We are PUPOLICIOUS hotties! (19 BFPs so far!!)

[NewbieLisette]

Thanks guys just nervous xo ill post web I get home

 

[themarshas]

I just want to know if you're readings come true!! Very exciting!

Wellll so far the 2 people that we're predicted their bfps in october came true..so it's sorta creeptastic just that right? Mine is supose to be just around the corner so if ever that happens..me thinks ur gonna get a reading done too huh??

If yours comes true, I will most definitely get one

 

[jkb11]

keep the faithwe are thinking bout ya!

 

[keepthefaithx]

hey everyone i am back from the dr.

my hpt came back VERY faint positive.

he did an internal and side i am very small in there like my uterus.

he said my cysts were SO small it wouldnt prevent me from having or carrying a pregnancy.

he wants to send me from bloodwork tmaro and monday to rule out an ectopic, in his "clinical opinion" it is not an ectpic but an early mc but has to rule it out- i guess he can tell if my levels rise-

he also said he doesnt think ectopic bc i would be in extreme pain by now and i only have very minor cramping.

im just so sad right now guys like i cant believe this is happening...

i dont understand why i didnt get a period yet. like why do i still have hcg in my system ?

i guess i will know more in the days to come

if anyone has any opinions or anything please feel free to tell me!

thanks girls and love yas xo

o yea and does anyone think that maybe i did need a d&c from my last mc and i could have had small remnants or something on my lining the kept the baby from sticking? i thought of that also-

he recommends i get a d&c this time to clean me out, but we have to no more-

xo

 

[jessy1101]

Leese im glad it went ok! For sure ectopic u d be in a lot more pain cuz it woukd b growing in one of ur tubes and streching. Hmmm but u already had ur period after ur mc so doesnt that shed the lining and gets rid of anything left over?

Definetly keep us in the loop for the bloodwork. Hmmm it was neg 2 days ago right with yr urine on a preg test? Strange..

Wuv u bunches sweet pea were here for u xxxxx

 

[Twinkie210]

hey everyone i am back from the dr.

my hpt came back VERY faint positive.

he did an internal and side i am very small in there like my uterus.

he said my cysts were SO small it wouldnt prevent me from having or carrying a pregnancy.

he wants to send me from bloodwork tmaro and monday to rule out an ectopic, in his "clinical opinion" it is not an ectpic but an early mc but has to rule it out- i guess he can tell if my levels rise-

he also said he doesnt think ectopic bc i would be in extreme pain by now and i only have very minor cramping.

im just so sad right now guys like i cant believe this is happening...

i dont understand why i didnt get a period yet. like why do i still have hcg in my system ?

i guess i will know more in the days to come

if anyone has any opinions or anything please feel free to tell me!

thanks girls and love yas xo

o yea and does anyone think that maybe i did need a d&c from my last mc and i could have had small remnants or something on my lining the kept the baby from sticking? i thought of that also-

he recommends i get a d&c this time to clean me out, but we have to no more-

xo

Well it is good news that he doesn't think it is ectopic. I don't think that you would need a D&C from your last MC, because any remaining tissue would have came out with your period, but you may need a D&C this time. I had to get a D&C with my MC because my body just didn't recognize that I wasn't pregnant, I had spotting but no bleeding and my HCG kept rising even though there was no baby in the sac. That being said, if your hormones are dropping you should MC naturally if that is the route you want to go. It sucks that you have to make that decision. If you want any details on the D&C let me know and we can talk- or I'm sure some of the other ladies on here can tell you about their D&C, it really wasn't as bad as I thought it would be.

Take care of yourself We are here for you!

 

[keepthefaithx]

thanks guys

i just dont understand how theres no baby and i have hormones in me.. like this is so confusing to me, if the baby died a while ago why do i still have hormone??

in my heart i doubt its ectopic bc i read about it and most women compared it to appendicitis which i know ppl that had that and they wanted to die-

im hoping my beta just goes down and dow and i get a period soon, then im seeing a new doc and hopefully get some answers-

i have sono at 10 today and after that ill be getting the bloodwork done, then seeing him friday, then another sono and more bloodwork monday, then see him tuesday-

i just wanna get down to the bottom of this
xo

 

[keepthefaithx]

i would think the period would shed the lining but is it possible that it didnt shed all of it ?? idk

but i am switching drs after all of this, hes only running my hcg-

after this miscarriage i have a specialist i am going to see, he is VERY thorough and he checks for literally everything, very attentive and thinks 1 miscarriage is 1 too many, sends your for bloodwork right away, has you seen like 5 times in the first trimester w a sono every time-not like 1 dr who doesnt think its an issue till after i lose 3 then we can take-

i just HATE how these drs tell you its okay til you lose 3 pretty much.

 

[keepthefaithx]

and get this. i forgot, i asked him why my belly was so big. he said to me, hes like im not judging or whatever but have you been eatting alot extra, i was like honestly yea....i gained 12 pounds in freaking 3 weeks can you imagine, ive been SOOOOOOOO hungry and not caring.

so yeah, now to get my mind off everything after all is done, im guna start working out again, maybe that will make me feel better

 

[collie_crazy]

Oh hunny I am so sorry this is all so confusing for you Its so unfair

I think it can take a while for all your hormones to go down and sometimes if there is still tissue left over then your HCG can still increase but no where near as fast as it would if baby was growing. I have heard of it taking upto 4 weeks for all the hormones to go back to 0 after a miscarriage and there is something called a 'missed miscarriage' which is where the baby stops growing but the woman doesnt bleed at all so doesnt know she has miscarried until the scan etc. Sometimes people can go for their 12 week scan and find out the baby stopped growing at 6 weeks but because there is still HCG in their system they still have symptoms.

Its all so heartbreaking and not very straightforward. I hope you find a doctor who can give you some answers

 

[keepthefaithx]

thanks collie

its weird bc i feel very just angry.

i wanna know wtf is wrong w me. i feel it cant be two "flukes" as they say, i personally think i have no problem getting pregnant but for some reason i cant hold a baby-

when i see the specialist i know hes guna send me for everything so i hope i get some answers.

it like a sick joke bc you get so close and its ripped away, and really isnt once enough, i was SO hopeful.

but i guess AGAIN its not my time, what can i do but stay faithful and believe it will happen soon.
xo

 

[lauren10]

Hi girls...I had a LOT of catching up to do and have to go into a meeting in 5 mins...der.

Ok, let's see if I can remember the last 20 pages...Moo - I think you posted those beautiful pics! love them!

Lisette....holy cow I LOVE your reading!!! I hope you feel encouraged that this is going to happen for you in the next couple of months. And maybe it takes some pressure off that you can relax a bit...take your time, try do de-stress as much as you can with that crazy job of yours...recoup...and then bang!! cook up a baby!!

Jess - I was thinking that about your reading, that she said you'd have a Nov conception. Interesting....VERY interesting you haven't had AF yet!!

KTF - my opinion is really that it's not you, but it was probably something genetic with the baby that things weren't right. That's the most common reason, especially early on, so let's go with the simplest explanation being the right one. I know that sucks either way, but if they can't find something wrong with your body...then it had to be the little one...just waiting for the right mix of genes!!!

I want to talk more to you about my MC because it might shed more light on what may have happened with you as far as hcg and all that....but has to be after my meeting. xxxxxx
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back in a bit.

 

[confusedprego]

thanks collie

its weird bc i feel very just angry.

i wanna know wtf is wrong w me. i feel it cant be two "flukes" as they say, i personally think i have no problem getting pregnant but for some reason i cant hold a baby-

when i see the specialist i know hes guna send me for everything so i hope i get some answers.

it like a sick joke bc you get so close and its ripped away, and really isnt once enough, i was SO hopeful.

but i guess AGAIN its not my time, what can i do but stay faithful and believe it will happen soon.
xo

So sorry Lisa! You're in my thoughts and hopefully your new doctor will be able to figure things out for you! Keep us updated. I know its frustrating but try to keep your head up, you'll figure all this out soon and have your baby before you know it.

 

[jkb11]

KTF- I'm sorry you are hoving to go through thisI know the wait is such a hard part. When I miscarried I just had light spotting for about 2 weeks then the heavy bleeding started for a week. I went for blood work every 2-4 days. The way my dr. explained to me was that if my hcg didnt come down to less than 5 in 2 weeks then they would go ahead with the d&c to prevent infection. I tk if you are concerned about getting the d&c you have every right to get a second opinion.Every dr. practices differently. I believe God knew that I emotionally could not handle just losing my child instantly and that is why it took my body so much time to let go. Hang in there sweety. We are here for you.

 

[MrsMoo72]

aww Lisa, hope you're doing ok hunny Sounds like you have a good plan and you're being so brave. Thinking about you

 

[jessy1101]

Well i finaly got my AF this morning. It's not heavy but it's there! I'm kinda happy not that i have it just that if it was meant to come glad it didnt play games longer. I wanna start for that november conception in 2 weeks whaaaaa!!

Lesse very good call switching dr u have nuttin to loose. And if ever there is something better they find it now for sure!!

How is everybody? Anybody else off tomorrow for Remembrance day?? I am!! So today is actualy my friday woooooooo me likey very very much!!

 

[jkb11]

That SUCKS jess I wanted you to get that BFP! I'm proud of ya girly! staying positive! Only 2 weeks for you to get your freak on!lol.

Well i finaly got my AF this morning. It's not heavy but it's there! I'm kinda happy not that i have it just that if it was meant to come glad it didnt play games longer. I wanna start for that november conception in 2 weeks whaaaaa!!

Lesse very good call switching dr u have nuttin to loose. And if ever there is something better they find it now for sure!!

How is everybody? Anybody else off tomorrow for Remembrance day?? I am!! So today is actualy my friday woooooooo me likey very very much!!

 

[jessy1101]

Oooohhh holy fuckk im in training this am and the 2 people sittin beside me are france frenchies and wont STFU!! Is it possible to discreetly strangle somebody??? Is having the most annoying accents motive enough????

 

[jessy1101]

I believe in Mesina Jbk sooo i ll b gettin my BFP next shot for sure!! Im very positive and anxious damnit lolol

 

[jessy1101]

Collie!!! OMG it s soo nice seeing u on here sweety!! How r u? Everything in general?? Wuv u bunches and hope ur doing good!