We made the trimesters pass quickly!

[Ziggie]

I wouldn't go. No way. What if he just decides not to take you back full stop? Oh sorry love I'm busy/can't afford it.

You can't even blame grief, he was exactly the same before his grandad passed by the sounds of it.

D day here. Not expecting much! This baby still has baking to do I think...

 

[Carlyp1990]

I know it's a hard decision to make but realistically I think it would be a wiser move to stay at home. From what he's said it sounds like you can't even really trust that he will bring you home after a week because what if he changes his mind again and wants you there for new year?
Plus you said he likes a drink with his family, what if you do go into labour and he's been drinking? Then you will be totally alone.
I would definitely consider staying home. I know it's hard because you want your family to be together for christmas but there's just too many risks xx

 

[Carlyp1990]

Happy due day Zig! xx

 

[Kiwiberry]

I agree with the other ladies. I would stay at home.
Happy due date Zig!!

 

[ab75]

I just wouldn't be going Beckii. Yes he needs you because his grandad has passed but you have needed him at times and he's not bothered to come down because he had no money as he was paying for the BMW. He is the one that is being very childish and selfish.
I feel really bad for you as you must feel so torn. But I think if you give in on this then he will think he has won(I know it's not a competition but you know what I mean) and he will do emotional blackmail all the time to get what he wants.

One of you is going to have to give in or you spend Christmas apart. That is not going to be an easy decision, no matter what one you make. I just don't see why you have to go up there for so long. And I can just guess to get you up there he will end up telling you that he will take you back on boxing day, but that won't happen and you'll be stuck and miserable

 

[ab75]

Happy due date Zig!

 

[ab75]

And I agree with Carly about the drinking. That's what I was getting at when I said he won't bring you back boxing day, he's not going to not drink on Christmas day!!!

My dh usually has a drink on a saturday night but hasn't for the last 3 weeks in case I go into labour, and won't until after Frazer is here.

Your oh should be doing the same. xx

 

[Mummy to be x]

Jesus Christ beckii I'm so sorry but what an absolute fcking dick head!! He's black mailed you and made you feel like you have to go! Don't go, don't leave your family when you had plans with them Hun, who does he think he is? That's not fair. I'm really angry for you beckii

like you say what you supposed to do with the cats? Leave them to starve? And let down your family for Xmas? Erm NO!! No bloody way. I would not be doing it if that was Scott I would be telling him he can like it or lump it if I'd made plans with my family for Xmas they would be no way I would let them down. Oh my god I really feel for you wish I could give you a big hug xx

 

[Carlyp1990]

How is everyone today? My pelvis is really achey dreading the hour walk to midwife in the morning we have to be there for 9:30 aswell and katies been staying in bed until gone 8 this week!
Jon's mum and dad have got a new puppy today, it's a rottweiler and she is sooo cute! Iv just left katie round there with him and iv come to wait for my asda delivery then I'm going back. I hope asda don't take too long though because I want some crisps really badly
My friend who I used to work with came to visit me this morning and took me out for dinner again, only had a sandwich though as I wasn't very hungry xx

 

[ab75]

Lol Carly I thought you were going to say you hoped Asda would hurry up so you could get back and see the puppy!!

That was nice of your friend.

Can you not get a bus to midwife? That's a long walk
I am sore after 5 or 10 mins of walking.

My skin on my bump feels so tight, feels like I'm gona split

 

[ab75]

Beckii, How are things now? Hope you are having a better day and have stopped being upset. xxx

 

[Mummy to be x]

Carly that is a blooming long walk, I don't know how you do it!

I've just been to b&m to buy crisps I'm a crisp addict we also picked up an arts and crafts box for Madeleine, was ten pound reduced to five!! It's fabulous as well it's got all sorts in there, she's just made cards for my aunt and gran that where going to post.

I would love a puppy but I think my cats are enough at the moment lol xx

 

[Swtpinkbabi]

Hi ladies, hope you all have a nice day. I'm still sick, but I need to get out and grab a few more Xmas gifts for the Fam while it's not busy out.

 

[Mummy to be x]

Hope your feeling better soon pink. Xx

 

[Carlyp1990]

I have no money for the bus the Dr's is near my parents though so I'm going there after then will try and get a lift home
The puppy is so cute! Xx

 

[Carlyp1990]

Amy im a crisp addict too... could just eat and eat them all day!
Pink I hope your feeling better soon xxx

 

[Mummy to be x]

Me too Carly, there my favourite!

Ooh you need to take a photo of the pup xx

 

[Carlyp1990]

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Katie and laila xx

 

[Mummy to be x]

Omg how cute?!? I could squish them both adorable!!! Xx

 

[Carlyp1990]

I could squish katie the way she's behaved today!

Well looks like it another lonely night in for me, Jon's mates girlfriend left him less than 2 weeks ago after over 3 years together and last night updated her Facebook to in a relationship with someone else!! His mates pretty gutted so iv sent jon round to keep him company. He's such a nice guy and really doesn't deserve to be treat like that, shes moved out so he's in 'their' house with 'their' dog xx