Welcome to the 'Two Week Wait'

[LovingMyGirls]

Ladies I am going bananas I Have a 2 ww After I ovulate.. But almost a 4 WW to Ovulate... I HATE long cycles and BCP messed my body up to were I don't even know if they will be normal. My temps are so odd and I just want to ovulate already and be in this WAITTT. Ahh sorry im just getting overwhelmed with this waiting game.

Girl, that just sucks your cycles are so long! I wouldn't be able to deal with that. Can't your doc do anything for you??? You poor thing.

Ah thanx. yeah it makes me little bonkers trying to wait this LONGGGG wait out. My Dr says is saying that my cycles may take up to 6 month to regulate since I got off BCP in early May that this is normal. I just get jealous/frustrated since people have 6 times more of a chance a year to conceive then me. With mine being almost 40 and the norm 28 days its just aggravating that I am having extra 2WW... But I am going to BD every day on my green days and I have high hopes this will be my month. Doesn't help that my best gf is pregnant and doesn't want to be yet I am THIRILLED to get preggo!

 

[mmcheek1]

I remember last time i was trying to concieve i was frustrated all the time, but then i got pregnant and relized if i got pregnant before it wouldn't have been with this particular chils. I can't imagin life without my lil man, so no other baby would have done. modern meds help guys so if need be a little assistance to get the bean for you

 

[Jenson2013]

Hello,

I am 7dpo and was silly this morning and decided to do a pregnancy test even though I knew it was way to early. Today I went shopping with my mum all day and felt really tired, sick and light headed most of the day. I'm hoping this is a good sign. Anyone else felt the same way?

Wishing you all good luck

 

[Mswhit21]

Ladies can I have some help. My bf and I are currently TTC baby #1! I'm quite irregular but last month I finally got my normal period back after being on the depo shot. I'm not currently on any bc. According to my last period I should've ovulate between 8/11-8/17. On the 17th I got out of the shower and noticed I have a busted blood vessel in my eye (never had one before) also had a headache and exhausted. I've been feeling the same everyday so far but yesterday I was super gassy and my nipples were tingling. I have cramps when I pee most of the time. Probably around the 15th I started spotting until the 18th but only when I wipe and it's a brown blood(old?) AF isn't due until Sunday so not sure what's goin on. Nauseous when I cook and I think I can smell more things but maybe it's just me noticing more. Also had a bad taste in my mouth yesterday and day before(mainly in mornings) and today noticed an increase in CM. what do y'all think about it?

 

[Tokyo_Duck]

another day, another test. I don't know why I do this to myself.
Yesterday I had really sharp pains again, I also had a good quantity of brown blood, and this morning it seems reddish, coinciding perfectly with the fact that AF is expected today. My temperature is down, although not below the coverline yet. I tested with super concentrated fmu. The line is still there, although it is so light I practically have to squint to see it. I realize this probably means another chemical pregnancy, but am still absurdly hoping. Has anyone been in this situation and made it through?

Babyhead, Don't feel bad for ranting. We all need to do it at times. You are absolutely right that this whole process is torturous.

Sticky Baby Dust to all you still waiting.

 

[VivianJean]

I'm having a similar situation. Was EXHAUSTED the last four days (O'd Wed of last week according to two violently red lines on my OPK, BD'd every day five days before and including Wed)- but put it down to starting a new job with different work hours (was on a 9 - 5 and I'm working 10 - 7 now... oh the joys of TV production)... sore BBs on and off, (not unusual for this TOM) with AF due Monday 26th. After almost NO CM I now have this thick white goo (ssssssoooorrry TMI) when I go to the bathroom and it's a little bit off color. I put all of this down to AF. Then I thought... well it's a bit early for break-through if I'm not due to start until Monday... but then my cycles were all over the place and I went from a nice predictable 29 day cycle (incidentally TOMORROW is 29 days) to between 36 and 33 (coming down since doc got my thyroid hormones back in the normal range last month). When I got preg the first time I remember having a similar situation and thinking "oh I guess it's just break through bleeding" and then a few days later realizing my AF was a day late, emergency run to a late night pharmacy because I was on the road with work and I couldn't bare not knowing, POAS and BOOM.

So what do I make of all this now? AUGH. Just AUGH.*tear*

 

[mmcheek1]

21- it sounds promising for you!!!!!
sooo as i mentioned i was on my last cycle of clomid this month 150mgs when my RE decided he thought the injections would be a better route, last month my oeriod was freaking 14 days late and I am at like cd 18 now, I had a positive opk last wed and i went to the bathroom and i was bleeding black cm yuck right and what the hell is this anyways!!!!! I go in the morning to get a blood preggo ttest cause even the RE is like wth along with me. I had a perfect 28 day cycles for a year then we begin to ttc and now my cycles are 35 days and 18 days long hummmmmmnmmmmmmmmmm grrrrrrrrrrr. I dont think its implantation although I did think it, but he had intercourse just in case it was ovulation bleeding and now I seem to be bleeding more. I had absolutelu no AF signs just bammmm here I am, so I prolly out of the tww, but I hope I can still linger here till my next month which shall be crazy shots in my belly everyday wooohooo yay to my stupid body

 

[VivianJean]

21- it sounds promising for you!!!!!
sooo as i mentioned i was on my last cycle of clomid this month 150mgs when my RE decided he thought the injections would be a better route, last month my oeriod was freaking 14 days late and I am at like cd 18 now, I had a positive opk last wed and i went to the bathroom and i was bleeding black cm yuck right and what the hell is this anyways!!!!! I go in the morning to get a blood preggo ttest cause even the RE is like wth along with me. I had a perfect 28 day cycles for a year then we begin to ttc and now my cycles are 35 days and 18 days long hummmmmmnmmmmmmmmmm grrrrrrrrrrr. I dont think its implantation although I did think it, but he had intercourse just in case it was ovulation bleeding and now I seem to be bleeding more. I had absolutelu no AF signs just bammmm here I am, so I prolly out of the tww, but I hope I can still linger here till my next month which shall be crazy shots in my belly everyday wooohooo yay to my stupid body

sorry about the body-run-around. I'm right with you on this one x

 

[mmcheek1]

its so strange i just checked my cp and its higher and softer than normal and barely am i bleeding, but there was some in the toilet therefore that indicated atleast a flow of some type, right?

 

[Jenson2013]

Hi girls,

I'm having a similar experience to Vivienjean. I O'd last weds and pretty much straight after had white, milky discharge which started of thick and now I just have a bit everyday. I've also been really tired on Sunday I suddenly felt exhausted wen I'd been at home all day and unusually struggled to do minimal things. Yesterday I went shopping all day and felt really tired, light headed and sick all day! I really hope these are good signs for us all. My cycle is very messed up at the mo so trying to wait till next Wednesday to test! It's a long wait! My first baby beautiful boy jenson was stillborn so I'm crossing everything that we will be pregnant with his brother or sister!

Good luck everyone xx

 

[Babyhead]

Had some drops of red blood after doing the deed today with oh. I'm going to test again when I get home. 12dpo. Not holding out much hope but I know il be debased if its af starting to show her face!

 

[mmcheek1]

jenson- I am so sorry for your loss, I will be praying this is your month. The tww is hard when you want it so bad. I am telling you symptoms come on strong when your aching to conceive

 

[mmcheek1]

yea so I have a flow of blood not spotting but bleeding. I will call doc this a.m and cancel my blood hcg and schedule my hsg, so i can start my injections. I am real nervous last pregnancy baby was born spontaneously at 32 weeks and with the injections the chance of twins is 1n3. I am scared. The doctor says if I am healthy and get lost of rest from early pregnancy on, stay hydrated, no intercourse after a certain amount of weeks, and get a high risk OB then I should be good. The last pregnancy I told doctors I lost my mucus plug and was having contractions and I wasnt taken seriously. They could have probbably stopped my labor before my water broke had someone listened to what I was saying. Sorry for the rant. I guess I will cruise over to ttc and check in with you guys to see who got lucky this month

 

[VivianJean]

Hi girls,

I'm having a similar experience to Vivienjean. I O'd last weds and pretty much straight after had white, milky discharge which started of thick and now I just have a bit everyday. I've also been really tired on Sunday I suddenly felt exhausted wen I'd been at home all day and unusually struggled to do minimal things. Yesterday I went shopping all day and felt really tired, light headed and sick all day! I really hope these are good signs for us all. My cycle is very messed up at the mo so trying to wait till next Wednesday to test! It's a long wait! My first baby beautiful boy jenson was stillborn so I'm crossing everything that we will be pregnant with his brother or sister!

Good luck everyone xx

Makes me feel less alone. Thx. I had a big breakdown last night - hardly slept. Just cried and cried.

This month is a year since we had to terminate our preg. We thought we'd get preg easy and since then nothing but trouble. This month was the first month that DH and I were in the same city for the big O and some time before, that we BDd every day, that I took pre-vits reg, that my thyroid was stable.... this month was meant to be my redemption and atonement. This month was meant to result in a baby that would be born and help me not feel like absolute sh!t about the terrible decision we had to make last year.

 

[VivianJean]

So sorry MM - here for you x

 

[mmcheek1]

well it turns out i am not on my period and may not be out this month, I am having what they call a mid-cycle uterine dysfuction that basically says that im bleeding and may still produce an egg according to my RE i havent even ovulated yet go figure. my clear blue digi said I did, but the RE said my body was building up to egg release and for some reason failed. I am going in for an U/S tomorrow to see if there is an egg going if so then i may get a shot to release the egg to see if we can fertilize it but holly crap!!

 

[MummyDonz]

well it turns out i am not on my period and may not be out this month, I am having what they call a mid-cycle uterine dysfuction that basically says that im bleeding and may still produce an egg according to my RE i havent even ovulated yet go figure. my clear blue digi said I did, but the RE said my body was building up to egg release and for some reason failed. I am going in for an U/S tomorrow to see if there is an egg going if so then i may get a shot to release the egg to see if we can fertilize it but holly crap!!

Exciting stuff! Let us know how you get on.

 

[MillieTTC868]

21- it sounds promising for you!!!!!
sooo as i mentioned i was on my last cycle of clomid this month 150mgs when my RE decided he thought the injections would be a better route, last month my oeriod was freaking 14 days late and I am at like cd 18 now, I had a positive opk last wed and i went to the bathroom and i was bleeding black cm yuck right and what the hell is this anyways!!!!! I go in the morning to get a blood preggo ttest cause even the RE is like wth along with me. I had a perfect 28 day cycles for a year then we begin to ttc and now my cycles are 35 days and 18 days long hummmmmmnmmmmmmmmmm grrrrrrrrrrr. I dont think its implantation although I did think it, but he had intercourse just in case it was ovulation bleeding and now I seem to be bleeding more. I had absolutelu no AF signs just bammmm here I am, so I prolly out of the tww, but I hope I can still linger here till my next month which shall be crazy shots in my belly everyday wooohooo yay to my stupid body

Awe man sorry for that for showing our bodies can be so unpredictable at times it's crazy.... I'm 21dpo today and still bfn went to my gyn to get a blood test done, the urine sample came back negative my heart couldn't break anymore into the little pieces it was already in.. She told me come back tomorrow for my results I'm gonna be there front and center early..I'm nervous scared and anxious in finding out. I'm experiencing these cramps like AF is arriving but nothing..I guess I just have to wait ...**Sighz**

Hope somebody gets a Bfp very soon baby baby baby dust to all

 

[MillieTTC868]

well it turns out i am not on my period and may not be out this month, I am having what they call a mid-cycle uterine dysfuction that basically says that im bleeding and may still produce an egg according to my RE i havent even ovulated yet go figure. my clear blue digi said I did, but the RE said my body was building up to egg release and for some reason failed. I am going in for an U/S tomorrow to see if there is an egg going if so then i may get a shot to release the egg to see if we can fertilize it but holly crap!!

Yaaaaaaaaay I totally didn't see this one disregard my response.. Hope this is it!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2014 babies in the process

 

[Jenson2013]

Thank you mmcheek you definitely analyse everything when you want it so bad! I hope things turn out well for you too very soon

Aww Vivienjean thats really sad, trust me your not alone I can't believe how many people I have found who have had still borns or pregnancy problems and losses since it happened to me. No one really talks about it until it happens. The good news is it seems people go on to have more children. It's still incredibly upsetting and now scary and I know when it happens I will be at the docs with every unusual symptom! But until then I'm praying that this month we can plan for our second baby. I beat my self up everyday that I could have done something different to save Jenson but you can't think like that. I hope everything happens for a reason and I'm hoping we will both be able to see that very soon!

Good luck to you all this month