Welcome to the ttc in fall group..........AUTUMN ACORNS!!!!

[mouse_chicky]

Glad you got the answer you were looking for, KellyC75. Pretty soon you'll want to see that other line.

HM, you gave me a good idea of what to order when we go.

Still trying to get lo back to sleep. The inlaws watched her while dh and I went on a date to an outdoor theatre (drive in) to see Something Borrowed and The Hangover 2. BTW, I recommend both movies. All in all, crazy but not a bad day.

 

[vaniilla]

Booo. Haha! I wonder if I have some setting turned on I don't know about...

I was a memer of over 200 groups on FB, HK was able to add me when I got it just under 200


KellyC75 it can be normal to miss a cycle I've heard, but I'd ask a doctor for a second opinion, maybe call NHS direct? I always find them more helpful than the gp's.

Mouse_chicky glad to hear you had a good time yesterday
we also watched a movie last night but at home, we watched tangled and I loved it

 

[vicki.mummy]

HK - i will be carrying hopefully just 1 baby.... hehe
how is everyone doing today?

 

[babynewbie]

mouse chicky i reeeaally want to see hangover 2!! the first one is hilarious i love it

vicki.mummy, im good this morning thank you, part of my plan for today is to finish cutting LOs hair lol started yesterday but he hates it so i literally have to run round after him cutting tiny bits at a time when he gets distracted! Almost done, just need to tidy up all the odd bits if he'll let me!

how are you?

 

[babynewbie]

Can anyone help me with this...If i make some home made smoothies and soups, can they be frozen? And then defrosted when i want them?

 

[pichi]

yeah they can. just try not to keep them longer than 3 months i think it is....

 

[babynewbie]

ah brilliant cos rather than make some up each time i thought it would be easier to make a big batch and then freeze it to have whenever. thanks

 

[vaniilla]

ah brilliant cos rather than make some up each time i thought it would be easier to make a big batch and then freeze it to have whenever. thanks

theres a really good freezer guide on the bbc site, https://www.bbcgoodfood.com/content/recipes/features/freezing/1/

 

[KellyC75]

Tough morning here Just been to collect my fur-babies ashes & it was alot harder than I thought Glad I took my shades It really 'got me' when I went into the chapel of rest (which is where my DH took him) I signed the memory book

 

[vicki.mummy]

babynewbie - i'm alright this morning, was a bit rough first thing. I changed antidepressants recently and it's been a bit tough - but doing much better now, just needed to talk it out. it's hard because my OH leaves at 6am for work - so we dont' get much time to talk. thank goodness for mobiles!!! you should defo freeze smoothies and soups - but only for 3 months definitely and be sure to bring your soup right to the boil.

kelly - sending hugs, i'm sorry hun. I know it's really hard - we lost one of our cats in November and it was devastating. Stay strong, and know you gave him a good life.

 

[babynewbie]

Tough morning here Just been to collect my fur-babies ashes & it was alot harder than I thought Glad I took my shades It really 'got me' when I went into the chapel of rest (which is where my DH took him) I signed the memory book

babynewbie - i'm alright this morning, was a bit rough first thing. I changed antidepressants recently and it's been a bit tough - but doing much better now, just needed to talk it out. it's hard because my OH leaves at 6am for work - so we dont' get much time to talk. thank goodness for mobiles!!! you should defo freeze smoothies and soups - but only for 3 months definitely and be sure to bring your soup right to the boil.

I used to hate that when my OH started work early/finished late and didnt get to see him much, but he has a new job now with normal hours yay

 

[vicki.mummy]

i do hate it, she leaves at 6am and doesn't get home till after 7pm..... it sucks!!! and last month when the weather was bad she got stuck and had to stay up there....... once i get pregnant she is probably going to look for a job closer - but i feel bad because she loves her job but she can't drive..... it's frustrating.

 

[vaniilla]

Kellyc75, I'm really sorry hun just think that it was for the best rather than him being in pain, he's not really gone, he'll always be with you in good memories


vicki.mummy I know the feeling, my oh works 9 - 8 mon - thurs, and gets to finish at 6 on fridays, he always goes in for a few hours on saturday sometimes, hopefully like you said once your pregnant she'll be in a job closer to home and with less hours hopefully

 

[Shabutie]

Ah Kelly

 

[Shabutie]

Morning girls :wave:

So today is a boring day, the weather is rubbish too. Was going to go shopping with my mum but I have only just got Amara to have a nap after 3 hours!! so thought i'd leave her instead of waking her up just to go shopping.

Also, its 34 days until OH is home and gets to see Amara after 4 looooooooooong months and of course TTC!

 

[pichi]

morning girls only 4 more sleeps till we get our house keys

i put a vid in my journal today of pixie pulling herself up on boxes in our room this morn she's getting a big girl

 

[babyb54]

Booo. Haha! I wonder if I have some setting turned on I don't know about...

I was a memer of over 200 groups on FB, HK was able to add me when I got it just under 200

I don't think I'm a member of even 10 groups, haha. Bummer. I'll see if MackMomma can try.. that way I know whether it's something on my end or what.

Thanks for the suggestion though!

Tough morning here Just been to collect my fur-babies ashes & it was alot harder than I thought Glad I took my shades It really 'got me' when I went into the chapel of rest (which is where my DH took him) I signed the memory book

So sorry. Furbabies are family, I understand why this is such a hard time for you!

 

[kellysays2u]

Welcome to all the new members!

I didn't do a full readup because the newsletter gave a heads up of what has been going on.

Sorry to hear of your loss vanilla. I had a miscarriage before athena. It was only at 6 weeks but 6 weeks is 6 weeks just as 4 weeks is still 4 weeks. A loss is a loss no matter how long. I always long for that baby but I also no had i had him or her I would not have had Athena as the miscarriage was only 2 months before I got a BFP with Athena. I lurk the miscarriage forum a lot but have never really posted I keep the loss to myself and my family for the most part.

Kelly so sorry to hear about your loss as well. Pets become a part of the family.

I have been busy and OH's family now all hates me OH's younger brother (he is 18) has just begun dating a 24 year old who has 3 children. We do not really approve of her for a bunch of reasons, such as the fact she dated and cheated on OH's best friend only months before, she also was trying to be with OH's other friend, she lied to OH's friend about getting pregnant and having a miscarriage (we know its a lie because I am friends with one of her best friends and she told me she made it up to try and keep him with her), she never bothers to have her kids around her, and when I talked to her the other day she made it seem like she wished she didn't have her kids just so she could be with OH's younger brother. Mostly we are just worried because he is supposed to be going away to college in the fall and the way he is getting attached to her we don't think he will go anymore. As well as we do not think he should be involved with her do to all the lying and cheating she has done in the past.

Well they hate me now cause we invited OH's younger brother to the beach on Sunday for fathers day. We only wanted him there but of course he had to bring his girlfriend too (of course she didn't have her kids with her, she never has in all the times we have all gotten together). OH was furious when he saw her there and told me to tell her the truth if she asked if he approved and what not. Of course the moment she sits down she brings it up. I tried saying IDK at first but she kept pestering so I told her that no we did not think it was a good idea for OH's younger brother to be with her and we did not approve. She went on and on asking why and that was the only thing she talked about the entire time. So when they went home (same time we did) she I guess spoke to him about how I said his entirely family didn't approve and I was really cruel and all this other stuff. I was not cruel in the least. She pestered me the whole time while I was trying to watch my daughter. I was not really in the mood to be talking about it but I answered her questions politely and even said we wouldn't get involved and it was his decision but we didn't care for them being together. I even mentioned I didn't know how everyone else felt. Although I did know as OH's dad flat out called her a W**RE the other day behind her back when she came over. But apparently I had no right to say anything and that I am not apart of the family after 4 years and she is more of the part of the family then I will ever be. Of course OH stuck up for me and OH's nana completely agrees with me and loves me to death and we will still go visit but the whole situation just stinks. I considered them more of a family then my own family. OH's younger brother has always been like a brother to me I loved there whole family even with all their flaws. But I guess I need to move on. I just wonder if I was really wrong with what I did. OH says no but I hate losing what felt like my family as well. His dad flat out said you and Athena are but she is not a part of OUR family. OH texted back and said no you are no longer a part of OUR family if you are going to act like this she did nothing wrong.... But I still feel off about it...


Sorry I wrote a novel I just have no one else to talk to about it. OH just doesn't want me too cause he can see how upset I am. He even deleted all the texts cause we share a phone and new I would read them again.... I just hate it.

 

[babyb54]

morning girls only 4 more sleeps till we get our house keys

i put a vid in my journal today of pixie pulling herself up on boxes in our room this morn she's getting a big girl

What a CUTIE!!! Love it!

 

[kellysays2u]

Booo. Haha! I wonder if I have some setting turned on I don't know about...

I was a memer of over 200 groups on FB, HK was able to add me when I got it just under 200

I don't think I'm a member of even 10 groups, haha. Bummer. I'll see if MackMomma can try.. that way I know whether it's something on my end or what.

Thanks for the suggestion though!

Tough morning here Just been to collect my fur-babies ashes & it was alot harder than I thought Glad I took my shades It really 'got me' when I went into the chapel of rest (which is where my DH took him) I signed the memory book

So sorry. Furbabies are family, I understand why this is such a hard time for you!

You may actually be in more groups then you think, I was shocked at the number of them I was "in". Back in the day where they used to have those pages that people "liked" are all considered groups. The pages would be just be little saying but there all "groups" in facebook terms. If you go to any of the group pages on the left hand side it will say the number you are in. Of course I could be wrong and you really arent in that many but I have seen a number of people who didn't know those were groups and were in too many