopic is ruled out.

 

[Aurora CHK]

Thanks Mo. Mine are all chemical pregnancies then.

On another note, I spent the morning looking after my friend's 6month old while she had a dentist appt for reconstructive work. It was really lovely so I'm feeling even more positive about considering a donor egg cycle or trying to adopt a baby if we get lucky (we know babies are rare). I know I can easily love a child not related to me genetically. Obviously would much rather that, for a billion reasons, but beggars can't be choosers so I'm trying to manage my expectations a bit more!

 

[FirstTry]

Thanks Mo. Mine are all chemical pregnancies then.

On another note, I spent the morning looking after my friend's 6month old while she had a dentist appt for reconstructive work. It was really lovely so I'm feeling even more positive about considering a donor egg cycle or trying to adopt a baby if we get lucky (we know babies are rare). I know I can easily love a child not related to me genetically. Obviously would much rather that, for a billion reasons, but beggars can't be choosers so I'm trying to manage my expectations a bit more!

Yes, you can easily love a child not genetically related to you! My friend was struggling with this and then she said she realized how much she loved her dogs and they aren't even people, much less genetically related

 

[Mrs W 11]

Aurora, I've just joined the inconceivable and beyond thread in assisted conception.... It's all ladies who have or are using donor eggs. I'm not yet but I wanted advice and info so I've joined and they are a lovely bunch of ladies so well worth popping in. One lady had been telling me about epigenetics which is basically studies on how the pregnant lady affects the genetics of the baby and not just the lady who biologically produces the eggs, very interesting.

Love to everyone xx

 

[Libby4snoopy]

Amore: so sorry for what you are going through. Xx

Im suppose to be doing a frozen transfer this month. Started usual spotting on wednesday but my period never really progressed to a proper period. Just phoned clinic and was told not to start meds and to come in on monday for a scan to see whats happening. Im really worried now that it wont happen this month not because i mind waiting but we had a scratch done and am now worried we will have to pay another 350euros nxt cycle to get it done again. Just wanted to ask if anyone had any experience with this kind of thing?

 

[Jaybo]

Hi ladies,

Mo good luck with your FET. So exciting that you are starting again so soon. Hope this is a lucky cycle for you.

Amore so sorry to read this hun I'm happy for you to share as much as you like here, although if it is sensitive as BMW says you can always put it under a spoiler. xx

19 I'm sorry your beta was low I hope you are doing ok.

BMW - how are you feeling? I don't know much about betas but it was so close to doubling I'm sure everything is ok. When is your next test?

Hope all is going well with everyone else who got their BFP this cycle.

MrsW - I'll post on the other thread too but I was excited to read about your appointment yesterday. Sounds great! Hope your WTF appointment went well too.

Libby - sorry your AF hasn't arrived. There's no sign of mine either, so I'm 5 days late which is unheard of for me. Even did a HPT thinking that maybe a miracle had happened! But just seems to be a cruel left over of the previous cycle! Hope your AF arrives soon and doesn't delay your FET.

Hi everyone else that I've missed xxx

 

[star25]

Hi all

Good to hear from you Mrs w, hope you are well

Libby, sorry I haven't had experience in that but hope you can continue your fet as planned I was worried about not getting af soon enough after the scratch so had provera ready to take but it showed in the end

Hi jaybo hope af stops messing with you soon!