Welcome to 'Trying To Conceive Over 35'

[JandK]

So Im still getting a positive pregnancy test, and I am still on my period. The line gets a little darker every day. I am going in for my second Beta test today. Then a 1pm accupuncture appointment. Im glad my job is being so understanding. I am a complete nut job. I think you are making the right decision Ali. Even though the price is ungodly you dont want to have a lot of what ifs when you are already putting out a lot of money.

As BabyWhisperer said, it is normal to get a period at the beginning. It really isn't a period so much as implantation spotting. As long as your BETA is rising, then you should be good to go! FX'd that your BETA is good when you get the results!

Just got the results for my beta and the look good. Monday it was 21 and today it is 41. Nurse said we will do one more Friday and then they will schedule a ultrasound..

 

[alicatt]

So Im still getting a positive pregnancy test, and I am still on my period. The line gets a little darker every day. I am going in for my second Beta test today. Then a 1pm accupuncture appointment. Im glad my job is being so understanding. I am a complete nut job. I think you are making the right decision Ali. Even though the price is ungodly you dont want to have a lot of what ifs when you are already putting out a lot of money.

As BabyWhisperer said, it is normal to get a period at the beginning. It really isn't a period so much as implantation spotting. As long as your BETA is rising, then you should be good to go! FX'd that your BETA is good when you get the results!

Just got the results for my beta and the look good. Monday it was 21 and today it is 41. Nurse said we will do one more Friday and then they will schedule a ultrasound..

It is doubling!!! Keep it up How is the bleeding? Still heavy or hopefully tapering off. FX'd that it sticks.

 

[melly2]

So Im still getting a positive pregnancy test, and I am still on my period. The line gets a little darker every day. I am going in for my second Beta test today. Then a 1pm accupuncture appointment. Im glad my job is being so understanding. I am a complete nut job. I think you are making the right decision Ali. Even though the price is ungodly you dont want to have a lot of what ifs when you are already putting out a lot of money.

As BabyWhisperer said, it is normal to get a period at the beginning. It really isn't a period so much as implantation spotting. As long as your BETA is rising, then you should be good to go! FX'd that your BETA is good when you get the results!

Just got the results for my beta and the look good. Monday it was 21 and today it is 41. Nurse said we will do one more Friday and then they will schedule a ultrasound..

That's great news!

 

[JandK]

The bleeding is tapering off. i saw the accupunturist today and she gave me some herbs to stop it and I have another appointment with her tomorrow. Im thinking that bean is gonna stick around

 

[Slamdunc]

The doctors office called and I am pregnant. Beta was 21. HOWEVER I started bleeding this morning. The pg test I took this morning was a little darker. The nurse said to go in tomorrow for another beta to see if the pregnancy is gonna be viable or miscarry.

Fx'd for you!!!

 

[alicatt]

The bleeding is tapering off. i saw the accupunturist today and she gave me some herbs to stop it and I have another appointment with her tomorrow. Im thinking that bean is gonna stick around

Awesome!!! I certainly hope so

I had acupuncture this morning, I'm not sure it did anything for me I was really relaxed while I was there, but once I returned and got into work, my migraine returned and my stomach started to ache again. It does this thing where it feels like it is gnawing on itself when it is empty. When I eat a little it is fine. Just when it is empty. Does anyone know what that is? Have I given myself an ulcer?

 

[Matin]

The bleeding is tapering off. i saw the accupunturist today and she gave me some herbs to stop it and I have another appointment with her tomorrow. Im thinking that bean is gonna stick around

Thank goodness! I'm glad to hear that it's tapering off. I've heard several women mention that they had what seemed like AF at the beginning.

 

[Babywhisperer]

The bleeding is tapering off. i saw the accupunturist today and she gave me some herbs to stop it and I have another appointment with her tomorrow. Im thinking that bean is gonna stick around

Yeah for another April bfp! Nice beta too. I'm so happy to have someone to go thru all the anxiety of early pregnancy with!

Afm, work is beyond aggravating. Guys I work with are trying to box me out of situations and it sucks. They are still trying to get past my production level so it's professional jealousy. Nothing I can do but hope it improves. I heard from my trader, he figured I'd suffer the brunt of his exit and be feels bad. He might have another opportunity for me if this bs continues. He and I trust each other and conduct ourselves like good Christians. The rest of them are scummy greedy tools.

I went for acupuncture and she put a needle in each wrist about 4 inches from my hand. I got a pins and needles feeling but it instantly called me down. She said I had the pulse she feels on most wall st and attorney women. She also said I had a nice and strong pregnancy pulse so that makes me happy. She said her cramping stopped at 6-7 weeks and she said not to go by my symptoms since the hormones fluctuate and come in spurts instead of a steady flow. Acupuncture really helps calm me down and makes me relax. I'm now on the train and over the bs at work that had me on the verge of tears.

I hope if I start showing and it's obvious I'm pregnant the work shenanigans stop. I don't think these guys want people around us bully a prego woman. It would be a bad move as everyone around us really cares about me and thinks these guys are arrogant douches. Which they are. No one wanted to hire these guys but my manager was desperate to show he could build out a group.

It's a beautiful night in NYC but with beautiful weather comes protestors. Union Sq is a zoo of protesters, drum circles, cops, helicopters, traffic, it's gridlock all over. In NYC first it's protestor/ occupy whatever weather, then comes the serious heat and humidity which we refer to as cockaroach on the sidewalk in daylight season. They try to cross the road in Times Sq like in the old video game Frogger. It's gross.

 

[alicatt]

The bleeding is tapering off. i saw the accupunturist today and she gave me some herbs to stop it and I have another appointment with her tomorrow. Im thinking that bean is gonna stick around

Yeah for another April bfp! Nice beta too. I'm so happy to have someone to go thru all the anxiety of early pregnancy with!

Afm, work is beyond aggravating. Guys I work with are trying to box me out of situations and it sucks. They are still trying to get past my production level so it's professional jealousy. Nothing I can do but hope it improves. I heard from my trader, he figured I'd suffer the brunt of his exit and be feels bad. He might have another opportunity for me if this bs continues. He and I trust each other and conduct ourselves like good Christians. The rest of them are scummy greedy tools.

I went for acupuncture and she put a needle in each wrist about 4 inches from my hand. I got a pins and needles feeling but it instantly called me down. She said I had the pulse she feels on most wall st and attorney women. She also said I had a nice and strong pregnancy pulse so that makes me happy. She said her cramping stopped at 6-7 weeks and she said not to go by my symptoms since the hormones fluctuate and come in spurts instead of a steady flow. Acupuncture really helps calm me down and makes me relax. I'm now on the train and over the bs at work that had me on the verge of tears.

I hope if I start showing and it's obvious I'm pregnant the work shenanigans stop. I don't think these guys want people around us bully a prego woman. It would be a bad move as everyone around us really cares about me and thinks these guys are arrogant douches. Which they are. No one wanted to hire these guys but my manager was desperate to show he could build out a group.

It's a beautiful night in NYC but with beautiful weather comes protestors. Union Sq is a zoo of protesters, drum circles, cops, helicopters, traffic, it's gridlock all over. In NYC first it's protestor/ occupy whatever weather, then comes the serious heat and humidity which we refer to as cockaroach on the sidewalk in daylight season. They try to cross the road in Times Sq like in the old video game Frogger. It's gross.

UGH.. that doesn't sound pleasant at all! Stupid idiots! I'm lucky that for the most part my team is pretty good. They all work together to solve the problem. I have a few issues with the 2 newest people on our team. One of them whines all the time, complaining to me that it wasn't what he expected when he came over. The other one I think is possibly trying to undercut me. Thing is that he may try, but I doubt my boss will let it happen. He knows that he isn't mature enough to lead the team, and doesn't have a grasp of the process flows like I do. So I hope things continue to stay as they have been. I have had issues like you are talking about in the past. I am sure that things will settle down once you are showing, and they see you are preggo. If they don't then they are pond scum

AFM - Watching the Leafs/Bruins hockey game (and working). The Leafs just scored an early goal. Awesome. So we are up 1-0 in the first playoff game.

I called the Home Infusion people and they are on board for Friday, I'm just not sure when I will have to find out tomorrow so I can tell my boss when I will be out. I'm not going to work while they are doing the infusion, and if the infusion is in the morning I may not work at all as I don't have a clue how I will be feeling after the infusion. I hear that it makes you nauseous, clammy and gives you a headache. Like I need more of that Hopefully it doesn't last too long!

 

[Grey Eyes]

Ali- so amazing that your mom is eager to help out! I think that's awesome. So what steps do you take now? Lupron for how many days? And FET on the 18th you said?

JandK- I have heard of women getting a "period" while they are pregnant. Sometimes it has to do with implantation sometimes it is simply hormones...here are some "Dr. Google" reasons " Implantation bleeding can occur anywhere from 6-12 days after possible conception. Every woman will experience implantation bleeding differently—some will lightly spot for a few hours, while others may have some light spotting for a couple of days. Your BETA's sound perfect!!
Some type of infection in the pelvic cavity or urinary tract may cause bleeding.
After intercourse some women may bleed because the cervix is very tender and sensitive. You should discontinue intercourse until you have been seen by your doctor. This is to prevent any further irritation—having normal sexual intercourse does not cause a miscarriage."

Babywhisperer- wow, that's awesome! 4K for a co-worker! And yep- ms sneaks up on you...some days you have it, some days you don't Rollin' with the punches! BTW_ lol @ your co-workers! "douches" lol.....yes, they better stop being bullies!

AFM- um, not much to tell, I have been working on school and just toodling round the house today. I'll be honest right now I can't even think...babes is saying "eugh, eugh, eugh, eugh" in this super hard whiny tone that just has me all LOL!! OOOoooo I almost forgot--babes has a TOOTH! Yay!

And my middle daughter read a full sentence by herself today! Not bad for 4

 

[alicatt]

Grey Eyes.. glad you are back!!!

Cool about DD#2 reading and DD#3's first tooth! Guess teething has started.. hope she isn't too fussy!

AFM.. I'm taking a lower dose of Lupron for another week or so, I'm also wearing the estrogen patch. I graduate to 2 patches tomorrow, then 3 on Sunday. Then we start PIO and stop Lupron on Sunday the 12th. Then ET is the 17th!!!
The IVIg is scheduled for Friday. All of these things can change, just depends on how my lining is looking like!

 

[AngelSerenity]

Ali, I'm only getting on BnB here and there at the moment, so GOOD LUCK if I don't get speaking nearer to the time xoxo


Hi everybody, life is as manic as ever here although things seem to be settling a bit. DH is home and living in the back bedroom for the meantime. He is making a real effort but it's such early days....

 

[alicatt]

Ali, I'm only getting on BnB here and there at the moment, so GOOD LUCK if I don't get speaking nearer to the time xoxo


Hi everybody, life is as manic as ever here although things seem to be settling a bit. DH is home and living in the back bedroom for the meantime. He is making a real effort but it's such early days....

Thanks Angel!! I still have 2 weeks before transfer. So it will be a while. Glad to hear that you are doing well if a little swamped! I hope your DH continues to walk the line!

 

[melly2]

The bleeding is tapering off. i saw the accupunturist today and she gave me some herbs to stop it and I have another appointment with her tomorrow. Im thinking that bean is gonna stick around

Yeah for another April bfp! Nice beta too. I'm so happy to have someone to go thru all the anxiety of early pregnancy with!

Afm, work is beyond aggravating. Guys I work with are trying to box me out of situations and it sucks. They are still trying to get past my production level so it's professional jealousy. Nothing I can do but hope it improves. I heard from my trader, he figured I'd suffer the brunt of his exit and be feels bad. He might have another opportunity for me if this bs continues. He and I trust each other and conduct ourselves like good Christians. The rest of them are scummy greedy tools.

I went for acupuncture and she put a needle in each wrist about 4 inches from my hand. I got a pins and needles feeling but it instantly called me down. She said I had the pulse she feels on most wall st and attorney women. She also said I had a nice and strong pregnancy pulse so that makes me happy. She said her cramping stopped at 6-7 weeks and she said not to go by my symptoms since the hormones fluctuate and come in spurts instead of a steady flow. Acupuncture really helps calm me down and makes me relax. I'm now on the train and over the bs at work that had me on the verge of tears.

I hope if I start showing and it's obvious I'm pregnant the work shenanigans stop. I don't think these guys want people around us bully a prego woman. It would be a bad move as everyone around us really cares about me and thinks these guys are arrogant douches. Which they are. No one wanted to hire these guys but my manager was desperate to show he could build out a group.

It's a beautiful night in NYC but with beautiful weather comes protestors. Union Sq is a zoo of protesters, drum circles, cops, helicopters, traffic, it's gridlock all over. In NYC first it's protestor/ occupy whatever weather, then comes the serious heat and humidity which we refer to as cockaroach on the sidewalk in daylight season. They try to cross the road in Times Sq like in the old video game Frogger. It's gross.

I hate douchebags at work, and have been in the same situation as you where they try to undercut you. Not fun. Fortunately, we just sh*tcan most of ours last week. Yay! All that said, at least you have a strong, healthy pregnancy so just keep your mind focused on the positives and things will sort themselves out.

 

[Babywhisperer]

The bleeding is tapering off. i saw the accupunturist today and she gave me some herbs to stop it and I have another appointment with her tomorrow. Im thinking that bean is gonna stick around

Yeah for another April bfp! Nice beta too. I'm so happy to have someone to go thru all the anxiety of early pregnancy with!

Afm, work is beyond aggravating. Guys I work with are trying to box me out of situations and it sucks. They are still trying to get past my production level so it's professional jealousy. Nothing I can do but hope it improves. I heard from my trader, he figured I'd suffer the brunt of his exit and be feels bad. He might have another opportunity for me if this bs continues. He and I trust each other and conduct ourselves like good Christians. The rest of them are scummy greedy tools.

I went for acupuncture and she put a needle in each wrist about 4 inches from my hand. I got a pins and needles feeling but it instantly called me down. She said I had the pulse she feels on most wall st and attorney women. She also said I had a nice and strong pregnancy pulse so that makes me happy. She said her cramping stopped at 6-7 weeks and she said not to go by my symptoms since the hormones fluctuate and come in spurts instead of a steady flow. Acupuncture really helps calm me down and makes me relax. I'm now on the train and over the bs at work that had me on the verge of tears.

I hope if I start showing and it's obvious I'm pregnant the work shenanigans stop. I don't think these guys want people around us bully a prego woman. It would be a bad move as everyone around us really cares about me and thinks these guys are arrogant douches. Which they are. No one wanted to hire these guys but my manager was desperate to show he could build out a group.

It's a beautiful night in NYC but with beautiful weather comes protestors. Union Sq is a zoo of protesters, drum circles, cops, helicopters, traffic, it's gridlock all over. In NYC first it's protestor/ occupy whatever weather, then comes the serious heat and humidity which we refer to as cockaroach on the sidewalk in daylight season. They try to cross the road in Times Sq like in the old video game Frogger. It's gross.

I hate douchebags at work, and have been in the same situation as you where they try to undercut you. Not fun. Fortunately, we just sh*tcan most of ours last week. Yay! All that said, at least you have a strong, healthy pregnancy so just keep your mind focused on the positives and things will sort themselves out.

Thanks. The good thing is that no one likes them they collected money for our floor asst and everyone gave but them. Greedy f*****. It will come back to haunt them. When they lost their jobs at the big banks last yr no one wanted to hire them. Anytime I want to make a move I have 3-4 offers bc I am a team player. They are just pissed they are getting lapped by a girl. So they have to put their foot on my head to catch up. Sad.

Heartburn comes and goes today. Queasy when I woke up, I think laying down triggers it. A little cramping here and there. I'm bloated like a Thanksgiving parade float. But it could be worse. Just thankful and hoping this time next week we hear the Heartbeat and that the little bean is growing on schedule.

Ali I'm getting so excited for you!!!

 

[Grey Eyes]

Good morning ladies! Not much happening here. Dd#1 is testing atm...I am sure she'll ace it as always lol! I'm proud of her

Ali- K, I know PIO is progesterone, correct? The oil/shot/thingy? Ouch! Fx'd with it all, and glad you are able to reduce the patches Wow, the 17th'll be rolling up here pretty soon Can't wait! And as you say- alot can change between now and then, maybe do the FET sooner than you think

babywhisperer- How are yu feeling today?

Angel- glad to see you on--have you started your new job yet?

JandK-

Sams- hey lady! How are you? .WHERE are you? lol

 

[Grey Eyes]

Babywhisperer- haha! LOVE your at-work-attitude Ya gotta be that way in today's world unfortunately--tromp on'em! Yes, laying down aggravates the acid....I know this is going to sound gross but I've researched it and it's true, so try squinting when you read this or closing one eye Spit helps....spit neutralizes the acid in yur tummy which is one reason saliva seems to increase during first tri. Don't spit it out...(tmi) swallow it. Next- make sure you have a calcium-based Tums on hand Cracker DO help....also try skipping conventional toothpaste and use salt/baking soda mix. And prop up with pillows

 

[alicatt]

BabyWhisper - as long as your boss is on your team, I would those idiots. You are better than they are and could probably dance circles around them Which is perfect! Let them be neandrathals, and they'll get fired in time I'm sure. Focus on you and your bean and don't sweat the little stuff.
I think things sound like they are progressing perfectly on schedule, being bloated and having heartburn are definitely pregnancy symptoms
So Monday? Is that when your next scan is?

Got the IVIg scheduled for 2pm tomorrow so I can work most of the day. That is good. Hopefully it all goes well

My house is being DEEP cleaned right now, getting the dust and the grime up after the flooring install.

Oh I wanted to let you guys know that I bought some lavender essential oil and have been dabbing it on my sheets at night, it makes me feel so relaxed! My acupuncturist suggested it and also peppermint. Dab a little peppermint oil on my temples and my headaches go away. 2 things you can do to help out when you are pregnant too Plus it works

 

[alicatt]

Good morning ladies! Not much happening here. Dd#1 is testing atm...I am sure she'll ace it as always lol! I'm proud of her

Ali- K, I know PIO is progesterone, correct? The oil/shot/thingy? Ouch! Fx'd with it all, and glad you are able to reduce the patches Wow, the 17th'll be rolling up here pretty soon Can't wait! And as you say- alot can change between now and then, maybe do the FET sooner than you think

babywhisperer- How are yu feeling today?

Angel- glad to see you on--have you started your new job yet?

JandK-

Sams- hey lady! How are you? .WHERE are you? lol

GL testing DD #1!!!

Lupron is the crappy drug. I went from 3cc's to 1cc. Will stop that in a week maybe? I'm not sure? I'm to put 2 patches on today, then 3 in 3 days and 4 in 6 days, etc. Then IVIg tomorrow at 2pm. Acupuncture, ultrasounds on Mon/Fri next week. It is all just a blur! Then TRANSFER on the 17th we hope!!

 

[never_give_up]

Hello ladies

Babywhisperer-I'm glad to hear you are getting acupuncture treatments to help you relax. Those guys at work have been giving you unecessary stress. Looking forward to seeing your scan pic next week.

Ali- I will be thinking of you tomorrow when you have the IVIg done.

Grey Eyes -welcome back

Jandk -good that the acupuncturist gave you something to stop the bleeding. Will be thinking of you tomorrow when you have your ultrasound.

Angel- to Good hear all is well

Samsfan- sorry darn af showed up. How are you?

I am on cycle day 12 but I took my temp and it was high so I guess ovulation happened already. The thing is I was spotting for 5 days before af started so maybe cycle didn't start on the 21st like I thought. Last night dh and I bd'ed for the first time in 10 weeks. That was one long wait lol
I have a follow up appoint with OB on Monday. It's kind of weird because she only sees women who are pregnant. Even the receptionist said "and you have another appointment with the same doctor?" after I told her I had a miscarriage. She never phoned me with the result of chromosome testing so I would hope that she has that for me on Monday. That is the only reason she would need to see me, to discuss the results.