Waiting to start IVF in January anyone else?

[beneathmywing]

Hi ladies,

Just got back from the doctor. Babies are fine and growing. Unfortunately because of the type of twins we are having, I'll have to visit the hospital every 2 weeks for monitoring. But I'm actually not worried . It is what it is. If these babies are meant for us, they will make it through . I'll catch up with everyone in a bit. Need food

Glad to hear everything is going well and I am sure it will continue to go well!!!!

 

[FirstTry]

Ladies, I am trying to figure out how many days I should take off work next week? I'm a stenographer so I have my equipment in a rolling bag and have to carry it up and down stairs when I take the train to work and it's pretty heavy.. so I am worried about that. I was thinking either going back Wednesday or Thursday.

They told me no lifting over 20 lbs for 3 days after ET.

 

[beneathmywing]

Ladies, I am trying to figure out how many days I should take off work next week? I'm a stenographer so I have my equipment in a rolling bag and have to carry it up and down stairs when I take the train to work and it's pretty heavy.. so I am worried about that. I was thinking either going back Wednesday or Thursday.

They told me no lifting over 20 lbs for 3 days after ET.

Transfer is Saturday so I guess Wednesday would be okay then.. I just feel like if I am home too long I will go insane! lol

 

[MoBaby]

First congrats on pupo!

This thread moves so fast...
Cmo just saw your news about the frostie. That's great!

 

[amoreamy]

Ladies, I am trying to figure out how many days I should take off work next week? I'm a stenographer so I have my equipment in a rolling bag and have to carry it up and down stairs when I take the train to work and it's pretty heavy.. so I am worried about that. I was thinking either going back Wednesday or Thursday.

I know this isn't the most useful response but if you can try and listen to your body and see how you feel. I wouldn't have wanted to carry anything heavy this week at all. What about pregnancy with your job, what is your plan?

 

[amoreamy]

Ilt, it sounds great. I, like you, would rather be at the doctors regularly than to go unchecked so it's probably a really good thing.

Mrs W glad the toothpaste is doing the trick! I think this stage in the tww is a really difficult time, lots of blah feelings. I had my first real weepy noment (of the tww) amongst what was otherwise a perfectly good day. It does funny things to you this whole thing!

 

[19yrOldGirl]

Thats awesome ILT glad all is well, I think visits to the hospital more regular is far more reassuring then going unchecked for week on end xx

 

[star25]

Morning ladies

Ilt,glad all went well and it will continue to, good news on the monitoring though you're being well looked after xx

Beneath, It would be a good idea to leave it a bit at least while little embie settles into his/her new home, I'm sure you will do what feels right xx

I woke up this morning and had a bit of an ache on left side and through to my back then went across the middle, it wasn't a sharp pain and think it might have been because I needed to pee as its eased off now, I just hope its not af. Also, and I know its the morning and I've been awake since 6am but I'm really tired like my eyes just want to shut and I'm not normally like this in the mornings, could still be the cold though as I'm still sneezing and stuffy but we'll see. Feeling more positive though after this mornings ache

How is everyone else? xx

 

[lizzie78]

Oh ladies I don't believe It, I feel cursed. My pregnancy tests have no lines this morning. I have a blood test booked at my clinic at 10am to confirm level of hcg in my system but it's another chemical pregnancy

 

[star25]

Oh no LIzzie, I don't believe it either for you, so sorry, hope blood test comes back differently though, what did clinic say?
xxx

 

[Jaybo]

Oh Lizzy honey, I can't believe it either. So sorry

 

[Bumpsparkle]

Lizzie, massive hugs. Can't imagine what you're going through right now. Stay strong girlie x

 

[amoreamy]

Lizzie, I don't believe it, I'm so sorry Let us know what the bloods say xx

 

[Mrs W 11]

Oh lizzie I'm so sorry love. Life can be so so cruel. Sending so many love and hugs to you right now. Let us know what the beta says. We are all here if you want to talk, just wish we could give you a massive hug right now. Will be thinking of you today xx

Ilt, glad the twins are ok and I agree, regular appointments are reassuring, at least you know those babies have the best chance being monitors regularly and all will be fine. Only 7 months until they will be in your arms!

Star - that sounds positive!! I'm jealous! No symptoms at all here.

Amore you are right it's soooo hard! In general I honestly don't think mine has worked but every now and then I let my self believe that maybe my embie did keep growing, I've done it before so it's possible.

Part of me is dreading a bfn and part of me just wants to know. I can't help thinking this weekend is make or break really as in I think my the end f the weekend or early next week if I'm not feeling anything at all it's very likely a bfn. Ughhhhhh!

 

[Comfycushions]

Hi all, I've been reading but not posting. Don't think we'll be trying again but will be considering fostering/adoption.

Lizzie, shocked to see your news. I am so so sorry. It's all just so unfair.

 

[star25]

hi comfy, good luck when you start the fostering and adopting, you will be great xx

mrs w, I'm back to being symptomless again so don't get too jealous! its so hard, you get your hopes up then get scared and the negativity sets in, try and stay positive, we have every chance of this working xx

 

[Ilovetomatoes]

Currently 2 am right now, so I apologize for being brief.

Lizzie, no words can describe how I feel for you. I truly truly truly hope those tests were just garbage. waiting impatiently for your news.Massive

 

[Aurora CHK]

I'm so sick with grief for Lizzie that I can't really say anything else, ladies, but I'll be sending you all lots of love and luck.

As you might all know, Lizzie and I also cycled together in July and both had chemicals then too (I also feel pretty convinced as you know that this will also end the same way for me but I'm just not as brave as Lizzie to test again.) So we've been through so much together I just can't bear this to be happening. Big hugs to everyone but particularly for my darling sweet Lizzie

 

[Mrs W 11]

Sending huge hugs to you too Aurora

 

[CMo]

Aw Lizzie I'm so sorry! Def not what I wanted to wake up to this morning! Sending you lots of hugs xx