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[collie_crazy]

Jess this is my reply from Mesina I dont think it is as good as some of the ones you girls have got

We are trying for a baby - can you see when will I conceive?


I am getting a strong pull to the now and into October – I feel that you will fall well within the next 3 months at most. I feel an Autumn conception (October is coming more strongly now) with an early summer baby and see you and your partner very happy about having a new little one on the way. I do get the feeling of you being so tired right now and I feel that this baby will take quite a lot out of you (beyond the normal exhaustion of pregnancy) so it may be worth you keeping an eye on that as the pregnancy progresses. There is no feelings of sinister or negative vibrations here about this, just something to watch as I tune into your energy regarding the pregnancy. Perhaps you have been through a lot emotionally, as I get a sense of emotional tiredness as well as a sheer physical exhaustion.

I get the sense of a little boy around you – yet I feel that you will go on to have another after this child comes. This child feels a lovely little energy, very lively at times but also a little quiet and inward at times. He is quite a deep soul, a boy who will be very “boyish” yet I feel a real sensitive side to him as he gets older and spends some of his time deep in thought. I feel he will make someone a very good partner one day – he feels like a soul that will always look after those he loves the most. I sense that he will take these traits from you - that you yourself like to look after others rather than you being looked after.

As far as the pregnancy goes, I don’t feel anything to worry about (although I am not a doctor of course) yet I do feel that you need to look after yourself extra well this pregnancy as I just feel you quite drained and stressed. Extra vitamins perhaps?

Good luck!
Blessings,
Mesina

I replied thanking her and telling her about losing Emily and how I thought that was the tiredness she was picking up on and she replied with this

I am so pleased that the reading made it to you at last! You are very welcome - you and your partner have each and every one of my thoughts and positive vibrations in a healthy pregnancy to come. It is not easy losing a baby I can imagine, but our Souls have a funny way of deciding how much time they need here - and sometimes it just wasn't quite the right time after all. Perhaps she came to share a lesson in her own way for you both - and that this little boy will be even more loved and appreciated bringing a bond that many other parents would only dream of.


Hold onto each other and stay strong for the little ones to come - I just have a feeling things will be great this time round - just look after yourself!

 

[jessy1101]

Collie is it possible that she is refuring to the mc u had when she says u've been threw alot emotionnaly and etc tired etc???

Cuz if i read ur question right u never even told her u had a mc!!!! Ur wrong sweety that reading is freakin amazing!

 

[jessy1101]

Wow seriously just...wow....nope like i said i find ur reading to actualy be quite special and amazing!!

 

[collie_crazy]

No I didnt tell her about losing Emily until I replied after the reading I wanted to see if she picked up on it at all and thats what freaked me out with the reading because I think she really did - although obviously didnt mention it specifically... I was really tired both emotionally and physically if you remember I bled heavily for 8 weeks after delivering Emily so was physically drained!

 

[jessy1101]

No I didnt tell her about losing Emily until I replied after the reading I wanted to see if she picked up on it at all and thats what freaked me out with the reading because I think she really did - although obviously didnt mention it specifically I was really tired both emotionally and physically if you remember I bled heavily for 8 weeks after delivering Emily so was physically drained!

That's what i'm saying!! It's what's amazing in the reading because i do believe she picked it up.

I also believe everything she said about taking care of u during this pregnancy is because like u said ur so stressed and worried and dont know which way to throw yourself! I'm convinced it has to do with that. U need to take a very deep breath. Touch ur tummy. Smile. And start talking to that lil beanster. He/she definetly needs some reassurance from mommy.

 

[themarshas]

Wow these readings are amazing! I enjoy reading them and it tempts me to give in and get one... but I won't for now. But I'm also the person who refuses to read my horoscope because I feel like I sit around wondering what will happen or did happen that fits whatever they described. Clearly I just think too much. Here's an example:

Random thought: Have any of you done the ring test? The thing that predicts your children's genders? My DH and I did it the first month ttc and both got the same results although, we got 3 kids and we have no intentions of having more than 2 (at this point we've decide to only have one but worry about having an only child. We're both middle kids and hated it growing up and have what we call "middle child syndrome" haha so anyway we really aren't planning on 3). Both of our results were boy, girl, boy when we did the test and when he did it the results were super clear (he's one of 3 boys and from a family of ZERO girls- like nowhere except the women they marry) so we just assumed we'd have all boys and when his results indicated boy it swung back and forth like crazy- like his genetics were screaming boy haha pretty cool/strange really).

So the other night my DH and I were chatting and I asked him if he thought this m/c might have been the first boy?? It'll be interesting to find out down the road but just wondering if any of you have tried it and your thoughts on it.

"Here's how you do it:
Get a ring, and put it on a string. Hold the ends of the string with one hand, and put out the other hand palm up. (You must be sitting up with your hand out in front of you... you don't want your hand over your stomach)
Make sure the string isn't twisted so the ring isn't spinning.
Hold the ring at the level of your hand, just to the side of your hand and dip it below your hand level three times, then hold it above the center of your palm and wait until it has decided a pattern.

IF it is swinging back and forth, it is indicating boy, IF it is swinging in circles it is indicating girl.

Once it has indicated the gender, dip the ring on the side of your hand three more times and try again. Repeat until you dip the ring and it doesn't swing over your hand, that means it has indicated all the children you will have."

Also, We are addicted to the big bang and I watched the first episode of up all night and hated it. What other shows are you all into?

 

[Twinkie210]

I tried this test with a needle and thread and I never could get it to work. I will try it tonight with a ring!

 

[MrsMoo72]

Wow girls, those readings are amazing!! I started reading them on way home from work and had to stop till i got home coz i was getting emotional!

Hope everyone is well today?

afm: still no sign of af, just that same feeling - getting boring now, wish something would just happen one way or another. af officially due tomorrow so might do a sneaky lil test if nothing happens tonight

 

[babydust818]

I'm at work and can't chit chat with you guys right now i got to go back and read the 10 pages you guys used up today LOL. I'll be on later !

 

[jessy1101]

I'm at work and can't chit chat with you guys right now i got to go back and read the 10 pages you guys used up today LOL. I'll be on later !

Holy crap we do write alot each day huh?? Ohh well it does help pass the time when it's boring at work!!

 

[jessy1101]

Moo it's hard to predict when you'll get ur AF after the mc cuz trust me it will be wonky if u do get it. Mine was sooooo weird i still dont get it. The worst tho was the 2nd one...

 

[Twinkie210]

A friend of mine were trying to give me advice on TTC a girl at lunch today... she was like "I think you are supposed to take your temperature and have sex a couple days before you ovulate... Do you know when you ovulate?" I was like yea, I do thanks. Seriously, Uh, I have been TTC for 10 months now, I sure hope I know when I O! I didn't tell her I have been charthing my temps for 8 cycles now, she would probably think I am nuts! People crack me up when they try to give advice!

 

[jessy1101]

A friend of mine were trying to give me advice on TTC a girl at lunch today... she was like "I think you are supposed to take your temperature and have sex a couple days before you ovulate... Do you know when you ovulate?" I was like yea, I do thanks. Seriously, Uh, I have been TTC for 10 months now, I sure hope I know when I O! I didn't tell her I have been charthing my temps for 8 cycles now, she would probably think I am nuts! People crack me up when they try to give advice!

People always think they are being helpfull but until you have lived threw our situation i find u cant understand u know? I know they mean well and etc but..

 

[Twinkie210]

A friend of mine were trying to give me advice on TTC a girl at lunch today... she was like "I think you are supposed to take your temperature and have sex a couple days before you ovulate... Do you know when you ovulate?" I was like yea, I do thanks. Seriously, Uh, I have been TTC for 10 months now, I sure hope I know when I O! I didn't tell her I have been charthing my temps for 8 cycles now, she would probably think I am nuts! People crack me up when they try to give advice!

People always think they are being helpfull but until you have lived threw our situation i find u cant understand u know? I know they mean well and etc but..

I wasn't upset by her trying to help I just found it rather funny, like I wouldn't have thought of tracking O by now???

 

[jessy1101]

A friend of mine were trying to give me advice on TTC a girl at lunch today... she was like "I think you are supposed to take your temperature and have sex a couple days before you ovulate... Do you know when you ovulate?" I was like yea, I do thanks. Seriously, Uh, I have been TTC for 10 months now, I sure hope I know when I O! I didn't tell her I have been charthing my temps for 8 cycles now, she would probably think I am nuts! People crack me up when they try to give advice!

People always think they are being helpfull but until you have lived threw our situation i find u cant understand u know? I know they mean well and etc but..

I wasn't upset by her trying to help I just found it rather funny, like I wouldn't have thought of tracking O by now???

Not upset more like you just have to bite ur tongue so to not laugh in there face and be like wow that's just sad u think that.

 

[Twinkie210]

Oh and to top it off, we went to this little shop down the road for lunch (the dining room only holds 30 people at most). And there were 5 babies under 6 months old there! It was crazy it was like every person who walked in had a baby in a carseat. I must say this was the first time I was out that I didn't feel this intense jealousy seeing all those babies. Two of them were twin girls and they were so cute!

 

[MrsMoo72]

I know jessy, just wish I knew what was going on

Hope you're all having great days xx

 

[jessy1101]

I know jessy, just wish I knew what was going on

Hope you're all having great days xx

I dont blame ya the whole situation sucks! But u'm sending u tons of positive vibes to get a nice big fat BFP!!

 

[confusedprego]

I just took another OPK and my LH surge is done, and my temp went up this morning, so as long as it stays up I'm 1DPO! I'm CD16 today and we DTD CD10, 11, 12, 14 and 15. So, hopefully we caught it!

My right ovary ovulates with a vengeance!! This happened when I got pregnant too, I woke up yesterday because my right side was so sore but it was like sharp twinges of pain. Today it's just a dull aching pain, but it's tender to the touch. I had a 3cm corpus luteum cyst last time on my right ovary. Last month I didn't feel anything, so I guess it only happens on my right side.

So weird! Hope you all are having good days!!

 

[lauren10]

Hi girls...been in meetings for hours! ugh.

Collie, I'm so sorry you're feeling that way, and it's totally understandable! It will probably take some time...but there's lots of time to get used to the idea of a new baby that of course will never ever replace our lost babies!!! (unless their the same soul, according to Mesina!)

I think her reading for you was amazing!!! She was definitely picking up on an energy that you might be struggling with this a bit right now. Your hormones are messing with you big time too right now, on top of feeling tired and nauseous...it's not easy!!!

xxx

Other shows we watch: Modern Family, House, Fringe, The Office and of course SOA!!! Oh, and Pawn Stars. We have a PVR so I catch up on all that when DD's asleep.