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[jm1355]

My prevert neighbor keeps strutting around near our adjacent fence with his shirt off. Should I tell him it is a disservcie to women, or should I just leave it alone? He only comes out when our little girls play in the yard and he crouches behind the bushes and watches them Only our little Boston Terrier very loudly rats him out to the neighborhood with her "PERVERT" bark and he always goes running into his house...creep. He even threw fireworks at her once, but that just made her hate him and watch for him all the more

OMG!!! That is SICK!!
I would absolutely say something to him! Unfortunately unless he is a registered sex offender, there is not a lot you can do about it. But that would make me SOOOOO uncomfortable! As long as your pup rats him out, then you know he's there. Thats a good thing!! Good puppy!!

 

[Grey Eyes]

Yeah, she only barks at people she hates, and that's only the people that pose a threat t her or the girls...too bad she wasn't a Rottweiler

 

[alicatt]

My prevert neighbor keeps strutting around near our adjacent fence with his shirt off. Should I tell him it is a disservcie to women, or should I just leave it alone? He only comes out when our little girls play in the yard and he crouches behind the bushes and watches them Only our little Boston Terrier very loudly rats him out to the neighborhood with her "PERVERT" bark and he always goes running into his house...creep. He even threw fireworks at her once, but that just made her hate him and watch for him all the more

YIKES! Are you sure he isn't on whatever that website is about sexual deviants? I would totally be concerned about a grown man hiding in the bushes watching your children play! That is bad news, can you do something about it? Maybe film it and go to the cops? I think that is something that you need to look into. Glad your doggie is on patrol Also, that you are there supervising. I wouldn't want that man within a 100 ft of my kids! He definitely is a pervert!

 

[Grey Eyes]

My prevert neighbor keeps strutting around near our adjacent fence with his shirt off. Should I tell him it is a disservcie to women, or should I just leave it alone? He only comes out when our little girls play in the yard and he crouches behind the bushes and watches them Only our little Boston Terrier very loudly rats him out to the neighborhood with her "PERVERT" bark and he always goes running into his house...creep. He even threw fireworks at her once, but that just made her hate him and watch for him all the more

YIKES! Are you sure he isn't on whatever that website is about sexual deviants? I would totally be concerned about a grown man hiding in the bushes watching your children play! That is bad news, can you do something about it? Maybe film it and go to the cops? I think that is something that you need to look into. Glad your doggie is on patrol Also, that you are there supervising. I wouldn't want that man within a 100 ft of my kids! He definitely is a pervert!

Well, the entire town is aware that we have our house rigged with live surveillance cameras (major advantage to having a security consultant/Marine for dh! ) and they put up a huge stink to the mayor and police ocassionally about it but we are totally legal....you'd be amazed what we have caught neighbors attempting to do to us lol, they jumped our fences and cut down my punching bag! They wanted to drag it off and steal it but it's too darn heavy

Yes, we are concerned about the guy, he's a def pain in the butt.

 

[Grey Eyes]

OMG, baby brain! Here I am trying to be efficient, you know, and I am busying around emptying trash cans, washing dishes, etc, when I suddenly realized I was trying to line the toilet with a trash bag

 

[alicatt]

My prevert neighbor keeps strutting around near our adjacent fence with his shirt off. Should I tell him it is a disservcie to women, or should I just leave it alone? He only comes out when our little girls play in the yard and he crouches behind the bushes and watches them Only our little Boston Terrier very loudly rats him out to the neighborhood with her "PERVERT" bark and he always goes running into his house...creep. He even threw fireworks at her once, but that just made her hate him and watch for him all the more

YIKES! Are you sure he isn't on whatever that website is about sexual deviants? I would totally be concerned about a grown man hiding in the bushes watching your children play! That is bad news, can you do something about it? Maybe film it and go to the cops? I think that is something that you need to look into. Glad your doggie is on patrol Also, that you are there supervising. I wouldn't want that man within a 100 ft of my kids! He definitely is a pervert!

Well, the entire town is aware that we have our house rigged with live surveillance cameras (major advantage to having a security consultant/Marine for dh! ) and they put up a huge stink to the mayor and police ocassionally about it but we are totally legal....you'd be amazed what we have caught neighbors attempting to do to us lol, they jumped our fences and cut down my punching bag! They wanted to drag it off and steal it but it's too darn heavy

Yes, we are concerned about the guy, he's a def pain in the butt.

It is crazy what people will do! We have an island property and last fall someone tried to steal our floating dock! The only thing that saved us was a dead tree under the dock that got messed up in the chain and the cinder block under the dock and they couldn't pull the dock out. They went to the trouble of un-hinging the dock from the support and it was 3 feet out, but they just couldn't get it apart from the dead tree! Well don't have power on that island, it is just a picnic spot, so we can't do video, but we got some of that loctite glue stuff and re-connected the hinges and used that stuff on the pin so that you can't un-hinge them, but they still move with the water. Hopefully the docks are still there, my family hasn't been able to go check because our boat has been getting serviced. I'm sure my Mom will go over this weekend to see. Crazy people!!!

I'm glad you guys are keeping watch, it sounds like you need to!! With all the in the neighborhood!

 

[Grey Eyes]

O my heck, do we ever have to keep watch!! Dh has to perform foot patrols at night to make certain everything is locked up tight. Funny about the boat-dock Serves them right, I hope they herniated themselves in the process! Since they've decided to be criminals it'd be easier for them to just go steal a few barrel drums and some 6 by 8's! Idgits

 

[alicatt]

O my heck, do we ever have to keep watch!! Dh has to perform foot patrols at night to make certain everything is locked up tight. Funny about the boat-dock Serves them right, I hope they herniated themselves in the process! Since they've decided to be criminals it'd be easier for them to just go steal a few barrel drums and some 6 by 8's! Idgits

Tell me about it! I was not a happy camper. It was October yes October in Canada is COLD. The water is even colder! Guess who had to get into the water and pull the freaking dock back? Yep, ME! My mom and brother helped, but I was the only one in pants that I could pull up and not get wet. So I ended up in the water while they helped from land! I was not impressed, but we got it done!!

 

[TerriLou]

Morning All,

Well, temp has gone down a bit again this morning, but still above the cover line. Still got a BFN!

I phone the doctors yesterday to make an appointment and managed to get the next available appointment on 11th July!!!!! If I do get AF before then, I can phone up in a morning to try to get an appointment later that day, or go in first thing to get a later appointment. If I'm going to get help, like Clomid or something, I think I'll need to get in there on the first or second day of AF to make sure I could start it on time.

Coy, your neighbour sounds like a complete perv, I would be really wary. Good job you have your dog eh?

I'm off to see a Clairvoyant this evening with some friends. You're not guaranteed a reading, she just goes by what she feels in the room. I first saw her a couple of weeks after my miscarriage and somehow she knew, she told me it was a girl. She knew about the scars I have from my operation I had a year before. Well, we'll see. I don't think I'll get anything from her this evening, but its good hearing what she tells other people.

 

[TerriLou]

Hey Ladies,

Well, I've got a serious case of the 'ouchies'. Got some spotting too, so I guess my TWW is officially over!

Oh well, at least I have my answer now, onto the next cycle. I wonder how long this one will be. Unfortunately now I don't think I'll be able to get to the doctors as I'm working in the office Thursday and Friday, which is about 90 minutes from home. I'll be working from home next Monday though, so might see if I can get an appointment then. I don't finish work until 5 tomorrow, but I finish at 3.30 on Friday, so will try to get an appointment around 5pm, I think they're open until 6. We'll see eh?

Grrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr!!!!!!!!

 

[alicatt]

Morning Ladies!

How is everyone this morning? I am extremely sleepy I did not want to get out of bed, and could have slept until noon! I have no idea why? I'm not normally this exhausted. HMM.
CD3 nothing much to report, just the normal cramps and flow. It has been slightly heavier this month and the cramps have lasted longer. I am still bloated too, you should see my ankles, they are swollen, usually this happens before I get my period, but then I get my period and I pee like crazy for a day or too and then all goes back to normal. Hopefully I will lose the water weight soon!

The clinic in Canada has NOT called me back, I have called them and left them messages and still nothing. All I want from them is their fax number! ARGH! I even gave her my email address, so she wouldn't have to call long distance. I will try again today to get a live person. I just need to have their info so I can pass it to my FS here so they can send my labs and such. I would like to get it done BEFORE I leave just in case I need to run in there for any reason.

Other than that, its just a blustery and HOT hump day in FL. The winds are from Debby, and last night they were so strong they popped the lid off my hot tub! Scared the crap outta me! I'm glad that she is moving faster now, that will save people a lot of extra headaches up in North FL, and will mean that she will be gone before I head north.

Coy - are you staying cool?

Jess - is it time to O yet? I hope you are doing lots of BD'ing!!

Terri - please tell us what the clairvoyant says!! I have always been interested in hearing what peoples fortunes are. I saw one when I was 18-20 or so, and he said that I would have 3 beautiful babies and marry a guy that looked like Omar Sherif (in his younger years), well neither of these things have come true (yet). Sorry about the arrival of AF, that sucks. See if you can't get in to see the Dr, so you can get on Clomid, you can start clomid anywhere from day 2-5 I believe, and I don't know what the difference between starting on day 2 is compared to starting on day 5.

Phil/Alin/Angel - where are you guys? come chat!!

 

[alin3boys]

Ali wish I had a hot tub lol,nothing much to report here either cd 2 today not sure whether to do soy this cycle

 

[alicatt]

Ali wish I had a hot tub lol,nothing much to report here either cd 2 today not sure whether to do soy this cycle

You want mine? LOL! I loved it when I was in Denver, in the winter it was so nice! Here in FL, I barely use it, and now that I'm going to be pregnant soon (yes see I say going, like there is no other option), I really won't be using it. I just drained it this past weekend to as there wasn't much point in heating it while I'm away, and it costs about $40 a month to run. I probably won't fill it until the fall and maybe not even then (if I am pregnant).

I'm in the same boat as you, CD3 and just hanging out. Does anyone know? When are you supposed to start Femara if you use it during the cycle? Is it at the same time as you take Clomid or different?

 

[claire75]

Hey..Is it ok to join in..new here

TTC ~2 My DS is 6yrs old now. It took 8 years to get him with 5 MC before & 2 MC after. My OH has 3 older boys from a previous marriage but would really like us to have one of our own. I`m 37 now and figure if I had problems when I was younger my age is certainly not going to make things easier now but we decided to give it ago.

Now 7 DPO and back to the 2ww horrors, forgot how much time drags, as gave up on trying about 4 years ago and counted my blessings that I have DS.

Had intermittent breast pains & pulling cramps for the last couple of days but trying not to get too stressed over every little thing, i`m going to assume that we have not been successful to limit the dissapointment. But that in itself is proving harder than I thought lol.

In all honesty I didn`t realise how much I would love another child until this month when we have actually began try.

 

[Grey Eyes]

Clair- welcome! Glad o have on board! TWW is a bugger, hang in there!

Ali- lol, keep your hot tub, give me FL! lol, no I am not hot today, I actually have a jacket on...yesterday was soooo aweosme, a nice steady cooling breeze all day long. My office stayed perfect so I could work. My stupid report took 5-6 hours! I want it to be right though, you know? So I research strongly first...

Jess- how are ya today? Ov time yet? My shoulders are sore today Thanks! (seriously, I love the soreness that comes with working out! )

Phil!!!! Where are you??!!!

Alin- how are you today?

AFM- Tired again, not too bad though...I have been going to bed some earlier and doing these practice runs with my alarm This is where I set 3 diff alarms and hit snooze on all of them until I am ready to wake up Works really well for me right now

 

[jm1355]

Ok ya'll...yesterday it was 109 degrees in Austin!! Painful!! And today, when I left the house at 4:45am it was already 85. THEN, I went for my morning run at 10am and it was 96 degrees!!! HOT doesn't begin to describe what it feels like!! The only thing I want to do is eat ...but that is not on my diet right now...

Coy...I am so glad you have sore shoulders!! At least I am not the only one with sore muscles!! I love that feeling too...when I tell my trainer I am sore he always says "You worked hard for it!!" Did I mention my BF is one of my trainers too? It is hilarious that we have to break up when he trains me and then kiss and make up after the workout!


AFM and TTC...I am on CD 12 and should ovulate this weekend...I hope!!

 

[alicatt]

Ok ya'll...yesterday it was 109 degrees in Austin!! Painful!! And today, when I left the house at 4:45am it was already 85. THEN, I went for my morning run at 10am and it was 96 degrees!!! HOT doesn't begin to describe what it feels like!! The only thing I want to do is eat ...but that is not on my diet right now...

Coy...I am so glad you have sore shoulders!! At least I am not the only one with sore muscles!! I love that feeling too...when I tell my trainer I am sore he always says "You worked hard for it!!" Did I mention my BF is one of my trainers too? It is hilarious that we have to break up when he trains me and then kiss and make up after the workout!


AFM and TTC...I am on CD 12 and should ovulate this weekend...I hope!!

HEHE.. that is funny! If it works, then good for you and your BF!! So sorry it is hot there. It is hot here too, but not that hot! I can't wait to go to Canada where I'm hoping it is cooler. I have a monster headache, and have a bunch of stuff to do after work. My head just needs to get with the program! I can't rest right now..

 

[alicatt]

Clair- welcome! Glad o have on board! TWW is a bugger, hang in there!

Ali- lol, keep your hot tub, give me FL! lol, no I am not hot today, I actually have a jacket on...yesterday was soooo aweosme, a nice steady cooling breeze all day long. My office stayed perfect so I could work. My stupid report took 5-6 hours! I want it to be right though, you know? So I research strongly first...

AFM- Tired again, not too bad though...I have been going to bed some earlier and doing these practice runs with my alarm This is where I set 3 diff alarms and hit snooze on all of them until I am ready to wake up Works really well for me right now

Welcome Clair! Pleased to meet you I'm Ali!

Coy - you want FL? Hurricanes and all? You can have it, I really don't enjoy living down here, I miss SNOW! Glad it has been cooler for you lately, and you've been able to get your work done.

 

[jm1355]

Ok ya'll...yesterday it was 109 degrees in Austin!! Painful!! And today, when I left the house at 4:45am it was already 85. THEN, I went for my morning run at 10am and it was 96 degrees!!! HOT doesn't begin to describe what it feels like!! The only thing I want to do is eat ...but that is not on my diet right now...

Coy...I am so glad you have sore shoulders!! At least I am not the only one with sore muscles!! I love that feeling too...when I tell my trainer I am sore he always says "You worked hard for it!!" Did I mention my BF is one of my trainers too? It is hilarious that we have to break up when he trains me and then kiss and make up after the workout!


AFM and TTC...I am on CD 12 and should ovulate this weekend...I hope!!

HEHE.. that is funny! If it works, then good for you and your BF!! So sorry it is hot there. It is hot here too, but not that hot! I can't wait to go to Canada where I'm hoping it is cooler. I have a monster headache, and have a bunch of stuff to do after work. My head just needs to get with the program! I can't rest right now..

When I have those monster headaches caffeine works everytime for me! Have you tried it?

 

[jm1355]

Hi Clair!! I'm Jess...