Sorry to hear about Jons friend Carly.
We have ordered a stuffed turkey crown this year, pigs in blankets, roast potatoes, parsnips, brussel sprouts, mash and gravy. I usually make my own stuffing and stuff the turkey but dh said he is cooking this year. We are just having it ourselves, come down when the girls wake up, presents, toys and whatever the girls want to play with etc. So looking forward to it just being us this year and having no visitors,bliss xx