We made the trimesters pass quickly!

[0203]

Big hugs mummy, it's the wrong reaction (men always have the wrong reaction eh?) But it's probably just because he is stressed after all you went through I the hospital, he probably felt a bit helpless and is feeling disappointed too. Hope he bucks up his ideas soon and is more supportive of you. My husband got cross at me last night when I thought I was having contractions, he asked how they were and I said getting painful he got annoyed because he wanted to know how far apart they were, men are rubbish sometimes!!

Lovely bump carly. I'm having a pj day too ab....but might start eating some pineapple and having a bounce on the ball haha

 

[Carlyp1990]

Welcome sheebee :wave:

Amy, he probably just doesn't know how to handle the situation either. He sounds like he's worried and he probably feels helpless towards you. Men are useless when it comes to situations where they have no control. Sending you massive hugs though, it must be so hard for you to feel so alone xxxx

 

[ab75]

Amy, don't make any decisions or think about any of this just now. You are sore, fragile, exhausted and feeling annoyed at the lack of progress in hospital.
Scott will be feeling like there is nothing he can do to help you but instead of saying that he will be trying to cope in his own way.
dh text something to me yesterday when I said i was pissed off and I went mental at him, he said he was only trying to make light of the situation.
What I'm trying to say is that generally they don't know what to do or say in the circumstances.

I'm sure you will both be fine. You are both stressed and anxious xxxxx

 

[Mummy to be x]

My sections booked for the 6th. Forever away

 

[0203]

Will you get a section still if you go natural before? Exciting that you have a date even if it does still feel like a while away!

 

[ab75]

It's not that far away Amy xx

 

[ab75]

Are you and Scott ok? Xx

 

[Mummy to be x]

Yeah If I go into labour before they'll give me an emergency one. Im preying I don't go into labour so I'm resting all I can.

I'm just so de flated I should of come home with my baby.

I don't know Amanda I've not really spoke to him xx

 

[Mummy to be x]

Scott's left.

I had it with him around half an hour ago I was layed in bed and I could here him getting at Madeleine for Absolutly nothing! I asked him to stop stressing and calm down, he totally flew off the handle. Said he can't take anymore of this stress and I'm selfish.

Well I'm sorry but no way am I making excuses for that, how the hell does he think I feel, he doesn't see me stressing with Madeleine and shouting in his face.

He said he's done and walked out.

I'm in such a shock right now and this is not something I can feel I can cope with right now, I've got enough things to worry and think about.

 

[sethsmummy]

Amy its not too far away huni. Just rest up as much as you can and enjoy one on one time with Madeleine emcs is not so bad when you get in early enough. mine was classed as an emcs with Rohan.

 

[sethsmummy]

omg amy thats shocking! I can imagine hes feeling stressed but how on earth are you selfish this is the last thing you need. Im so sorry that hes being a knob

 

[ab75]

He'll be back once he has calmed down Amy.
It's just a lot of stress for both of you.
I have been stressed with the girls today.

Just snuggle in with Madeleine and watch a movie or something and try to relax and stay calm xxx

 

[Mummy to be x]

I'm so angry with him.

Ugh I hope I feel better after a good sleep I'm shattered xx

 

[0203]

Amy, hopefully he will realise he is being unfair (to pit it mildly) and be back with a big apology soon

 

[ab75]

Are you ok Amy? Xx

 

[Mummy to be x]

I'm emotional and drained I think I just need a good sleep.

Xx

 

[ab75]

I hope you get a sleep and that Scott comes back and apologises to you xx

 

[Carlyp1990]

So sorry hun. Hope you manage to sort things soon. Just remember your both tired, stressed and emotional xxx

 

[ab75]

Happy New year ladies. Hope 2015 is a good one.

Amy hope you are ok xx

 

[brunettebimbo]

Happy New Year everyone.

Amy hope you are ok