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[Twinkie210]

Jessy- so was your first scan normal and could you see a heartbeat? I think that is my worst fear is that I will have a good U/S and then something go wrong. Although if I get to see a baby next time I will be delighted. Just need that BFP....

 

[jessy1101]

I know I have to pee bad. But the waiting is killin me! Should I be mad at DH for not coming? He should be here. I didn't want him to get killed on the way in, but it's not that bad out!!!

Well....did u think the road's were really bad??

 

[lauren10]

15 mins ago was my appt. dammit!

And you know I had my whole mc totally alone because DH was in Poland, so that makes me more upset he didn't come.

 

[Twinkie210]

I know I have to pee bad. But the waiting is killin me! Should I be mad at DH for not coming? He should be here. I didn't want him to get killed on the way in, but it's not that bad out!!!

Eh, you are not having any problems, so no need to think you will need him! I was already having signs of MC, so that is why DH went with me last time. I kept telling him he didn't need to.

 

[jessy1101]

Jessy- so was your first scan normal and could you see a heartbeat? I think that is my worst fear is that I will have a good U/S and then something go wrong. Although if I get to see a baby next time I will be delighted. Just need that BFP....

There was a heartbeat but since it was really early we could only see the squiggles. We tried hearing it but it wasnt loud enough yet. She had actualy suggested me coming back at around 8 or 9 weeks and then we would of been able to hear it but i was like nahhh should be fine i'll be back for my 12 week and etc etc...guess if i would of went back we would of known right away tho. I'm not sure if i would of liked that or not..u know finding out that way. I'm torn for next time...do i want to actualy find out at a scan or find out cuz i'm bleeding and etc..

 

[jessy1101]

15 mins ago was my appt. dammit!

And you know I had my whole mc totally alone because DH was in Poland, so that makes me more upset he didn't come.

Honestly it all depends on u i think. But i definetly understand why u would want him there it's the exact same for me. I still remember seeing the baby for the first time and crying and fallin in love with it even more..and DH wasnt there to share that with me u know?

 

[lauren10]

Yeah, and he missed 4 months of my pregnancy with DD because he was in afghanistan. Not his fault but I hate doing these things alone! If it's all good news I'll prob be ok

 

[keepthefaithx]

Jessy- so was your first scan normal and could you see a heartbeat? I think that is my worst fear is that I will have a good U/S and then something go wrong. Although if I get to see a baby next time I will be delighted. Just need that BFP....

i had a "perfect" u/s at 8w5d, then when i was 12 weeks they say baby was measuring 9...can u imagine...

 

[lauren10]

Ok with him not coming I mean

 

[jessy1101]

Yeah, and he missed 4 months of my pregnancy with DD because he was in afghanistan. Not his fault but I hate doing these things alone! If it's all good news I'll prob be ok

For sure it's not his fault and i know ur not mad at him. It just sucks huh?

Well mentaly i'm pretty sure we're all there with u!! And feel free to take pics while in the room so it feels even more real and post them LOLOLOL...maybe not of ur cooch...but anything else is fine hiiiiihiiiii

 

[keepthefaithx]

you'll be fine lauren i have a great feeling

 

[lauren10]

Jessy- so was your first scan normal and could you see a heartbeat? I think that is my worst fear is that I will have a good U/S and then something go wrong. Although if I get to see a baby next time I will be delighted. Just need that BFP....

i had a "perfect" u/s at 8w5d, then when i was 12 weeks they say baby was measuring 9...can u imagine...

That is brutal

 

[jessy1101]

you'll be fine lauren i have a great feeling

Me too toooo!!

 

[keepthefaithx]

jessy hows the vadge doing today ? lol

 

[keepthefaithx]

right lauren? like thats like pretty much a day or 2 after my scan...

 

[MrsMoo72]

Eek Lauren, cant wait to see yr pic....hurry up drs!!!

 

[lauren10]

uh....ok. tell me what you think, but i'm pretty worried.

What she DID tell me:
1. there is a fetus with a heartbeat. she showed me the heartbeat
2. it is measuring exactly as it should for my LMP
3. She showed me and said, "there's the fetus. There's the heartbeat." But...I couldn't get a good look at what it looked like. For all I know there was something very wrong.

What she WOULD NOT tell me:
1. What the heartbeat was - even when I asked.
2. If it was "OK"
3. She wouldn't give me a picture. Said they usually don't that early (BULLFUCKING SHIT) and then that she didn't take a picture "like that" that she can give me and some shit about my uterus being tilted.

BUT THEN...she booked my 20 week ultrasound.

I'm fucking pissed and confused, and definitely DO NOT have great feelings about any of this. They most definitely give out pictures here. I had one at 7 weeks with my daughter.


FUCK.

and now...because the system sucks and is totally fucked, I'll have to wait a week for the report to get to my dr and hear about it.

i'm freaking out pretty much.

 

[confusedprego]

Lauren - if its measuring the right date and there is a heartbeat you should be fine! I think you got a b*tch of an u/s tech and you need to call your doc! asap and say what happened and demand answers.

 

[Twinkie210]

uh....ok. tell me what you think, but i'm pretty worried.

What she DID tell me:
1. there is a fetus with a heartbeat. she showed me the heartbeat
2. it is measuring exactly as it should for my LMP
3. She showed me and said, "there's the fetus. There's the heartbeat." But...I couldn't get a good look at what it looked like. For all I know there was something very wrong.

What she WOULD NOT tell me:
1. What the heartbeat was - even when I asked.
2. If it was "OK"
3. She wouldn't give me a picture. Said they usually don't that early (BULLFUCKING SHIT) and then that she didn't take a picture "like that" that she can give me and some shit about my uterus being tilted.

BUT THEN...she booked my 20 week ultrasound.

I'm fucking pissed and confused, and definitely DO NOT have great feelings about any of this. They most definitely give out pictures here. I had one at 7 weeks with my daughter.


FUCK.

and now...because the system sucks and is totally fucked, I'll have to wait a week for the report to get to my dr and hear about it.

i'm freaking out pretty much.

Don't freak out! The tech isn't allowed to tell you anything because they are not a Dr. When I went in for my U/S, my tech wouldn't tell me that I had MC'd even though I could clearly see an empty sac. The only thing she could tell me was that there was a sac and "She would expect to see more". That was it. I had to keep calling my Dr. office to find out anything else!

Your baby is the right size and has a heartbeat, so all is good until someone tells you otherwise! I agree you should call your Dr. and see if they can tell you something over the phone!

 

[babydust818]

Yeah, that's bullshit Lauren! If i were you i'd call up and bitch at someone because that's not very "bedside manner" like. I'd be livid. Scheduled you a 20week u/s??! Are you kidding me? After a MC?! UGH i swear i hate all medical fields. They really are assholes. I'd be worried just like you, but try to stay calm for the bean. It's not healthy to get too stressed out. Easier said than done, i know. Bitch to the doctors office until your hearts content!!