We are PUPOLICIOUS hotties! (19 BFPs so far!!)

[babydust818]

Thanks lisette. Its so hard to cope with everything

 

[babydust818]

Its my 4th. I had m/c in august

 

[NewbieLisette]

Oh I'm sorry hun I didn't see it in your siggy! All I can possibly say to give you a little comfort right now is your baby will be back with you soon and if you believe that and are ready for that it will happen sooner than later but nomatter what it WILL happen for you! Right now it's a really sucky time though, i feel ya

 

[babydust818]

It does suck! In my heart i believe Mesina. I so badly want my baby. I did everything right this month. It's so weird how my body rejected the sperm basically. I wish i could see exacrly what happens and why it happened. I'm so mentally exhausted. I didn't O until CD 19. My cycles have been 31-33 days. So it's gonna be a long ass time until i can try again. Almost 3 more weeks. If i do get my baby this cycle like Mesina says, i will be thrilled!! Can't wait to see your reading. I'm anxious so i know you've got to be.

 

[jessy1101]

Ohhh Babydust im giving u a mental hug right now sweety. I definetly care i just wasnt online last night. U know i actualy use to do what ur doing right now. Looking at the test and even the 6 week ultrasound i got. But it was doing more bad then good trust me. I had to get rid of everythinh cuz it was too hard.

Im not saying to not think about or anything but u cant heal as long as u hold on to the past. It s hard it s extremely painfull and it s not easy. But i know ur a tuff cookie and i promiss u that once u get ur BFP next cycle (cuz thats what will happen) u have to remember it s going to b the exact SAME baby as the first time just a teeny bit later date then expected.

We re all here for u but i know in my mind that u have the strenght to get threw this and come out happy. Remember u have a vagina not a penis lolol that definetly equals a tuff cookie in my book.

Wuv u bunches!!

 

[jessy1101]

Lisette can we leave for our cruises now???? Lololol Mesina did that to me too wrpte to explain the first time if it was ok to get my reading early next day and so sorry and etc. I was like take ur time woman!! This isnt life or death lol. Cant wait to see yours.

Leese dont forget to not plan anything the days i tell u cuz imma b in NYC babyyy!!

Twinks once again ur absence on here is extremely noticable. Hope ur having a very much deserved rest and see u back in tip top shape hunny!

Lauren once again Mesina pulls threw doesnt she? It s 10$ well spent i think..

 

[jessy1101]

Hey does nobody else get up at 6:30 am??? Poke poke...

Im all by my lonesome.. No no wait cue country music Im soooooo lonesome i could cry doodooodoooo

 

[keepthefaithx]

Hey girlssss how is everyone

 

[jessy1101]

Pffff there is no everyone u and i are the only ones not in bed catching up on zzzzzzzz

 

[confusedprego]

I'm here for now I can't go on at work but will check back in later. I was mia for a couple days as I had a huge exam yesterday that went great I got my masters and have moved onto working on my phd so excited to have that stress out of my life...hoping if there is a baby in me that I didn't hurt it too much.

I had a temp dip this morning at 5dpo...is that a bad sign?

I'll try to catch up on all yall chatted about..hope everyone is doing great!

 

[jessy1101]

Yay Confused!! Congrats on that huge accomplishement girly! And nice to see somebody else up before 7am lolol

How r u? I dont trust temps sometimes they up and down and etc for no reason grrr

 

[confusedprego]

I'm doing good..I'm pretty optimistic about this cycle...I think we caught the egg but it might just be wishful thinking. My nips have been crazy sensitive for about a day now so I'm hoping its a good sign!

 

[confusedprego]

How are you doing? What cd are you?

 

[Twinkie210]

Hey all, I didn't even stalk the thread last night. I kind of felt yucky so I laid in bed and slept all evening. DS didn't feel good either. We ate chicken noodle soop and grilled cheese for dinner. I realized this morning that I missed a PTA meeting last night.

Jessy- I won't leave you completely, I am going to try to stalk for a few days (if I don't it would take me a couple days just to catch up!)

Babydust- Sorry you are feeling down. I am joining you this month. The spotting picked up again last night, so I expect full on AF today (I'm stopping my meds today too)

Lisette- Definately talk to you Dr. about your LP. Not every Dr. believes that a short LP is a problem, and the good news is you CAN get pregnant with a short LP (we are both proof of that!), but I think it is harder. Keep us updated on what your Dr tells you!



Away from the whole TTC topic this a picture of DS (well it is almost a year old, but I don't have many pics on my work computer)

 

[lauren10]

Hi girls!
Ohhhhh I am up before 6am every day...ugh!! I just didn't get a chance to sign on until now...and, I kind of got a promotion yesterday, so that means more work and less forum chatting??? nooo!!

Confused...congratulations on getting your masters! that's awesome!

Yes I loved Mesina's reading! if nothing else, it's really comforting.

Babyd - I know it's hard...sometimes you just have to grieve some more and let it all out. I wish there was a way to make the pain go away. I came to peace with the whole thing when I realized that me and the baby DID have a strong bond, even though it was for a short time...and we will always have that. No one else needs to understand it...it's just a special thing that only me and the baby know about. it happened the way it was meant to, and for a reason, and I was lucky for that soul to even touch my life for a short amount of time, because it was something special! I do think I'm a better person for it somehow.

I watched this amazing computer animated show recently about the beginning of life...and all the tribulations the poor sperm go though. Every woman's body attacks sperm! it's hostile in there!! Out of billions...only 4-7 sperm make it to the tubes. They are tired and weak, and take a day or two to rest before the egg shows itself. Then it's wake up time, and another race for the egg! If a sperm doesn't make it in in time, it doesn't work. If two sperm make it in at the same time, it doesn't work. And when fertilization DOES happen to occur, the egg has a treacherous journey down the tubes and into the uterus where it must cling on for dear life!

When you think about it all, it's amazing anyone gets pregnant!! It's such a delicate process...conditions have to be just right...so we just have to keep trying until we get that perfect conception!!

Sorry for the biology rant...but I found it so fascinating!

 

[lauren10]

twinkie...what a cutie pie in his christmas sweater!!!

 

[babydust818]

Thanks everyone. I try not to look at the pic much but i also have a pic of me before i knew i was pregnant. Its so sad but the whole process did make me stronger too Lauren. It makes me happy to know i got pregnant bcz i was beginning to wonder if something was wrong with me! There still possibly could but just to know i did get pregnant it puts my mind at ease. I also have done research on baby making and realized what a MIRACLE it is to conceive. It's such a thorough process. I too believe its insane that as many ppl get pregnant as they do. It seems almost impossible! I swear i should be a baby doctor since I've learned so much already lol.

Stacie - your son is so cute! He looks like a happy boy. As far as ttc, i guess we will be buddies this next go round.

Omfg i am watching The Doctors right now and there's these pregnant sluts on there who are pole dancing. With a HUGE belly. One girl even fell. Digusts me.

Lisette - show us your reading asap!!!

Confusedprego - awesome job!!!good luck to you.

 

[NewbieLisette]

Morning girlies!!!!

Sorry I'm being a lazy bumm this week and joining in soo late! Tisk tisk! LOL

How's everyone feeling today?

Jessy is it a testing girlfriend? I'm sooo ready to pack my bags NOW!!!!! Can we go this weekend?

Thanks Twinkie for the LP insight, I think I maybe actually be O'ing earlier than what FF shows....tell me more...what is considered a short LP and what should I ask the Dr to give me to help?

Gotta go get me some coffe in my system and wait for my reading....hopefully SOON!!!!!!!!!!!

 

[jessy1101]

Twinks omg he's a super cutie patooty! Love the xmas gear too!

Lauern i know it's sick what sperm has to go threw. And the fact that people get preg is somewhat of a miracle. But do u think the people that can get preg soooo fast and easy have nicer uteruses then we do??? R ares evil?????? Hmmm...

Newbie..yes...let's pack and leave this weekend lololol. OMG i wish it was that easy damnit..

 

[Twinkie210]

Morning girlies!!!!

Sorry I'm being a lazy bumm this week and joining in soo late! Tisk tisk! LOL

How's everyone feeling today?

Jessy is it a testing girlfriend? I'm sooo ready to pack my bags NOW!!!!! Can we go this weekend?

Thanks Twinkie for the LP insight, I think I maybe actually be O'ing earlier than what FF shows....tell me more...what is considered a short LP and what should I ask the Dr to give me to help?

Gotta go get me some coffe in my system and wait for my reading....hopefully SOON!!!!!!!!!!!

Obviously I am having trouble tearing myself away from this site... LOL

Different Dr.s consider different lengths short. Some say as long as you have at least 10 days you are fine, others think that less than 12 is a problem. My Dr. just said that he would like to see me have 2 full weeks, but even with the prescription I only got 12 days - and I had way more spotting than I used to. I am thinking that my short LP is a symptom of poor ovulation, and the progesterone is just treating the symptom not the actual problem. I keep going back and forth about whether or not to try supplements on my own to "help" ovulation, or just wait it out and hope that I get pregnant again. Since it has only been 3 months since my MC, I don't want to start bugging my Dr. just yet. I might see what the nurse says tomorrow when I call to ask for a new prescription, but I haven't had good luck with her in the past...