Welcome to Trying To Conceive #1

[tigerbaby]

Wasn't for sure if I posted here yet. DH and I are in our mid/late 20s trying to concieve number 1. Currently CD 6/7 as AF started at night LOL

 

[MrsMM24]

:wave: welcome TIGERBABY GL FXD!

AFM… 12DPO, Temps are still high but declining. I am not sure what's happening, I think that I only have fatigue as a symptom left. My bbs never began to get fuller and sore as they have with both previous PGs. However, this morning, they seem to be tingling. I also have been feeling a little hot at night, not sure what to make of it. It kinda feels like AF is on the way. I hope not, but I can't deny the feeling. I still don’t really feel like I did when I have been PG in the past. FXD (tightly.) I am still SUPER tired. SS is decreasing = Fatigue is all I can list today and it isn't as bad as the last few days.

 

[PositiveUs]

Like a wise bnb member once said....

The progesterone that is released during the LP nearly mimics the feelings of PG so it is almost impossible to tell those signs apart from AF signs, ladies!!!!

Keep up the hope!!!!

 

[MrsMM24]

Well... 14DPO Temps are still high but going back down.... Still not sleeping as good, probably just sad. Not to mention DW is taking this bfn alot harder than our others, she really thought we were PG. BFN on the test this morning, but no ! Not planning to test again, just wait on that damn withc. SS = None. I added my name to OCt thread, hoping that is a bfp month for me, it is also the month our daughter was born so...

 

[LadyE]

hang in there MRS, lighting a candle for you

 

[sweet_honey]

Hi Everyone

Newbie right here!

Trying to Conceive as of this September. We are in our 20's and are very excited!!

 

[wanttobemom]

Hi every one!!! My DH and I have been TTC for over a year now, We are both in our 20`s. I am also plus-size. I wish every one losts of !!! If any one needs to talk I have been at this for awhile and I am more then willing to listen or share advice!!!

 

[MrsMM24]

Thanks LADYE, losing hope over here, not so optimistic.

:wave: SWEET_HONEY and WANTTOBEMOM, Gl, FXD!

AFM… 15DPO, Temps took a huge dive.... Still not sleeping as good, probably just sad. I actually read alot of encouraging words from quite a few of the ladies I communicate with on BNB yesterday and it made me feel soooo much better heading into Oct. Not so discouraged as I wait on AF.

I hope that you all are geared up for a good weekend.

 

[TNK]

Hello everyone! My Name is Tonya. You can call me T or Tonya that is up to you.. I have been trying to conceive for years but recently got the doctors involved. I've had all the blood test, those were normal. My husband got his sperm test done, that was also normal. I had the mid-cycle ultrasound done and that looked great, everything went fine there. Friday I had the HSG, that was the most painful thing I have ever done. I guess I made myself so nervous I almost passed out! The poor nurse got me juice..lol..She was so sweet..My tubes were perfect. No blockage there. I had a appointment on the 10th to speak to my doctor. I am hoping she gives me clomid.
I am really scared and I have no one to talk to about all this. All my friends have had no trouble getting pregnant. My sister in law had a adorable babygirl in May. My cousin who is more like a sister had her first child in July. So most days I feel alone. They tell me it will happen and I'm sure they are right but nothing can stop me from crying at night when my husband goes to sleep.
I am in my mid 20's and my husband is almost 40...
I'm sorry to dump so much on one post. I just want all the info out there so I can join in the conversation..I am feeling lonely these days..

 

[AMN21]

Hello everyone! My Name is Tonya. You can call me T or Tonya that is up to you.. I have been trying to conceive for years but recently got the doctors involved. I've had all the blood test, those were normal. My husband got his sperm test done, that was also normal. I had the mid-cycle ultrasound done and that looked great, everything went fine there. Friday I had the HSG, that was the most painful thing I have ever done. I guess I made myself so nervous I almost passed out! The poor nurse got me juice..lol..She was so sweet..My tubes were perfect. No blockage there. I had a appointment on the 10th to speak to my doctor. I am hoping she gives me clomid.
I am really scared and I have no one to talk to about all this. All my friends have had no trouble getting pregnant. My sister in law had a adorable babygirl in May. My cousin who is more like a sister had her first child in July. So most days I feel alone. They tell me it will happen and I'm sure they are right but nothing can stop me from crying at night when my husband goes to sleep.
I am in my mid 20's and my husband is almost 40...
I'm sorry to dump so much on one post. I just want all the info out there so I can join in the conversation..I am feeling lonely these days..

Welcome Tonya! I see your from MI? Where about? I'm from Monroe about 25-30 min south of Detroit. Anyways I am getting ready to see my doc on the 6th and was planning on askin her about checkin my tubes because my sister tried for a baby for a while and never knew her tubes were blocked. When we decided to get more serious about ttc about a yr and a half ago I had my bloodwork and ultrasounds done and they said everything looked great. But I never thought about my tubes til my sis told me to ask about it. So I'll see what my doc thinks. Anyways I hate when people keep sayin oh dont worry it'll happen...its like I KNOW but I want this NOW! lol. I wish you the best of luck! Hope this is our month!

 

[TNK]

Hello everyone! My Name is Tonya. You can call me T or Tonya that is up to you.. I have been trying to conceive for years but recently got the doctors involved. I've had all the blood test, those were normal. My husband got his sperm test done, that was also normal. I had the mid-cycle ultrasound done and that looked great, everything went fine there. Friday I had the HSG, that was the most painful thing I have ever done. I guess I made myself so nervous I almost passed out! The poor nurse got me juice..lol..She was so sweet..My tubes were perfect. No blockage there. I had a appointment on the 10th to speak to my doctor. I am hoping she gives me clomid.
I am really scared and I have no one to talk to about all this. All my friends have had no trouble getting pregnant. My sister in law had a adorable babygirl in May. My cousin who is more like a sister had her first child in July. So most days I feel alone. They tell me it will happen and I'm sure they are right but nothing can stop me from crying at night when my husband goes to sleep.
I am in my mid 20's and my husband is almost 40...
I'm sorry to dump so much on one post. I just want all the info out there so I can join in the conversation..I am feeling lonely these days..

Welcome Tonya! I see your from MI? Where about? I'm from Monroe about 25-30 min south of Detroit. Anyways I am getting ready to see my doc on the 6th and was planning on askin her about checkin my tubes because my sister tried for a baby for a while and never knew her tubes were blocked. When we decided to get more serious about ttc about a yr and a half ago I had my bloodwork and ultrasounds done and they said everything looked great. But I never thought about my tubes til my sis told me to ask about it. So I'll see what my doc thinks. Anyways I hate when people keep sayin oh dont worry it'll happen...its like I KNOW but I want this NOW! lol. I wish you the best of luck! Hope this is our month!

I live about 20 minutes away from Monroe..Its called Carleton but I don't live in that town..I live in the middle of nowhere! LOL!
You should get your tubes checked. Its the next step! At least that is what my Gyno said. I've read that a lot of women have no pain, no cramping, and it all goes good. For me the test hurt like hell and I almost passed out on the table! I hope it goes smooth for you and you get great news!
Everyone around me tells me to not worry about it. It gets to the point sometimes I feel like I cant even express how I am feeling. I love my husband and he is so supportive but he works really hard and the last thing I want to do is put my stress on him when he comes home from work. So I keep it in. I just stumbled on this site and seen that there were a lot of women out there who was feeling the same way I am feeling right now.
Thank you for your reply! I am crossing my fingers that this is my month! And I seed lots of baby dust to you and to every women who reads this post!

 

[Oyile]

Hi ladies its gud 2 kwn am nt d only one ttc.Thnx for this site sure helps wen u share wit others who knw and feel ur pain.

 

[AMN21]

Hello everyone! My Name is Tonya. You can call me T or Tonya that is up to you.. I have been trying to conceive for years but recently got the doctors involved. I've had all the blood test, those were normal. My husband got his sperm test done, that was also normal. I had the mid-cycle ultrasound done and that looked great, everything went fine there. Friday I had the HSG, that was the most painful thing I have ever done. I guess I made myself so nervous I almost passed out! The poor nurse got me juice..lol..She was so sweet..My tubes were perfect. No blockage there. I had a appointment on the 10th to speak to my doctor. I am hoping she gives me clomid.
I am really scared and I have no one to talk to about all this. All my friends have had no trouble getting pregnant. My sister in law had a adorable babygirl in May. My cousin who is more like a sister had her first child in July. So most days I feel alone. They tell me it will happen and I'm sure they are right but nothing can stop me from crying at night when my husband goes to sleep.
I am in my mid 20's and my husband is almost 40...
I'm sorry to dump so much on one post. I just want all the info out there so I can join in the conversation..I am feeling lonely these days..

Welcome Tonya! I see your from MI? Where about? I'm from Monroe about 25-30 min south of Detroit. Anyways I am getting ready to see my doc on the 6th and was planning on askin her about checkin my tubes because my sister tried for a baby for a while and never knew her tubes were blocked. When we decided to get more serious about ttc about a yr and a half ago I had my bloodwork and ultrasounds done and they said everything looked great. But I never thought about my tubes til my sis told me to ask about it. So I'll see what my doc thinks. Anyways I hate when people keep sayin oh dont worry it'll happen...its like I KNOW but I want this NOW! lol. I wish you the best of luck! Hope this is our month!

I live about 20 minutes away from Monroe..Its called Carleton but I don't live in that town..I live in the middle of nowhere! LOL!
You should get your tubes checked. Its the next step! At least that is what my Gyno said. I've read that a lot of women have no pain, no cramping, and it all goes good. For me the test hurt like hell and I almost passed out on the table! I hope it goes smooth for you and you get great news!
Everyone around me tells me to not worry about it. It gets to the point sometimes I feel like I cant even express how I am feeling. I love my husband and he is so supportive but he works really hard and the last thing I want to do is put my stress on him when he comes home from work. So I keep it in. I just stumbled on this site and seen that there were a lot of women out there who was feeling the same way I am feeling right now.
Thank you for your reply! I am crossing my fingers that this is my month! And I seed lots of baby dust to you and to every women who reads this post!

My sis lives in Carleton lol. And I understand about the husband, I tend not tell him everything I feel about ttc because I don't want it to become stressful to him. He worries I will stress to much but I don't think I am extreme about it. This site has helped out a lot! Im actually excited to see my doc and talk more about ttc...hope I get more than "just keep trying"!

 

[TNK]

Hello everyone! My Name is Tonya. You can call me T or Tonya that is up to you.. I have been trying to conceive for years but recently got the doctors involved. I've had all the blood test, those were normal. My husband got his sperm test done, that was also normal. I had the mid-cycle ultrasound done and that looked great, everything went fine there. Friday I had the HSG, that was the most painful thing I have ever done. I guess I made myself so nervous I almost passed out! The poor nurse got me juice..lol..She was so sweet..My tubes were perfect. No blockage there. I had a appointment on the 10th to speak to my doctor. I am hoping she gives me clomid.
I am really scared and I have no one to talk to about all this. All my friends have had no trouble getting pregnant. My sister in law had a adorable babygirl in May. My cousin who is more like a sister had her first child in July. So most days I feel alone. They tell me it will happen and I'm sure they are right but nothing can stop me from crying at night when my husband goes to sleep.
I am in my mid 20's and my husband is almost 40...
I'm sorry to dump so much on one post. I just want all the info out there so I can join in the conversation..I am feeling lonely these days..

Welcome Tonya! I see your from MI? Where about? I'm from Monroe about 25-30 min south of Detroit. Anyways I am getting ready to see my doc on the 6th and was planning on askin her about checkin my tubes because my sister tried for a baby for a while and never knew her tubes were blocked. When we decided to get more serious about ttc about a yr and a half ago I had my bloodwork and ultrasounds done and they said everything looked great. But I never thought about my tubes til my sis told me to ask about it. So I'll see what my doc thinks. Anyways I hate when people keep sayin oh dont worry it'll happen...its like I KNOW but I want this NOW! lol. I wish you the best of luck! Hope this is our month!

I live about 20 minutes away from Monroe..Its called Carleton but I don't live in that town..I live in the middle of nowhere! LOL!
You should get your tubes checked. Its the next step! At least that is what my Gyno said. I've read that a lot of women have no pain, no cramping, and it all goes good. For me the test hurt like hell and I almost passed out on the table! I hope it goes smooth for you and you get great news!
Everyone around me tells me to not worry about it. It gets to the point sometimes I feel like I cant even express how I am feeling. I love my husband and he is so supportive but he works really hard and the last thing I want to do is put my stress on him when he comes home from work. So I keep it in. I just stumbled on this site and seen that there were a lot of women out there who was feeling the same way I am feeling right now.
Thank you for your reply! I am crossing my fingers that this is my month! And I seed lots of baby dust to you and to every women who reads this post!

My sis lives in Carleton lol. And I understand about the husband, I tend not tell him everything I feel about ttc because I don't want it to become stressful to him. He worries I will stress to much but I don't think I am extreme about it. This site has helped out a lot! Im actually excited to see my doc and talk more about ttc...hope I get more than "just keep trying"!

Carleton is a great little town. Good luck at your doctors appointment. I believe they will lay out a plan for you. I cling to my plan..lol..I haven't went baby crazy yet..I am trying to remain calm and enjoy the fun with my husband!
This is my first night on the site. I am reading everything I can to catch up and get to know everyone and offer advice if I can..

 

[aintlifegrand]

Hey Ladies!
I'm glad I found this forum. I stumbled upon it because I have been TTC #1 for about a year and a half. My husband and I are both 31. We have been together for several years, but decided to try when we turned 30. After a year, we started talking to doctors. I have done the HSG and pelvic ultrasound, everything was normal. My husband went to be tested, and has a low sperm count. So now we are working on getting that up. Any helpful words and suggestions are welcome!

 

[MrsMM24]

:wave: welcome to the thread TONYAM OYILE, and AINTLIFE.... I hope that talking and the information that can be gathered on this site, paired with the doc involvements will prove successful for you all soon!

Never think you have no one to talk to... the wonderful ladies of BNB are ALWAYS here! Literally! Since it is global!

I wish you all luck and

 

[KateRose]

HI everyone,
I have never been on a forum before but joined today because I am feeling very lonely/scared/frustrated about TTC. My husband and I have been TTC for two years - I always knew I would have problems due to complicated surgeries I had as a baby and in my teens. I have had all the tests (two years ago) and although my tubes aren't 100% my specialist thinks IVF is the way forward. I have um and ahhhed for ages - I have such bad memories of hospital I was desperate to try naturally no mater how slim the chance - and delayed the next stage. I am now on my second cycle of clomid with no evidence of ovulation (I use the kits) and booked in to see the specialist next month with a view to starting IVF my next cycle. I've been OK about it all until this week when my sister-in-law, best childhood friend and best work friend all told me they were 5/6 weeks pregnant - Only one of those was trying (for two months), one it happened by accident and the last was NTNP (is that right? I don't get all the abbreviations) for just a month!
I feel wretched, jealous, sad and then so guilty for feeling all of that.
OK that is me - reading the other posts is already making me feel less alone, it would be nice to hear from anyone else how they cope with loved one happy pregnancy news.

 

[NannyWhitney]

HI everyone,
I have never been on a forum before but joined today because I am feeling very lonely/scared/frustrated about TTC. My husband and I have been TTC for two years - I always knew I would have problems due to complicated surgeries I had as a baby and in my teens. I have had all the tests (two years ago) and although my tubes aren't 100% my specialist thinks IVF is the way forward. I have um and ahhhed for ages - I have such bad memories of hospital I was desperate to try naturally no mater how slim the chance - and delayed the next stage. I am now on my second cycle of clomid with no evidence of ovulation (I use the kits) and booked in to see the specialist next month with a view to starting IVF my next cycle. I've been OK about it all until this week when my sister-in-law, best childhood friend and best work friend all told me they were 5/6 weeks pregnant - Only one of those was trying (for two months), one it happened by accident and the last was NTNP (is that right? I don't get all the abbreviations) for just a month!
I feel wretched, jealous, sad and then so guilty for feeling all of that.
OK that is me - reading the other posts is already making me feel less alone, it would be nice to hear from anyone else how they cope with loved one happy pregnancy news.

Welcome, KateRose!

So sorry to hear all the trouble you've been having. This is an excellent site to help you stay positive, as well as a place to vent. Everyone is so welcoming and helpful! Good luck to you, and lots of baby dust!

 

[NeMali]

Dear all, I'm happy to have found this forum and to know that I'm certainly not alone.

I'm 25, and I've been married and TTC for almost one year now (the 11th will be our first anniversary). I started seeing an infertility doctor in March. Hubby's sperm is fine. After failing 3 cycles of Clomid, I had an HSG, only to find that my right tube is blocked. The next step will be laparoscopy, which I hope will help to clear the tube.

It's been hard to accept that I'm having infertility (which is defined as the inability to conceive after 1 year of regular intercourse). My hubby (he's 28 by the way) has been wanting to be a daddy, and this problem has been causing a strain in our relationship. It doesn't help that I'm working in the healthcare line, and I have people coming to me to look for oral contraceptive pills. It seems so easy for those who do not desire pregnancy to get pregnant, while here I am, wondering if I will ever become a Mummy at all.

Still, I'll be working on it. All the best to all who are TTC!

 

[AMN21]

Dear all, I'm happy to have found this forum and to know that I'm certainly not alone.

I'm 25, and I've been married and TTC for almost one year now (the 11th will be our first anniversary). I started seeing an infertility doctor in March. Hubby's sperm is fine. After failing 3 cycles of Clomid, I had an HSG, only to find that my right tube is blocked. The next step will be laparoscopy, which I hope will help to clear the tube.

It's been hard to accept that I'm having infertility (which is defined as the inability to conceive after 1 year of regular intercourse). My hubby (he's 28 by the way) has been wanting to be a daddy, and this problem has been causing a strain in our relationship. It doesn't help that I'm working in the healthcare line, and I have people coming to me to look for oral contraceptive pills. It seems so easy for those who do not desire pregnancy to get pregnant, while here I am, wondering if I will ever become a Mummy at all.

Still, I'll be working on it. All the best to all who are TTC!

Welcome! I'm sorry to hear about your troubles but you'll find many others on this site with the same issues and who feel the same as you! This forum has been a great support when you start feeling like it just may never happen. I'm ttc baby#1 myself. I hope it happens for us soon!! Good luck! And lots of to you!!!