I'd say the etiquette likely depends where you live. In the US, its pretty common that bridesmaids and groomsmen pay for their own attire, and are gifted nice gifts from the bride and groom. I'd imagine well off brides/grooms might be able to pay for their wedding party, but I don't think I know a single person or a single wedding I've ever been to that the party didn't pay for their own attire. I've been in several weddings and always paid for my own gown, chosen by the bride, and paid for any alterations it needed.
You don't HAVE to have a bridal party though so if it's not in the budget just don't ask anyone.
Weddings in the us seem to be quite different. The ceremonys are way later than here and we dont have cocktail hour. Also the wedding parties over there are huge. Most people in the UK have 2-4 bridesmaids and a best man plus a couple ushers. Ive seen an episode of 4 weddings when there was 30 odd people in the bridal party :/
We paid for everything, but one of my bridesmaids took the piss as she was demanding £150 shoes!
We paid for everything, but one of my bridesmaids took the piss as she was demanding £150 shoes!
Omg please tell me you told her no.......that's just crazy and so rude to demand that much!
We paid for everything, but one of my bridesmaids took the piss as she was demanding £150 shoes!
Omg please tell me you told her no.......that's just crazy and so rude to demand that much!
I just looked at her and laughed then got the the cheapest (and ugliest) pair i could find