We made the trimesters pass quickly!

[Carlyp1990]

Iv just got home and got in a bath and she's moving a little bit, still not as strong as normal though. Fingers crossed she'll pick up soon though. I have no way of getting to the hospital if I need to get checked xx

 

[Mummy to be x]

Try having a cold drink laying on your side Carly xx

 

[Kiwiberry]

Oh Carly! I hope she picks up movements soon too!

Off to the hospital now ladies, can't wait to see my little bean bean .

 

[ab75]

Hope you and Lucy are ok Carly.

Enjoy seeing Riya Suzy xx

 

[brunettebimbo]

Have movements picked up Carly? My little guy has been quieter since yesterday. Been getting movements but nowhere near as many. I'm at the MW this afternoon so will mention it.

Have fun with Riya

 

[Carlyp1990]

Still nothing as strong as I'm used to and I think I lost some plug last night. Pains seem to have eased off though. I'm just lying on the sofa but think om probably cm Gunna call the hospital this morning then get oh to take me up while katies at nursery. I know as soon as I get hooked up she will start moving like crazy though! Xx

 

[Kiwiberry]

Carly! Your baby is 1 day older than Riya .

 

[Carlyp1990]

Kiwi that's crazy! xx

 

[brunettebimbo]

Definitely ring Carly. Hope everything is ok!

 

[Kiwiberry]

Time to take a nap ladies! Hope you feel better soon Carly .

 

[ab75]

Hope everything is ok Carly, better to get checked xx

 

[UniqueBeauty]

Hope everything is okay, Carly.

OH had to leave this morning when he wasn't meant to be going till tonight to we could take Jayden to the play area but he had a call last night to say his Grandad was taken to hospital from pneumonia and sepsis He had a call this morning from his mum with an update and his Grandad is in a coma on life support. I am an emotional wreck again when he left. It's made me think that I do want to be with him all the time but I can't be near my family and live with him. I feel so sorry for Jayden having to see his Daddy for a couple of days and then nothing for 2-3 weeks. I honestly just don't know what to do

To top all that off I have to go see liberata again because council tax want 600 odd quid off me by next week (even though I'm paying) which I obviously can't do!! x

 

[ab75]

What a lot to deal with.
Hope Simon's grandad pulls through.
And hope you get the council tax thing sorted out

I don't know what to suggest about the moving situation. Obviously it would be better for you if oh could get a job near you and you could all move into a different house near where you already live. But since he is planning on staying in Preston and you don't want to go, I don't know. If it was me I would go as I would want to be living with dh, but everyone is different.
Sorry you are having to deal with all of this xx

 

[UniqueBeauty]

It's made me feel like a complete cow wanting to stay here when obviously I wouldn't want to be away from my children, the one night I was in hospital was bad enough. OH said we'd see my family every other weekend but it's the fact going up there I'll have nobody and they will miss out on Jay and Aimee-Jo growing up when like you said OH COULD get a job down here but he won't because he hates it here just like I hate Preston. I don't know what to do.

I hope his Grandad pulls through. He's got a heart condition anyway and has to take tablets to help it. The sepsis was caused by the pneumonia, I just can't believe how fast he's deteriorated over night. They need to transfer him to the main hospital but because he's in such a bad way they don't want to risk it. So close to Christmas too.. :/ x


I forgot to add these, not the greatest pictures though.

 

[Mummy to be x]

Carly how are you Hun?? Xx

Kiwi enjoy time with Riya xx

Oh UB you poor thing! I hope OHs grandad is ok fx'd for you all.

I've not much better advice than Amanda but I think you need to be 100% if your going to move away, do what you feel is right, i really do think that he should try looking for a job by you though he needs to take your feelings into consideration. it's so hard for you xx
Why on earth do council tax want all that money off you UB? Don't you get it paid for with been on income support? So sorry you've got all this shit going on xx

 

[ab75]

One of you will have to give in if you want to live together, If he doesn't like where you are and you don't like Preston. It was easy for us as both of us wanted to move away from where we used to live and weren't fussy where it was as long as we were together xx

Pram looks lovely xx

 

[Carlyp1990]

Aww UB im so sorry I hope his grandad pulls through xx

Been to the hospital and everything is fine. It was funny because oh was asking what the toco is and I said it picks up any tightenings n he was like oh well its on 26% then a minute later I asked if it had gone up n it was 88%! He was like "Omg! Don't push!"
had a scan too and baby is estimated at 5 lb 11

I've had to keep katie off nursery as she's got diarrhoea she had 2 accidents in her knickers this morning which she hasn't done for years so I felt really bad for her. We had to drop her off with my mum while we went to the hospital but now she's home and snuggled under a blanket watching curious george xx

 

[ab75]

Glad Lucy is ok. Hope Katie feels better soon. Curious George always helps xx
Lol at your oh not wanting you to push xx

 

[UniqueBeauty]

Glad everything is okay with Lucy, hopefully Katie gets better soon.

I had a call from OH while I was out, he was in tears which set me off. I've only ever seen him cry twice in the 7 years we've been together. His Grandads chance is very slim but they have transferred him for dialysis as his organs have failed x

 

[Carlyp1990]

Oh UB im so sorry for your oh I hope his grandad makes a miraculous recovery xxx