We're all in this together!

[Excalibur]

id have to do it after the deposit or i';ll be stuck together and it wont get up there

hmmmm might google this

Oh yeah definetly, make sure it's after the deposit lol, don't want it sticking where it doesn't belong

Let me know if you find anything xx

 

[Pinky32]

nutter!

 

[Excalibur]

nutter!

That's me! xx

 

[teenah99]

i went to physio the other day and told her - shes referring me to the pain clinic and to see a pain psychotherapist and also to have acupuncture

Hey Pinky Darling,

I'm sorry to hear that you are in pain, but I do have to say that I work for a well known Pain Clinic in the States and the pain psychology works wonders, as it really helps to cope with your pain. Also, acupuncture is AMAZING for pain. Good luck!

 

[Pinky32]

Just an update

I got a positive opk yesterday but couldnt see OH, he came round tonight and gave me tons of "deposit" so i did another OPK tonight and got another positive - Ive had lots of ov cramps today so i think its on its way tonight

These naughty babydolls and platform shoes are working a treat!!!!!!

Teenah - thank you. Im in pain daily but some days are worse than others and on those days all i do is sit and cry - cant even lie down.

Im hoping the pain clinic will change my painkillers as ive been on them quite a while and dont take them all the time as i dont want to get used to them - at the moment they work when i take them

Im looking forward to the acupuncture to help ease the pain, also heard its good for ttc so might see if i can get them to stick a few extra needles wherever is good lol

In a way im also looking forward to seeing the psychotherapist - I know this accident and all the problems after is causing me mental anguish and not helping me ttc

Sometimes the pain gets so bad that i think its best to give up ttc for 6 months but i know if i give up then it will be for good, in a weird way, i talk myself into believing each time af comes that its because of the stress and pain and its easier for me to cope with why it hasnt happened

 

[Excalibur]

Morning ladies

Pinky - Omg yay for seeing OH and Ov'ing!!!! Keep wearing that sexy underwear and high heels chick Keeping everything crossed for you Hopefully you will get your pain sorted out soon hun xx

Busy day for me today, going to view some houses, yay! Can't wait to move away from here!

 

[teenah99]

Just an update

I got a positive opk yesterday but couldnt see OH, he came round tonight and gave me tons of "deposit" so i did another OPK tonight and got another positive - Ive had lots of ov cramps today so i think its on its way tonight

These naughty babydolls and platform shoes are working a treat!!!!!!

Teenah - thank you. Im in pain daily but some days are worse than others and on those days all i do is sit and cry - cant even lie down.

Im hoping the pain clinic will change my painkillers as ive been on them quite a while and dont take them all the time as i dont want to get used to them - at the moment they work when i take them

Im looking forward to the acupuncture to help ease the pain, also heard its good for ttc so might see if i can get them to stick a few extra needles wherever is good lol

In a way im also looking forward to seeing the psychotherapist - I know this accident and all the problems after is causing me mental anguish and not helping me ttc

Sometimes the pain gets so bad that i think its best to give up ttc for 6 months but i know if i give up then it will be for good, in a weird way, i talk myself into believing each time af comes that its because of the stress and pain and its easier for me to cope with why it hasnt happened

I think that you will really enjoy your time at the Pain Clinic and you will find that your therapist will encourage you not to put things on hold due to the pain - they are really good at teaching you that you are still you and your pain doesn't have to rule you. Most of them are also chronic pain suffers so they can relate. I think that it is great that you don't take your painkillers often, as it does often lead to a world of troubles, we see it everyday here at work, longterm use can be very dangerous and limiting.

Good Luck lady!

P.S. SOOO Jealous of ur BDing! I wish I could get my hubby interested!

 

[Pinky32]

its good that their pain sufferers too - nothing worse than someone preaching to you who hasnt got a clue what your going through

im looking forward to it - just hope its soon

the acupuncture i know they want to arrange for 2-3 sessions a week for 2-3 weeks rather than just one session everyb week or two - that way if its going to work then it will work

yeah i thought it best not to get too used to the painkillers - i was on morphine but that didnt do much, these work but only if i take them as an when i need them and not 3 times a day as instructed

dont be jealous hun - i dont get to see him that much - normally once a week (and thats not guaranteed)

 

[Excalibur]

It's been lovely weather today, 30 Degrees! Caught a bit of sun, hope it turns into a tan and doesn't go back white

Hopefully moving tomorrow or over the weekend, or depends how long it takes us to finish packing, next week at a push, can't wait!!!!

 

[Pinky32]

i got a phone call this morning saying that my acupuncture is booked for 6th june and again on 14th june for pain relief

im really looking forward to it

ALSO, i had written to chief exec at hospital complaining that im in pain and want to be seen asap, my doc also wrote to them demanding they see me before my appt on 25th july

today i got a letter saying i have an appt next wed - hopefully will get my elbow sorted wooo hoooo

 

[Laura2806]

That's brilliant news pinky! So chuffed for you hun, FXed this'll be the start of the end of the pain if that makes sense?! Lol

You'll be pain free and swinging from the lampshades before you know it xx

 

[Pinky32]

thank you - lol yeah i know what you mean

im really looking forward to the acupuncture - im hoping he sticks a few extra needles in me for ttc

ahhhhhh just one day without pain or having to wear the foam sling would be great - its too hot to wear in this weather but i have no choice but to wear it when im out

 

[Laura2806]

im not sure if i'd like acupuncture or not, it seems odd lol

thing is when your in constant pain you try anything! id casually mention that your ttc and dont seem to be getting anywhere and its making you stressed which causes tension in your shoulders which in turn makes your arm worse, then hopefully he'll pop a few extra in

its too hot for anything atm let alone a sling but at the same time you dont want to be housebound. its def not a win win situation is it hun!

its all good news atm though xx

 

[Pinky32]

lol@pop a few extra in

i do try to go out each day, just sometimes the pain is too much

i wasnt too sure about acupuncture but ive heard amazing things about it - and the pain cant be any worse than when i had the steroid injections in the shoulder muscles - that was agony and i was screaming like a 2 year old having a strop

i guess next wed is make or break day - either they tell me this is it for the rest of my life or that something can be done

 

[Excalibur]

Pinky - Yay!!!! That's great news chick, really happy for you! xx

 

[Laura2806]

yh somedays going out is more hassle than its worth, im hoping OH gets ups soon cause i wanna go shopping! lol

my dad had acupuncture in his shoulder a year or so ago and i think it worked lol he doesnt suffer with it anymore anyway, i've heard steriod jabs hurt like hell

it will indeed hun, i think it'll make a big difference to you which ever the outcome is, if they say they can sort it for good it'll give you a whole new outlook, if they say they cant itll either give you the 'well i'll just have to put up with it and try to find a way to manage the pain' or 'whats the point' attitude. i hope that doesnt sound harsh :/

i so so hope they say they can fix it for good and you can get on with things

shower time for me hun, have a good day, speak later xxx

 

[Pinky32]

my doc gave me two steroid injections and they didnt hurt but the specialist at the hospital then gave me one which had an anesthetic in and that went deep into the muscle and tendon - hurt like crazy - hurt more than my accident did!

i was told that i would know by the end of the two booked sessions of acupuncture if it will work or not

i can bear some pain if its from either the shoulder or arm - but not the two together

i agree with you - either way i know and can then try to deal with it, im hoping to get appt for pain clinic soon so if i have to cope with pain for rest of my life, they will help me learn how to do that

 

[Laura2806]

Yh that'll help you loads too, it's the not knowing that is frustrating xx

 

[Pinky32]

ff has moved my ov date from tues to thurs

 

[Laura2806]

That's strange! Have your temps shot up again? Could be the heat causing it xx