We are PUPOLICIOUS hotties! (19 BFPs so far!!)

[justhoping92]

Oh ok good. Don't be sorry, it is absolutely normal to be that way after what we have been through. I really do hope you get your BFP soon!! And I am X everything so that it is a perfect little sticky bean!

I'll keep everything crossed for you too! I hope we can all get our BFP's close together. I can only imagine what our thread would look like if we were all prego together! Oh the topics of conversation we could have!

I almost feel sorry for my doc. I am going to be a patient from hell during my next pregnancy, and I am an emotional person anyway, so they better have their kleenex stocked too because I am sure I will be a basketcase!

Thank you!!
OH wow!! That thread will be everything and anything regarding pregnancy....even the embarrassing things, like a leaky vajajay, sprouting milk from our bbs...things like that!!

And that is gonna make two of us driving our drs crazy. Instead of the dr calling me to remind me of my appointment its going to be the other way around

 

[justwaiting]

this thread moves so fast! Good luck with the testing friday ladies.
My dr thinks I have low progesterone too and has said she will put me on supplements from the day I get my bfp if possible. I will be doing bloodwork all the way through this cycle so should know early what is going on. the idea of losing another baby is so scary.
As for the question I will tell my mum and possibly my best friend this time and not another soul until after 8 weeks and then the rest of the family at 12-14wks. I have been burnt twice and will not make that mistake again.

 

[jessy1101]

Huh well i've got cramping in my uterus or right around where my uterus is. I also had that last time i got preg but it started at around 9dpo so i'm a teeny bit early compared to then. Doesnt mather tho i know everything can change between each pregnancy.

Hmmmmmm well 7dpo today and pretty much trying to tie myself into my chair at work so to not go buy a hpt and use it right now LOL. It'S sooooooooooo hard 'SOB'. I promissed to contain myself until at least tomorrow but i dunno...it's not lookin too good hiiihiii

How r u ladies this morning? New developpements? Ways to give me to not go and use 30 hpt's right now??

 

[Twinkie210]

I'm cramping too, I hope it is a good sign, I don't remember feeling this much cramping last time, but who knows! My temp went up again this morning. Other than that everything is the same.

30 hpts! Is it possible to produce that much pee? LOL I think you would have to down a gallon of water! OK, the thing that kept me from testing was knowing that it was extremely possible that I would get a BFN even if I was prego. So that was enough for me to say, no wait another day. Oh and if all else fails, so you have an OPK? I peed on one last night to give me a fix. It wasn't positive of course, but it made me feel better. (I know it is a sick addiction isn't it?)

 

[Twinkie210]

OK, I have a personal problem unrelated to TTC that I need some help with. Do you mind if I ask some advice?

 

[NewbieLisette]

Hey Girls, sorry I missed soo much yesterday!!! Darn work getting in the way

Jessy I'm sooo excited for ya! Only advice I can give to deter you from testing too early is think of the sadness on a false BFN just cuz its a little too early...then you'll be down all weekend for nothing!!!! What do you have planned for Canadian Thanksgiving? I always find it helps to browse recepies or something to take my mind off TTC and testing ect!!! Do you have a pintrest account? Great for mindless scrolling and avoiding work

Morning Twinkie...ask away girl!

 

[jessy1101]

Twinks u can share what ever u want on here u know that sweety!!

Trust me i can receite at least 10 reasons by heart that testing today is too early. And then i go on google. And google the chances of getting a small sliver of a BFP if i had implantation tuesday am. And then i forget the 10 reasons LOL.

I'll try to hold off till tomorrow like i wanted originaly. It's the cramping that screwed me up since it's what i had last time.

Newbie i've got DH bday dinner with his family sat night and on sunday i'm going to my parents place for home cooked thanksgiving dinner so turkey, stuffing, mash potatoes, fresh bread and cranberries mmmhhmmm...You?

 

[NewbieLisette]

Jessy you're too funny girl! Repeat after me "I will not test, I will not test, I will not...." ppfftttt who are we kidding I'd be pee'ing on a stick even if there wasn't a tiny chance i could see that faint line

Going to my in-laws on Monday for the whole dinner thing as my mom is away this year Also making pies on Sunday with a friend and her little one so I'll be nicely and stocked for the winter And last but not least going to Mount Royal (sure you know it)! Its a tradition now cuz that's where H proposed 2years ago this coming weekend! Gonna try to focus on happy stuff this weekend

 

[jessy1101]

Ya i know i was reading that lil mantra and uh huh it's not sinking in whatsoever....see this is why i think google is evil and we should try and avoid it. Honestly if ever i do test and get a neg it's to be expected and if i get a freakin pos??? Well i doubt i'll be uberly efficient for the rest of the afternoon at work

Love love loveeee mont royal very gorgeous! It's fun that he proposed there it will definetly cheery ui up!

Twinks i'm waiting on ya to discuss what u wanted to talk bout cuz it will get my mind off of peeing...wow sad to see the day has come where taking my pants off in front of a toilet makes me giddy...bahh at least it doesnt turn me on so u know lesser of 2 evils i guess

 

[Twinkie210]

Thanksgiving dinner sounds awesome! Can I come up and celebrate it with you and then you can come down and celebrate it with us next month! LOL

OK, so I got a sobbing phone call from my sis this morning. She has an awesome job that has real career potential and pays well, but she has to work crazy hours for about 5-6 months of the year (like last night she was at work until 9pm). She is really smart and good at her job, but the hours get to her sometimes (who wouldn't be a little grumpy working that much). Well she got married 06/2010 and her hubby is more of a blue collar sort of guy (nothing wrong with that, he is just a lot different than her). Well he gets really mad at her and wants her to quit her job because she has to work all these crazy hours all the time and gets a little stressed sometimes. The problem is she make a lot more money than him and I know they couldn't afford to pay half of their bills if she didn't work (and the job market sucks right now). So she even tried telling him that all he needed was for him to tell her "I'm sorry you had a bad day at work". But he said that she is not going to control him and he will say what he thinks and he will do what he wants! So they have been fighting a lot and everytime she trys to talk to him he acts like a child and says "I'm a grown up I will do what I want and if you don't like it you can divorce me." So she calls me upset when they fight.

Here is the advice I need. Do I try to make her feel better and just tell her to talk to him and try to make up? I think that is what she wants me to say. But what I really think is he is an A$$hole and she should cut her losses and move on. To make matters worse she told me they were going to start TTC! She wants a baby really badly and I think that she will stay with him just so she can get one, even though she is unhappy (We are both going to be 29 this year- we are twins). I think she just feels like if she doesn't make this work she won't get to have the family she wants.

What should I tell her?

 

[NewbieLisette]

Silver lining Jessy! Hang in there girl!

 

[Twinkie210]

Ya i know i was reading that lil mantra and uh huh it's not sinking in whatsoever....see this is why i think google is evil and we should try and avoid it. Honestly if ever i do test and get a neg it's to be expected and if i get a freakin pos??? Well i doubt i'll be uberly efficient for the rest of the afternoon at work

Love love loveeee mont royal very gorgeous! It's fun that he proposed there it will definetly cheery ui up!

Twinks i'm waiting on ya to discuss what u wanted to talk bout cuz it will get my mind off of peeing...wow sad to see the day has come where taking my pants off in front of a toilet makes me giddy...bahh at least it doesnt turn me on so u know lesser of 2 evils i guess

Haha! we could revert you back to potty training. If you pee in the toilet (and not on a stick) you get a cookie. That's a big girl!

 

[jessy1101]

The sad thing with this is that there is no win win u know? If u tell her what u really think she will be mad and hurt and her anger towards him will turn on u. If u encourage her to make it work and in the long run it doesnt she might tell you omg why didnt u say anything i could of saved myself soooo much trouble and heartbrake and blablalblalbla.

Ovbiously she married him cuz there is something about him (god know what he must have a magical peen LOL) that she loves. Some people are attracted to others while we can be the WTF huh? Sooo dont see it.

The only thing u can do is be neutral. Say ok listen i want to be here for u and i know ur ifnd this really hard. My opinion is can u see yourself put up with this for the next 40 years? Maybe your job is very stressfull and u dont enjoy it anymore u should look around for something that makes u happy but until then money wise u need this job. You have to be outright straight with him and say look u r and adult and i love u very much but it's so hard for me and i know deep down u want to be there and support me but i really need u to be more vocal with that.

Soo ya that's my opinion...too bad he sounds like a dick...she needs a nice lil canadian boy that one LOLOLOL. Seriously tho a big bright star to u for not trying to stranggle him any chance u get ur a really trooper sweeter i would of stuck a turkey baster (in the thanksgiving spirit) up his hoo hahh

 

[jessy1101]

Oooohhhhhh can it be homemade gooey choco chip wiht sprinkles on top cookies?? Mhhhhmmmmmmm me like...me like very much....

 

[Twinkie210]

The sad thing with this is that there is no win win u know? If u tell her what u really think she will be mad and hurt and her anger towards him will turn on u. If u encourage her to make it work and in the long run it doesnt she might tell you omg why didnt u say anything i could of saved myself soooo much trouble and heartbrake and blablalblalbla.

Ovbiously she married him cuz there is something about him (god know what he must have a magical peen LOL) that she loves. Some people are attracted to others while we can be the WTF huh? Sooo dont see it.

The only thing u can do is be neutral. Say ok listen i want to be here for u and i know ur ifnd this really hard. My opinion is can u see yourself put up with this for the next 40 years? Maybe your job is very stressfull and u dont enjoy it anymore u should look around for something that makes u happy but until then money wise u need this job. You have to be outright straight with him and say look u r and adult and i love u very much but it's so hard for me and i know deep down u want to be there and support me but i really need u to be more vocal with that.

Soo ya that's my opinion...too bad he sounds like a dick...she needs a nice lil canadian boy that one LOLOLOL. Seriously tho a big bright star to u for not trying to stranggle him any chance u get ur a really trooper sweeter i would of stuck a turkey baster (in the thanksgiving spirit) up his hoo hahh

Haha- he is a real dick. I think his parents have always done everything for him so he is one of those people who doesn't know how to be an adult. I told my husband that I wanted to call him up and give him a piece of my mind for making my sister cry all the time, but DH was smart and told me to stay out of it. It is hard though because I am a complete gossip and busybody!

The sad thing is she had an awesome BF before her husband. He was my husband's friend. And he was cute, smart, and had a decent job. Unfortunately they were in two different places emotionally when they dated and couldn't make things work. I just wish now they would have worked things out! Heck I would have dated him if I wasn't married to DH!

 

[Twinkie210]

Oooohhhhhh can it be homemade gooey choco chip wiht sprinkles on top cookies?? Mhhhhmmmmmmm me like...me like very much....

LOL, sure whatever keeps you from POAS!

Oh holy heartburn! I think my prenatals are giving me heartburn now! Seriously! I sure hope this isn't in my head!

 

[NewbieLisette]

LMAO Twinks I love the cookie idea and yes ofcourse you can come join us for Thanksgiving and we'll be down next month PLUS get the black Friday shopping in! Works for me

Jessy gave great advice! My bff is married to a jerk...diffrent circumstances but same idea...I'm her sounding board when they fight and trust me when I tell you I've tried every angle & the result is the same....she ain't leaving him I think you should voice your opinion at some point in a nice way (you know your sis, whatever she can handle) just so you have your concious clear that you said your peace...then resolve that you'll just be there for her to vent and if one day she wakes up and has enough she'll know you're always there!

 

[jessy1101]

What an ass. It's sad when things like that dont work out eh? When the person is sooo much better but they pick some1 icky. Consider yourself lucky it aint u hunny.

Thankfully we all seem to habing amazing DH's so i'm definetly glad for that. I dont think i could ever date somebody who constantly acts like a damn 5 year old.

 

[Twinkie210]

LMAO Twinks I love the cookie idea and yes ofcourse you can come join us for Thanksgiving and we'll be down next month PLUS get the black Friday shopping in! Works for me

Jessy gave great advice! My bff is married to a jerk...diffrent circumstances but same idea...I'm her sounding board when they fight and trust me when I tell you I've tried every angle & the result is the same....she ain't leaving him I think you should voice your opinion at some point in a nice way (you know your sis, whatever she can handle) just so you have your concious clear that you said your peace...then resolve that you'll just be there for her to vent and if one day she wakes up and has enough she'll know you're always there!

Thanks for the advice! And of course black friday shopping is a must! It is just as much a part of thanksgiving to me as the Turkey and pumpkin pie! I am one of those crazy people standing in line at 2am! I love it though! OOOooo hard to believe that it is roughly 6 weeks until my X-mas shopping officially begins!

 

[Twinkie210]

What an ass. It's sad when things like that dont work out eh? When the person is sooo much better but they pick some1 icky. Consider yourself lucky it aint u hunny.

Thankfully we all seem to habing amazing DH's so i'm definetly glad for that. I dont think i could ever date somebody who constantly acts like a damn 5 year old.

Haha, mine will start acting like one occasionally and I always put him in his place. I am like you are 31 years old- please act like it! While I know I said I wanted another child, you weren't the one I was talking about!