Hi everyone, please weigh in with an honest opinion.
This summer, my husband, youngest child and I are going to Ireland to attend a friend`s wedding. As we live in Canada, it is a significant journey for us. He is a very dear friend and we are so excited to see him marry the woman of his dreams/his best friend.
With the costs of airfare, accommodation, vehicle rental, food and other costs it will be an expensive trip for us.
Are we expected to also give a wedding gift to the happy couple? I don't want to sound conceited and don't mean that being in my company is an amazing treat for anybody but in this case, is our presence consider enough of a gift?
If it matters, the groom is 42 and the bride is in her late thirties. They both had homes of their own before moving in together and are well established in their careers.
So- gift or no gift?
This summer, my husband, youngest child and I are going to Ireland to attend a friend`s wedding. As we live in Canada, it is a significant journey for us. He is a very dear friend and we are so excited to see him marry the woman of his dreams/his best friend.
With the costs of airfare, accommodation, vehicle rental, food and other costs it will be an expensive trip for us.
Are we expected to also give a wedding gift to the happy couple? I don't want to sound conceited and don't mean that being in my company is an amazing treat for anybody but in this case, is our presence consider enough of a gift?
If it matters, the groom is 42 and the bride is in her late thirties. They both had homes of their own before moving in together and are well established in their careers.
So- gift or no gift?