We made the trimesters pass quickly!

[Mummy to be x]

My LO is estimated to weigh 2lb 4oz and I'm 28 week tomorrow, the sonogropher told me that's fine so 1lb 10oz sounds fine

 

[UniqueBeauty]

Sorry to hear about your Gran Carly, I hope she's okay!

I had LOADS of chaos outside mine from 6-7 last night. Had all the local youths here along with the neighbors and a drunk woman. She was banging on next doors door calling for him and everyone is screaming at her to go away. Next she's down at the shop after attempting to attack everyone then they are back up outside my house again, somehow the drunk woman got into next doors and next minute I'm hearing screaming, banging, shouting and someone saying 'go get your bat!' 'Restrain her!' so I stuck my head out the window and shouted 'What the HELL is going on?!' and I was completely ignored. After they all got her away she decided to come back again 15 minutes later and I'd seriously had enough by then so I called the police. Nothing was done that I know of but the CCTV caught it all.

I told OH and he said that's why he's not having the kids growing up here, I said are you stupid? you get this kind of trouble everywhere, we just happen to live where it constantly happens. When you have paid of the arrears we can move off the estate and find a nice 3 bed with a garden and he said no, he said he's taking us away from Weston and organizing a trip to Clithero and going to get my Nan to move there (which she won't) and I told him nice try, not going to happen and then he said 'I'll take the kids' after that I flipped, I said to him don't you DARE threaten me about taking the kids from me, he said he would never do that but yet he's TRYING to take me away from my own family? His family is pissing me off, filling his head with crap as per. As much as I miss him when he leaves, when he's back in Preston I just want to smack him with the things he comes out with. It's almost as if he's going to ask me to choose between the kids and my family the way he's going on.. he doesn't even live here anymore and he's telling me where me and our kids will be living. He can F off
Rant over

 

[Mummy to be x]

Oh my goodness UB what a nightmare! You did the right thing by calling the police though.

As for your OH saying that, is he set on moving away then? And how on earth does he think he's going to get your nan to move? Lol. At least you've sorted your claim so if he does bugger off and move out then you've got your own money and finances sorted x

 

[UniqueBeauty]

Oh he's staying up there to work long time and only visits twice every 2 weeks! He's sent money twice since being up there working and thats not even £100, I'm better off doing it all alone. If he thinks he's taking us away from my family he can think again because I won't be emotionally/verbally abused into doing so x

 

[Mummy to be x]

Good for you Hun, it sounds to me like you'd be better off alone, now your claim is been sorted you can organise bills yourself etc, are they going to pay you housing benifit too? X

 

[ab75]

Sorry your oh is being a dick ub. At least you have started the process with your claim. He can't just think you will move away from everyone!!

just been Christmas shopping. Got the girls frozen singing dolls, jigsaws, dvds and bath toys and a prince each from Disney store. I love that shop. Not got a lot left to get them now xx

 

[UniqueBeauty]

Yeah I am entitled to help which is really good. OH can pay for his debts because I'm not.

I am so hungry I could murder a KFC or something lol I think I'm stuck with chips and chicken balls

I'm going to start my Xmas shopping when my claim is sorted, I really want it all done before December but there's so many people to sort. OH can get his families though, that's not up to me x

 

[Mummy to be x]

Ooh sounds as though you've had a successful trip ab!

We had Pizza Hut for dinner, Madeleine decided that's what she wanted so I agreed, not done anything like that for a while and I must say it was yummy!!

I've just finished getting OH some little bits and bobs for his birthday tomorrow and now I'm home relaxing just put some washing on.

What's everyone upto this evening x

 

[ab75]

We've just been to Cosmo for dinner, I am stuffed but it was lovely. Feels very strange the girls not being here tho!

Just ordered them a Frozen dressing up dress each from ebay for £8.89 each. Were £35 in Disney store. I need to stay off the christmas bargain thread in Santa's grotto lol.

Good for you ub, stick to your guns!!
I wanted mine done before I was too huge. My pelvis is absolute agony, I just had to come down stairs on my bum as I can hardly walk xx

 

[Mummy to be x]

What's Cosmo ab? Never heard of that x

I've just ordered some books for Madeleine for Xmas off amazon, free delivery over 10 pounds!

 

[Mummy to be x]

Ab that's terrible about your pelvis is there nothing the doc can do xx

 

[UniqueBeauty]

I've been sorting Jaydens Xmas list out and I'm going to do the baby list too. I rang OH as he's down in Portsmouth working to find out he'll be home for the night in 2 hours with his work colleague

I'd love a Cosmo's their food looking delish! Sorry you're in pain though x

 

[Mummy to be x]

He's coming back with his mate? Why?

I'm going to google cosmos now I'm intrigued lol x

 

[ab75]

Its a buffet place, we hadn't been b4 but heard so much about it. It was lush!
Nice of him to let you know ub.

I'm going to have to go back to doc or mention it to midwife, its agony xx

 

[Mummy to be x]

I just googled it it looks amazing!!!!

I hope the doc can do something for you ab xx

 

[UniqueBeauty]

It was only for a place to sleep for the night or they would of had to sleep in a van, I was like oh.. okay then lol They got there late and set off early so it's not too bad.

What's everyone's plans for today? x

 

[Carlyp1990]

Hi ladies
Well yesterday was hell! We were in a car accident
We were stopped in traffic and a guy came speeding up behind us and went straight into the back of us! We had to call an ambulance and police and I got taken to hospital and had baby monitored and a scan but luckily were all ok!
I just can't believe it happened though, the guy has admitted fault and the police have said he will get done for driving without due care and attention or something xx

 

[Mummy to be x]

Oh my god Carly!!!!!

Are you ok? Thank god baby wasn't hurt! I'm so sorry this happened to you, what a bloody idiot driving into the back of you, how thick!!! Was Katie in the car? Xx

 

[Carlyp1990]

Honestly mummy this week has been a bloody nightmare!
Yea katie was in the car, shes absolutely fine though thank god! Just me and oh feeling abit achey today. I saw him coming in the mirror and shouted "shit!" Then oh grabbed the steering wheel to steady himself and he said when he turned to the side he just saw me a katie fly forward then back again. I keep seeing the smoke from the guys tyres and hearing the screech of him braking, it was horrible!
I knew I'd be going to hospital so I phoned my dad to. Come and get katie while oh was phoning 999 and the panic in his voice was awful then seeing my mums face when they got out of the car and saw the other car and all the police was horrible
Then baby decided not to move for 2 hours aswell which had me thinking the worst but as soon as I had a scan she moved straight after it, little monkey! We spent about 4 hours at the hospital in the end but im just so glad she's ok! Xx

 

[Mummy to be x]

My goodness Carly that's awful but thank god your all ok that's the main thing. Is there much damage to your car? I was in a crash last year and got trapped in the car as it was on it's roof and Madeleine was very nearly in that car but at last minute she decided she wanted to stay with my sister, thank god.

I know what you mean about the flash backs, still to this day I won't drive in busy locations on my own it's scared me to death, have you put in a claim with the insurance etc xx