Welcome to the 'Two Week Wait'

[MPG1980]

Today is 9dpo, having AF pains
Hoping its implantation fx

 

[Jenson2013]

Ooh sounds promising! Good luck, I'm 9dpo too, when are u going to test?

 

[MPG1980]

Jenson2013 - The clinic said to come in for a blood test on August 31st. I really want to test earlier but hubby thinks I should just be patient and wait...but maybe I just won't tell him lol. When are you going to test?

 

[LovingMyGirls]

Gl ladies... I really hope theres some BFPS on here... 3 days till I FINALLY ovulate!!! almost been 6 weeks of ovulating so im FX.. I cant imagine what you ladies went threw. I had a miscarriage and that was hard enough for me I couldn't even imagine growing a bond.. Im sure that experience (although awful) made you ladies stronger. And as hard as it was im sure you came out of it a better person. I lost my parents and siblings within few years but cant not even imagine my child... Cheers to you all and im really hoping to see some BFPS on here... good luck.. ill say little prayer

anybody ovulate near me?? would like someone to go threw the dreaded wait with!!!

 

[ttcbabyisom]

@ttcbabyisom thank you I really hope it doesn't show up either ,which it hasn't.

This is beginning to come real frustrating for me no sign of Af. Whatsoever just a lot of Ewcm. AND STILL the hpt says...aaaarggg at this point I just want to give up...but the strangest thing happen to me today on my way home from work a bunch of little kids that I never seen in my life just came to me and gave me a big hug.i look so confused and this one lil girl nomore than 5 came and just put her head on my stomach and her little brother too (I guess it was her brother)...idk where I'm going with this story but maybe they sense so,etching cooking..lol idk just thought I shared hat with you guys made my day.....
Told OH he laughed nd said something definitely inside there but he thinks I should wait another week or so to test he lost his mind.. I'm 19dpo when will I get my ??????

IM STILL HANGING IN THERE THOUGH..
BabyDust to all

Oh good luck to you Millie. 19 dpo? Ugh...i'd be pulling my hair out by now!

 

[ttcbabyisom]

I really appreciate all the support and baby dust^^
So, I tested again today, and got a resounding I feel like crying.
The pains have subdued quite a bit, but are still being felt. I have some thick brown cm today, but no blood flow. AF due tomorrow.
I drank two or three glasses of water just before bed last night, so maybe fmu was too diluted? yesterday both positives were faint, but very clear. I am hoping for a false negative rather than another chemical pregnancy.
I should add that even though I am only 2 months of actively ttc, it has been almost a year of ntnp. I am kind of wishing I had held off testing. It might be better not knowing.

For the time being, I am praying for a sticky bean. baby dust to all of you wonderful ladies.

Ugh, how frustrating sweetie. I hope you get your BFP soon and I hope this isn't a chemical for you. Those suck!

 

[ttcbabyisom]

last month i was three weeks late for my cycle and I had two blood tests done before AF showed herself, and I was so frustrated caause that put a dely on the new month. Millie i hope things are different for you then it was for me. this month i am real calm about things and have not even the desire to test and recieve my negative results. I really think its because im excited to do the injections mostly because my RE is taking the guess work out of everything. here is you injections, okay u/s reveiled this many eggs oka BD these days and if no cycle 14 days later then you are 99.99% preggers. this seems so much better then clomid 150, cramps, reading those stupid opk's, did i actually ovulate, oh am i pregnant, damn im not!

i want that! Not your late AF and frustration but the other thing...the injections. Is that IUI? I'll be going to my 3rd dose of clomid (the 100 mg this time) in either a week and a half or just waiting for my october cycle. i have a POAS addiction so I don't mind that but it would be nice not to HAVE to do it to confirm O along with temping so good luck to you!!!

 

[ttcbabyisom]

Why is this whole process so god damn torturous?!! Bfn again today. Spotting also. Cycle day 22 for me. I'm fed up looking for lines that clearly aren't there! I hate my body and how it makes you think things are happening. Ugh!!! Didn't sleep too good so I'm feeling crabby and sure af will show her face now. I'm roughly 11dpo. Didn't chart or temp this month. I just want to go to sleep but noooo! Work is calling sorry ladies for the rant! I needed to vent. Hope you ladies are having more positive signs than what I've had. Have a nice day X

sorry sweetie, our bodies suck! This is the first month in almost TWO years that I'm CALM! It's because we are actively taking a break this month....well, no peeing on sticks, no charting, no temping, no "timed" sex, none of it. We did have sex and but i wasn't looking at the calendar at all so when i looked back just to see, we had dtd perfect IF i O'd on my normal CD14 so we shall see...i'm remaining calm and mellow this month and fully expect AF the 29th or 30th...or 31st. Maybe you should try a "break" month. It's done wonders for us! I never thought I could or would do it. Good luck sweetie. Hang in there.

 

[ttcbabyisom]

Ladies I am going bananas I Have a 2 ww After I ovulate.. But almost a 4 WW to Ovulate... I HATE long cycles and BCP messed my body up to were I don't even know if they will be normal. My temps are so odd and I just want to ovulate already and be in this WAITTT. Ahh sorry im just getting overwhelmed with this waiting game.

Girl, that just sucks your cycles are so long! I wouldn't be able to deal with that. Can't your doc do anything for you??? You poor thing.

Ah thanx. yeah it makes me little bonkers trying to wait this LONGGGG wait out. My Dr says is saying that my cycles may take up to 6 month to regulate since I got off BCP in early May that this is normal. I just get jealous/frustrated since people have 6 times more of a chance a year to conceive then me. With mine being almost 40 and the norm 28 days its just aggravating that I am having extra 2WW... But I am going to BD every day on my green days and I have high hopes this will be my month. Doesn't help that my best gf is pregnant and doesn't want to be yet I am THIRILLED to get preggo!

Oh yeah, that would seriously make me go bonkers. I don't remember it taking my body that long after going off my BCP but it's very possible it did. I wasn't charting then. That does suck you get half the chance the rest of us do. There has to be something they can do for you.
Also, i've read and heard it's best to BD every other day to give those spermies time and a chance to build back up...but i'm sure it's just fine to do it on all the green days. I've done that plenty. Ugh...having the bf pregnant when you so want to be and she doesn't has to sting. One of my best friends is preggers right now tooo and i haven't been able to see her in person since the very beginning. I was pregnant before her and lost them and then she got pregnant within 4 weeks of me telling her of my loss so it's been tough. Hang in there girl!

 

[ttcbabyisom]

Hello,

I am 7dpo and was silly this morning and decided to do a pregnancy test even though I knew it was way to early. Today I went shopping with my mum all day and felt really tired, sick and light headed most of the day. I'm hoping this is a good sign. Anyone else felt the same way?

Wishing you all good luck

Goood luck Jenson and welcome!

 

[ttcbabyisom]

Ladies can I have some help. My bf and I are currently TTC baby #1! I'm quite irregular but last month I finally got my normal period back after being on the depo shot. I'm not currently on any bc. According to my last period I should've ovulate between 8/11-8/17. On the 17th I got out of the shower and noticed I have a busted blood vessel in my eye (never had one before) also had a headache and exhausted. I've been feeling the same everyday so far but yesterday I was super gassy and my nipples were tingling. I have cramps when I pee most of the time. Probably around the 15th I started spotting until the 18th but only when I wipe and it's a brown blood(old?) AF isn't due until Sunday so not sure what's goin on. Nauseous when I cook and I think I can smell more things but maybe it's just me noticing more. Also had a bad taste in my mouth yesterday and day before(mainly in mornings) and today noticed an increase in CM. what do y'all think about it?

Actually all symptoms sound very promising! Good luck to you sweetie!

 

[ttcbabyisom]

I'm having a similar situation. Was EXHAUSTED the last four days (O'd Wed of last week according to two violently red lines on my OPK, BD'd every day five days before and including Wed)- but put it down to starting a new job with different work hours (was on a 9 - 5 and I'm working 10 - 7 now... oh the joys of TV production)... sore BBs on and off, (not unusual for this TOM) with AF due Monday 26th. After almost NO CM I now have this thick white goo (ssssssoooorrry TMI) when I go to the bathroom and it's a little bit off color. I put all of this down to AF. Then I thought... well it's a bit early for break-through if I'm not due to start until Monday... but then my cycles were all over the place and I went from a nice predictable 29 day cycle (incidentally TOMORROW is 29 days) to between 36 and 33 (coming down since doc got my thyroid hormones back in the normal range last month). When I got preg the first time I remember having a similar situation and thinking "oh I guess it's just break through bleeding" and then a few days later realizing my AF was a day late, emergency run to a late night pharmacy because I was on the road with work and I couldn't bare not knowing, POAS and BOOM.

So what do I make of all this now? AUGH. Just AUGH.*tear*

I'm sorry honey but it all sounds very promising. I'm CROSSING MY FINGERS FOR YOU!!!

 

[ttcbabyisom]

Hi girls,

I'm having a similar experience to Vivienjean. I O'd last weds and pretty much straight after had white, milky discharge which started of thick and now I just have a bit everyday. I've also been really tired on Sunday I suddenly felt exhausted wen I'd been at home all day and unusually struggled to do minimal things. Yesterday I went shopping all day and felt really tired, light headed and sick all day! I really hope these are good signs for us all. My cycle is very messed up at the mo so trying to wait till next Wednesday to test! It's a long wait! My first baby beautiful boy jenson was stillborn so I'm crossing everything that we will be pregnant with his brother or sister!

Good luck everyone xx

I'm so sorry about your baby boy Jenson. So sorry for you loss sweetie!

 

[ttcbabyisom]

well it turns out i am not on my period and may not be out this month, I am having what they call a mid-cycle uterine dysfuction that basically says that im bleeding and may still produce an egg according to my RE i havent even ovulated yet go figure. my clear blue digi said I did, but the RE said my body was building up to egg release and for some reason failed. I am going in for an U/S tomorrow to see if there is an egg going if so then i may get a shot to release the egg to see if we can fertilize it but holly crap!!

Wow, that's crazy! GOOD LUCK!!!

 

[ttcbabyisom]

Today is 9dpo, having AF pains
Hoping its implantation fx

 

[VivianJean]

I'm having a similar situation. Was EXHAUSTED the last four days (O'd Wed of last week according to two violently red lines on my OPK, BD'd every day five days before and including Wed)- but put it down to starting a new job with different work hours (was on a 9 - 5 and I'm working 10 - 7 now... oh the joys of TV production)... sore BBs on and off, (not unusual for this TOM) with AF due Monday 26th. After almost NO CM I now have this thick white goo (ssssssoooorrry TMI) when I go to the bathroom and it's a little bit off color. I put all of this down to AF. Then I thought... well it's a bit early for break-through if I'm not due to start until Monday... but then my cycles were all over the place and I went from a nice predictable 29 day cycle (incidentally TOMORROW is 29 days) to between 36 and 33 (coming down since doc got my thyroid hormones back in the normal range last month). When I got preg the first time I remember having a similar situation and thinking "oh I guess it's just break through bleeding" and then a few days later realizing my AF was a day late, emergency run to a late night pharmacy because I was on the road with work and I couldn't bare not knowing, POAS and BOOM.

So what do I make of all this now? AUGH. Just AUGH.*tear*

I'm sorry honey but it all sounds very promising. I'm CROSSING MY FINGERS FOR YOU!!!

Thanks HUGS... update - nothing today - poas this morning... nothing... but no more bleeding

 

[mmcheek1]

TTC- the injections is the begining stage of the ivf except since i clearly have an open tube we can stop at the egg production. I have to have a daily shot for 12 days and then the doctor has me come in every few days for an ultrasound to see how many eggs we produced and will ovulation will take place. Then he gives me the thumbs up to go BD because the egg is in route and hopefully mr. spermie does his job. I am pretty confident this will happen mostly cause I got preggo on clomid with our DS who is 21 months old and we also have 4 others that are older. I have a tubal reversal done 1-15-2011 to give hubby his first child. I had 4 prior to our marriage. Anyways I had an u/s done today and it is confirmed I have an egg, one mature egg that has not released yet, so now that my mid-month stupid bleeding is over I am back to waiting to see if the egg releases and if we can fertilze it before getting the injections soooooooo I am techniqually not even in the tww yet grrrr which means my dumb period will be late again this month

 

[mmcheek1]

To those who have lost a child I really would like to say I am so sorry

 

[MillieTTC868]

Hello ladies
Today I wish never happen.. I went to the dr got my reults Blood Test came back negative at this point I really dnt know if I can conceive anymore and AF came...can somebody just push me off the cliff..
I'm just lost for words.so I guess I'm out this month.....

Just isn't fair...

GoodLuck ladies

 

[VivianJean]

Hello ladies
Today I wish never happen.. I went to the dr got my reults Blood Test came back negative at this point I really dnt know if I can conceive anymore and AF came...can somebody just push me off the cliff..
I'm just lost for words.so I guess I'm out this month.....

Just isn't fair...

GoodLuck ladies

I'm really sorry Millie, truly sorry. Allow yourself a little time to be sad for sure. You are experiencing grief. If ever there were a bunch of people who know at least a little how you feel it's US. Share as much or as little but know that we feel along with you.

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