We're all in this together!

[xXxJessicaxXx]

Thx sarah, Nice Kind word's. x

Iv got DF on Vit C but not 1000mg (didnt know they went that high in dose) but didnt know about the over vit's. Will have to have a look.

Iv been doing knitting, but not to into it, would rather do crochet, so my MIL's sister is been having a look for some cheap hock's for me but cant get them anywere. She dont have a credit card or that so cant shop online, but she's still looking about. I said I would get them but she wouldnt let me lol, but Cant wait to start crochet. x x x

Iv been keeping busy with honey, playing drawing painting all that lol. x x x

Sound's like your doing better hun, So positive, even after what you've been though i dunno how you stay so positive. Im not positive but calm and relaxed which is a good thing i guess. x x x

 

[Excalibur]

Sarah - I'm keeping everything crossed for you hun that you get all the help you need and also that there's nothing serious wrong downstairs. I hope it's something that can be helped along by tablets or something

 

[sarahuk]

Thx sarah, Nice Kind word's. x

Iv got DF on Vit C but not 1000mg (didnt know they went that high in dose) but didnt know about the over vit's. Will have to have a look.

Iv been doing knitting, but not to into it, would rather do crochet, so my MIL's sister is been having a look for some cheap hock's for me but cant get them anywere. She dont have a credit card or that so cant shop online, but she's still looking about. I said I would get them but she wouldnt let me lol, but Cant wait to start crochet. x x x

Iv been keeping busy with honey, playing drawing painting all that lol. x x x

Sound's like your doing better hun, So positive, even after what you've been though i dunno how you stay so positive. Im not positive but calm and relaxed which is a good thing i guess. x x x

Awww hun...I think ttc is like a rollercoaster...we go through so many ups and downs that it changes all the time. Youve been through a shitty few months so its hard to see the pma at the top. But give it some time and youll get there

Ive realised that for me, I dont have any option but to remain super positive! Getting down hasnt been helping me, and whilst i know keeping the faith isnt easy for everyone or someting everyone wants to do...ive tried everything else Time to not let this crap get me down!

I cant wait to see your crochet work when its done! Tell her to look on ebay...some people on there will accept personal cheques!

Yup I get my vitamin C at 1000mg and that also has rosehip in it. I got em from amazon. I think I got 90 for just a couple of quid. If u want the link I think i got it saved Vitamin C is a big one for smokers as I found that smokers tend to have clumping issues and this helps to balance it out.

x

 

[sarahuk]

Sarah - I'm keeping everything crossed for you hun that you get all the help you need and also that there's nothing serious wrong downstairs. I hope it's something that can be helped along by tablets or something

Would be nice!

I know this sounds awful but Im hoping they will find something. Atleast that can be hopefully handled. I think id be devestated if I just had inexplained infertility. You just dont know where you are with that.

U girlies having a nice weekend?

 

[Excalibur]

Sarah - I'm keeping everything crossed for you hun that you get all the help you need and also that there's nothing serious wrong downstairs. I hope it's something that can be helped along by tablets or something

Would be nice!

I know this sounds awful but Im hoping they will find something. Atleast that can be hopefully handled. I think id be devestated if I just had inexplained infertility. You just dont know where you are with that.

U girlies having a nice weekend?

Yeah I totally understand where you are coming from there hun. At least then you would know what's wrong and what you can do to treat it etc.

Been quite a busy weekend for me, been out into town today, tomorrow we are going to MIL's for a Sunday Lunch. You hun? xx

 

[sarahuk]

Lazy mode I saw the doc a couple of weeks ago and i found out id had a virus for 3 weeks. The other symptoms passed off but then today the cold came out in full force along with a banging headache so feeling a bit sorry for myself lol.

Tomorrow Ill spend some time with my dad. And crochet probably....the highlife!

 

[sarahuk]

Oh...and today I decided to take a hiatus from facebook. Its a pain to become a slave to it

 

[shelbysioux]

Hi was wondering if I could join this thread? I'm new

 

[hopemum]

Hi all, just joined up today. not sure of the exact lingo so will take me some time! TTC for 1 1/2 years for first child. just started route o investigations. so its all a bit daunting. ill read thro a few posts . im looking for info on peuple using basal body temp to aid conception and wondering does it matter about actual temp if u notice a rise after ovulation?

 

[sarahuk]

Hi ladies and welcome!

BBT is looking for the overall picture, so individual temps dont really matter, its the pattern that youre looking for

Its important to get yourself into a routine when temping though. Temps need to be taken as close to the same time as usual. You can use this website BBT Adjustment to find out your temp if you have to take it earlier or later some days. Additionally...id suggest temping vaginally as you tend to get more reliable temps than you do orally. I dont bother temping during my period just after it stops

Any questions just ask! x

 

[shelbysioux]

Thankyou, have read this whole thread with interest, how is best to intoduce myself on here or another way? Sorry I really am a fledgeling B&B user but once I get the hang of it I should be ok!! xx

 

[shelbysioux]

Ok, where is best to introduce myself, on here or somewhere else? I really am a fledgeling B&B user but I'm sure I will get the hang of it soon!! xx

 

[xXxJessicaxXx]

When you see a thread you like or your in the same boat just go in, post

Hi,

I would like to join as

*1 - i am in the same boat as you (example)

OR

*2 - because of what ever reason you wanna join, dont be shy get stuck in.

You'll get the hang of it, you can introduce your self anywere, and if you would like to start here then it's fine by me. x

 

[Laura2806]

Isn't it lovely to have Sarah back? the expert hehe

I know what you mean about hoping there's something so it can be treated/managed and not just 'there's no resin why you shouldn't fall pregant' answer, to me that would be more heartbreaking. Sometime our bodies just aren't ready. My mums cousin lost her baby at 6months gestation 3months before mum had me, she was TTC ever since with no luck and nothing wrong. They decided to stop trying and within months she caught! They had been trying for 15years!

A break helps!

Hi new ladies

Tell us about yourselves ages, what your OH is like, pets, families, jobs, anything

Welcome and xxx

 

[sarahuk]

Thankyou, have read this whole thread with interest, how is best to intoduce myself on here or another way? Sorry I really am a fledgeling B&B user but once I get the hang of it I should be ok!! xx

Dont need to worry about that sweetie! Just be yourself and enjoy the thread!

I can give you a little idea by introducing myself!

My name is Sarah..shock I know!!...and im 32 years old I live with my OH who is 30 and hes a Swede (im English though!).

We made the decision to start trying to conceive back in October 2009. He was still bakcwards and forwards to me from his home in Sweden at that point so we didnt really start trying until the December 1st I didnt know anything about anything at that point and just humpy dumpy when we felt like it. I didnt really understand about ovulation and fertile windows so it wasnt really a shock that I didnt get pregnant!

Back in the end of 2010 matt and I had to be separated for a little while so there was a few months that we had to stop. It was hard because I felt like I was missing out on amazing chances to make our baby but didnt have much choice. But he was back in December and we immediately started up again and happily I fell pregnant in my January cycle

That pregnanct was not to be though and after having been told id had a miscarriage we were shocked to then find out my bloods were still saying I was pregnant. A couple of weeks later we were then told the news that it was ectopic and I had to go through treatment which hit me emotionally incredibly hard for the longest time.

Fast forward to now....I havent seen two lines since then and am still trying everyhting to get my pregnancy Im on a bunch of vitamins, I do opks and temp every day. I recently have been referred to a fertility specialist as mt bloodwork over the last 3 months is showing that I might possibly be not ovulating. Sad times...but just have to get on with it!

So here I am...trying for baby. Trying to keep the faith alive and look forwards!

xx

 

[sarahuk]

Isn't it lovely to have Sarah back? the expert hehe

I know what you mean about hoping there's something so it can be treated/managed and not just 'there's no resin why you shouldn't fall pregant' answer, to me that would be more heartbreaking. Sometime our bodies just aren't ready. My mums cousin lost her baby at 6months gestation 3months before mum had me, she was TTC ever since with no luck and nothing wrong. They decided to stop trying and within months she caught! They had been trying for 15years!

A break helps!

Hi new ladies

Tell us about yourselves ages, what your OH is like, pets, families, jobs, anything

Welcome and xxx

Awwww hahaha that made my day that!! Im glad you girls forgive me for dipping out for a while... Im glad to be back!!

Thats awful When you hear about people going through that it really breaks me heart. But it also shows that when you give up hope you were wrong too...good things happen! Just have to stay strong till then!

Laura, Natt and Jess...I send happy fathers day vibes to your fellas...and also to you new ladies partners too if you have children! xxxx

 

[Laura2806]

Glad I made you smile

Yh it must have been aweful, goes to show a break does you good though!

Thanks hunni and to matt! I got Simon a mug from jellybean xxx

 

[Excalibur]

Sarah - Sorry to hear you haven't been feeling too well hun. Virus's are awful to have! Glad it's on it's way out and hope the cold doesn't last too long! Aww thank you for the vibes hun, Bump got Daddy a little Mini Monkey Super Dad teddy :') xx

Shelby - Hiya hun, welcome to B&B and welcome to our thread xx

Hopemum - Welcome hun xx

 

[shelbysioux]

Ok, thanks so much ladies, I have been reading all these for a while and decided to join you all and post.

I am already a lucky Mum of a 12 year old daughter and in November of last year me and my OH decided we would try for a baby. It had taken me ages to talk him into it as he is not my daughters father and was very apprehensive about it all.

At first we were a bit clueless about the right time to DTD but I started using the Clearblue smiley opk’s which gave us a better idea. At the beginning of May I tested 1 day after AF was due and got BFN, I was so upset as I had been so sure something was different that month. I was going to test again the next day but was just so down and sick of getting BFN’s that I just went to the pub instead and drowned my sorrows!!

Two weeks later I was gearing up to try again and did my opk on day 9 and to my surprise got a smiley, I thought it was weird to be so early but got on with DTD anyway. The smileys carried on for 4 days until I found something on google about it could mean you were pregnant so I did a hpt and there it was, BFP!! I was so shocked but so happy and told far too many people because I was so excited.

A couple of days later I started with brown spotting, I put up with it for a few days thinking it was normal then on the 5th day I got a bit of red blood aswell so I went to docs and they referred me for an internal scan. I was nervous but a bit excited as well at the thought of seeing my baby for the first time. However they said they couldn’t see a pregnancy in the uterus but a sac near my ovary and after a rollercoaster weekend of blood tests and raised hopes I had the methotrexate 

That was on 25th May and I am just so so sad about the whole thing I just wanted to share it with people who might understand. I am 36 this month and I am so afraid I will never get the chance to be a mummy again 

 

[sarahuk]

Glad I made you smile

Yh it must have been aweful, goes to show a break does you good though!

Thanks hunni and to matt! I got Simon a mug from jellybean xxx

Awwww bless!!! Did you finish the day with listening to Jellybean? Just think next year hell be bouncing his baby on his knee!!