We made the trimesters pass quickly!

[ab75]

Beckii I got a sweep on mon at 38+6 xx

 

[Kiwiberry]

BB how are you and new baby doing?

Really good thank you

The first night he woke every hour so I was exhausted. Last night we changed his Moses basket as we have a posh one for downstairs and a plain wicker one upstairs. I think the wicker one mustn't be as comfortable as he wasn't settling properly in it. I woke him at about 12.30 to feed because he was making funny noises, he then woke at about 4ish and again at 8 I feel like a new woman

Milk is just coming in so feeding is much easier and a lot more comfortable

He's a very content little boy, he hardly cries, the most he cries is when you get him dressed or change his nappy.

His brother is completely smitten with him which is amazing to see. I feel so truly blessed

How are you?

I feel like I'm doing well recovery wise. Definitely still have some pain from the section but not too bad. I'm really struggling with this nursing though and poor Dh doesn't know what to do with me. I've had another spell yesterday and I'm thinking I'm not going to make it. Baby just seems super hungry when I try to nurse him and he's so fidgety that he knocks the shield off. I have a hard time getting it on in the first place. Then he screams and won't latch and it's on to the bottle . I'm so depressed about it, I'm hoping to see the lactation nurses next week for some more help.

Hey Pink. Riya does the same thing. I actually stopped using the shield because of that very same reason. Try without it and see how he does. Mess with your nips a bit to make them stiffer so its easier to latch. It's normal for them to get fussy it's just because their hungry. What I do is really guide hrr to the nipple even if it means pusing on her head gently. Once she finds the nipple she really latches on. If he doesn't suck right away try stroking his chin or behind the ears. Once the milk starts flowing I am sure he will pick up.

I was like you and got really upset, but if it's something you really want then don't give up hun. I know you two can do it.

 

[Carlyp1990]

Kiwi that's lovely advice and words of encouragement xx

 

[ab75]

I love the support on here xx

 

[sheebee]

So talk to me about sweeps! When is everyone getting one? They won't do it here till 41 weeks and I'm trying to figure out if that's normal or not? I was sure I had one at 40 weeks with Ds.

In regards to the breastfeeding difficulties. I remember the first 8 weeks with ds were horrible, it was so so painful and I was never convinced he was satisfied. Just keep on truckin' and take one feed at a time, there no point worrying about the next one till it's there. I know its so hard but try not to put too much pressure on yourself, you're doing wonderfully!

 

[Mummy to be x]

Hello ladies.

Sorry I've not been around much, these last few days have been awful to say the least and it's really taken it's toll on me and Scott, we are exhausted emotionally and physically. We should of had our baby home with us now and it felt so wrong coming home without him, I can't help feel guilty for leaving the hospital but I couldn't take no more of it.

Thank you all so much for your concerns and messages it means so much to me, I really don't know how I'd of coped these past few days without all you ladies. You've been amazing

 

[Kiwiberry]

I hope things are better with you and Scott Amy .

 

[Carlyp1990]

I'll be 40+3 tomorrow when I have mine. I was also 40+3 when I had my first one with katie. I think it depends on the midwife and the circumstances xx

 

[Mummy to be x]

We are getting there Suzy, it's just been difficult and we are both so tired. We will get through it we are strong xx

 

[Carlyp1990]

Hello ladies.

Sorry I've not been around much, these last few days have been awful to say the least and it's really taken it's toll on me and Scott, we are exhausted emotionally and physically. We should of had our baby home with us now and it felt so wrong coming home without him, I can't help feel guilty for leaving the hospital but I couldn't take no more of it.

Thank you all so much for your concerns and messages it means so much to me, I really don't know how I'd of coped these past few days without all you ladies. You've been amazing

Bless you hun, I hope you manage to sort things soon and are back to your old self soon you know where I am if you need a chat xxxx

Omg I feel like I'm in labour... having contractions really bad, can't sit down or talk through them and they're not even 3 minutes apart I'd say. Just trying to wait it out as long as I can before I start getting jon panicked xx

 

[Mummy to be x]

Thanks Carly

Oh my goodness do you think this is it?!? Xx

 

[UniqueBeauty]

For some strange reason I have 2 midwife appointments tomorrow, slightly confused

I think if I'm offered a sweep I might take it. My auntie Joanne died on the 15th of January so I really hope she doesn't come around then. Never a happy time for my Nan, Grandad and Mum.

Good luck with your sweep Carly (Update: if you're going to need it!) x

 

[Carlyp1990]

It's miles worse than the other night so far, I hope this is it! I'll keep you ladies updated when I can. Jon's getting excited xx

 

[Mummy to be x]

It definitely sounds like it could be it, your over due after all x

 

[brunettebimbo]

Eeeeek Carly!! Fingers crossed.

 

[ab75]

C'mon Lucy xx

 

[UniqueBeauty]

For the life of me I cannot get to sleep AGAIN. Restless legs and constant tossing and turning

Fingers crossed Lucy is on her way! X

 

[Carlyp1990]

Well I'm still at home, still in alot of pain but the hospital have said they don't want me to go in. Currently contracting every 2 mins or so. I'm sat in bed with a hot water bottle on my back, under midwife orders but it's not helping at all.
had the in laws round earlier to watch katie so we could go but we've sent them home now for some sleep xx

 

[ab75]

Carly that's ridiculous. When are you supposed to go in? I thought it was after they were 3 mins apart!! Good luck. You're gonna be having baby snuggles soon xxxx

 

[brunettebimbo]

That's awful! Contractions that close means baby will arrive soon! Idiots