We're all in this together!

[sarahuk]

Jess - Hope your OH has a lovely Birthday yesterday I have been resting as much as I can thank you hun, just the not sleeping is getting to me now. Ouch, those lumps sound painful chick, hope the hospital can find out what is causing them and treat them xxx

Pinky - You tell me hun, I think she just wants her commission for finding me a job, not the point though, they always tell us that they are there to help us, so stop pushing us into something we can't do!

I could do her job with ease lol! All it is, is sat on her bum, answering the phone, sending e-mails, looking for jobs for people etc, and I would't pressurise anyone into doing something they didn't want to do!

You're welcome hun The recovery time will be worth it in the end hun if you are pain free, fingers crossed you will be! Must be so frustrating not having full use of your arm

Ouch! Let's just hope and pray they get it right this time, there will be nothing left of you if they carry on messing it up! Bimey, you sure have been in the wars hunni, hopefully it's coming to an end now I don't blame you, get every penny you can out of them xxx

not sleeping is the worst - i find im in so much pain at night that i cant sleep properly and the heat hasnt helped

i got myself a V shaped pillow and had the best nights sleep in agessssss last night

I wouldt mind but some of these pple think their god - telling you to apply for jobs that arent suitable - every time ive been to jobcentre for anything i find that im standing around waiting while they have a chat about what they did last night - apparently cos im out of work i have nothing better to do!

maybe next time you talk to her ask her if theres a job going there as it looks easy - that will shut her up

a hundred years ago i used to be one of the tutors when the jobcentre sent you on a jobsearch course - i had to go to college for 3 years to get qualified whilst doing the job and all i got was abuse from 80% of the 'clients' - she probably has a list of pple that shes responsible for and 90% of them dont want a job so by the time she sees you, shes in a bad mood

the reason im having this op is because they cocked up the first op - a leg specialist operated on me and this time its an arm specialist - they should have done a bone graft the first time as there is a gap of 6mm after they took out all the shattered bits of bone

my solicitor is talking about sueing the hospial as well as where i had the accident

its never ending

I would.

The timeframe youve had to struggle with this is digusting. And all the pain and emotional stress too. Id be on them like a hooker on a paycheck.

 

[sarahuk]

Lol Pinky your better then my doctor lol. Om Na they dont no what the lump's are but think that it could be some thing cant remember the name odd one never heard before, begin's with E and my nurse said that it can be nothink to worry about but it can be bad. But Iv heard load's of lump's in the leg's that are tender and have a red mark is cancer. I fucking scared. But I thought it might be DEEP VEIN THROMBOSIS because my uncle suffered and still is with it really bad but doctor said it defo aint that, as Iv also been suffering with HIP and leg pain, were my leg and hip goes stif for day's some time's week's and cant move it and the pain is unreal but she checked my hip's and said they seem fine, but I didnt have the pain at doctor's as it come's and goe's only had the lump's in my leg's. Shitting a brick but FX'd all is well and nothink bad. thx for asking sweetie. x x x

The Lump's are hard really hard but really tender and sometime's painful when moving or walking but that's when the really big and size just depend's some are small some are quite big, like for example so far as small as a Grape and as big as a big as my index finger but thicker then my finger. Quite bad I know but only the small one's are shaped like a grape the big one's are actually like a fat finger under my skin ...Rank I know, So im So SOrry if TMI. x x x

Natt thx hun, yer we had a lovely day didn't do much as we dont really have a baby sitter and to be truthful dont wanna leave honey with anyone anyway. It's not I dont truth anyone in my family it's just she's never been without mummy for NO more then a hour or 2. So dont really feel like leaving her, Im so bad lol I didn't even celebrate my 21st birthday all because my honey came first and I dont really drink TBH no my kinda thing. If you know what I mean, So we ment MIL's and had a laugh then came home and spent the night together on the sofa lol. Glad you've been resting sorry to hear sleep is shit, I know how you feel sweetie, Sleep was a bitch when I was pregnant lol, and honey only came alive at night, she was like a boxer in side my tummy lol. Alway's used to get cramping leg's though the night as well. Yep defo are painful hun and thx I hope so to. x x x

Are they doing any testing for types of arthritis? Theres forms of that which produce lumps as osme arthritic conditions can be caused by the blood cells turning on themselves and so it basically "attacks" certain parts of the body and can produce painful inflammation like that.

Sounds awful though...hope they get you sorted out fast xx

 

[sarahuk]

Sniff..awful cramping and bfn today. Think my hopes of a fertile month post chemical AND the hsg have been severely dashed

Low day!

 

[Pinky32]

Ranting is an important part of TTC let alone life. Got to let those stresses out honeybun or they just going to make you ill.

Nooo...how long do they expect to keep you in for?

I;ll be released late afternoon on sat hopefully

 

[Pinky32]

whats a boofie bear?

is that the grey bear?

Boofle I meant, sorry!! This is him...so freaking CUTE!!

yep thought that wasd it, just didnt know what it was called

 

[Pinky32]

think positive - the longer it takes the more special it will be when you get in there

the questionnaire is what holds up a lot of sales so the fact that your sol has it from the vendor is great

how many times has work been broken into? is there anything to take?

my last work got broken into but they didnt get in, just tried to smash the doors and windows - its more the inconvenience of it all, waiting for police to come down, fingerprint pple etc just to be given a report number so that you can claim on insurance

my op is friday 31st august - gotta be there at 7.30am and im in for 2 days

woooo hoooo picking up my new glasses on friday - cant wait!!!! will be so nice to be able to read a book again - amazing how much my eyes have deteriorated in past 18 months

Yay for the glasses!! Now you need something awesome to read!

2 days...ophew...means i wont be away when youre out thank god! Gunna be a nervous wreck

as soon as i wake up i'll grab my phone and text you

 

[Pinky32]

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AND hopefully out of the idiot who was responsible for what happened to you too. It saddens me to think about how much youve gone through since that day, and that its had to impact your life so much. I just wish that there was some magic wand that would woosh it all away.

Once the surgery is done though and you start to recover...every day is going to be one step closer to having your life back the way you want it chick. Its going to be lovely to be able to celebtrate those little milestones with you post surgery..first day of being able to straighten it a bit more, first day using it for X/Y/Z. I think when youre starting to have noticeable physical improvements, its going to start bringing back that confidence hun xx

the good news is that we got a copy of the shop lease - having been told by the owner that the guy running the cafe is not a tenant - the lease has confirmed that he IS a tenant PLUS theres another guy too

because the cafe doesnt have public liability (not law to have it) it means that i will have to sue both the guys privately but my solicitor thinks ive got a great case againt them - i even found out their addresses and did a land registry on them and they both own houses so they have financial means

when i spoke to physio last month, she told me not to expect too much for six months but yeah i cant wait to celebrate with you all that ive managed to X/Y/Z

 

[Pinky32]

Sniff..awful cramping and bfn today. Think my hopes of a fertile month post chemical AND the hsg have been severely dashed

Low day!

cough cough 9dpo!!! cough cough dont count yourself out

 

[Laura2806]

Your right ladies we'll be in the house before we know it!

Pinky I def think you've got a great case for sueing! And a good solicitor by the sounds of things! Which is the hardest battle! You'll just have to type a quick message saying op went great and im getting better each day I think this'll be a huge weight off your mind once your shoulders sorted and you'll be strong to fight your case then

Sarah def don't count yourself out yet!! Way too early for that shit! Remember what you said to me when the thread started! Your not out until the witch arrives. Keep your chin up sweetie xxx

 

[sarahuk]

Ranting is an important part of TTC let alone life. Got to let those stresses out honeybun or they just going to make you ill.

Nooo...how long do they expect to keep you in for?

I;ll be released late afternoon on sat hopefully

Ohh thats not too bad then! Have they given you an idea of how long to expect for the recovery time? X

 

[sarahuk]

think positive - the longer it takes the more special it will be when you get in there

the questionnaire is what holds up a lot of sales so the fact that your sol has it from the vendor is great

how many times has work been broken into? is there anything to take?

my last work got broken into but they didnt get in, just tried to smash the doors and windows - its more the inconvenience of it all, waiting for police to come down, fingerprint pple etc just to be given a report number so that you can claim on insurance

my op is friday 31st august - gotta be there at 7.30am and im in for 2 days

woooo hoooo picking up my new glasses on friday - cant wait!!!! will be so nice to be able to read a book again - amazing how much my eyes have deteriorated in past 18 months

Yay for the glasses!! Now you need something awesome to read!

2 days...ophew...means i wont be away when youre out thank god! Gunna be a nervous wreck

as soon as i wake up i'll grab my phone and text you

It sounds really blood bad but...please do lol. I know its the last thing on your mind but..Imma be worrying! Even if it makes no sense whatsoever, that will do me x

 

[sarahuk]

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AND hopefully out of the idiot who was responsible for what happened to you too. It saddens me to think about how much youve gone through since that day, and that its had to impact your life so much. I just wish that there was some magic wand that would woosh it all away.

Once the surgery is done though and you start to recover...every day is going to be one step closer to having your life back the way you want it chick. Its going to be lovely to be able to celebtrate those little milestones with you post surgery..first day of being able to straighten it a bit more, first day using it for X/Y/Z. I think when youre starting to have noticeable physical improvements, its going to start bringing back that confidence hun xx

the good news is that we got a copy of the shop lease - having been told by the owner that the guy running the cafe is not a tenant - the lease has confirmed that he IS a tenant PLUS theres another guy too

because the cafe doesnt have public liability (not law to have it) it means that i will have to sue both the guys privately but my solicitor thinks ive got a great case againt them - i even found out their addresses and did a land registry on them and they both own houses so they have financial means

when i spoke to physio last month, she told me not to expect too much for six months but yeah i cant wait to celebrate with you all that ive managed to X/Y/Z

Yeah can be expected that it will take a good while to settle down and heal.

On the plus...thats atleast another 6 months of not being able to work and have a normal daily life that you can claim against those two people!

I think after this they may think twice about public liability

 

[sarahuk]

Sniff..awful cramping and bfn today. Think my hopes of a fertile month post chemical AND the hsg have been severely dashed

Low day!

cough cough 9dpo!!! cough cough dont count yourself out

Ihave the PMA of a dead mosquito today I hate this waiting and teasing. Wish af would just come already.

 

[sarahuk]

Your right ladies we'll be in the house before we know it!

Pinky I def think you've got a great case for sueing! And a good solicitor by the sounds of things! Which is the hardest battle! You'll just have to type a quick message saying op went great and im getting better each day I think this'll be a huge weight off your mind once your shoulders sorted and you'll be strong to fight your case then

Sarah def don't count yourself out yet!! Way too early for that shit! Remember what you said to me when the thread started! Your not out until the witch arrives. Keep your chin up sweetie xxx

Mehhhh lol Easier said than done today! Think im just in the bleh stage. Wont get no answers till october so got two more cycles to go atleast without knowing what the deal is Think im just having one of those fed up moments. I cant remember how not ttc felt now lol...oh dear...that cant be a good sign rofl x

 

[Pinky32]

Your right ladies we'll be in the house before we know it!

Pinky I def think you've got a great case for sueing! And a good solicitor by the sounds of things! Which is the hardest battle! You'll just have to type a quick message saying op went great and im getting better each day I think this'll be a huge weight off your mind once your shoulders sorted and you'll be strong to fight your case then

Sarah def don't count yourself out yet!! Way too early for that shit! Remember what you said to me when the thread started! Your not out until the witch arrives. Keep your chin up sweetie xxx

I love it when someone quotes sarahs crap back at her b

If i said at 9dpo that i got a bfn so was out she would be hounding me!

I'll have my phone with me so i;ll try to come on the evening of my op just to let you guys know im alive (my biggest fear)

but thank you laura - means a lot to me x

yes he seems to be a good solicitor - hes got my medical records from my doc and has applied to the hospital which takes approx3-4 months and hes arranging for me to have a medical assessment

the case wont go to court until next year but it will be a nice big dfat pay out

 

[Pinky32]

Ranting is an important part of TTC let alone life. Got to let those stresses out honeybun or they just going to make you ill.

Nooo...how long do they expect to keep you in for?

I;ll be released late afternoon on sat hopefully

Ohh thats not too bad then! Have they given you an idea of how long to expect for the recovery time? X

recovery will be 6-8 weeks and fully recovery 6 months

 

[Pinky32]

think positive - the longer it takes the more special it will be when you get in there

the questionnaire is what holds up a lot of sales so the fact that your sol has it from the vendor is great

how many times has work been broken into? is there anything to take?

my last work got broken into but they didnt get in, just tried to smash the doors and windows - its more the inconvenience of it all, waiting for police to come down, fingerprint pple etc just to be given a report number so that you can claim on insurance

my op is friday 31st august - gotta be there at 7.30am and im in for 2 days

woooo hoooo picking up my new glasses on friday - cant wait!!!! will be so nice to be able to read a book again - amazing how much my eyes have deteriorated in past 18 months

Yay for the glasses!! Now you need something awesome to read!

2 days...ophew...means i wont be away when youre out thank god! Gunna be a nervous wreck

as soon as i wake up i'll grab my phone and text you

It sounds really blood bad but...please do lol. I know its the last thing on your mind but..Imma be worrying! Even if it makes no sense whatsoever, that will do me x

when i had my first op i went downstairs for a cuppa and a ciggy in the evening so i should be fine to call you - stop panicing

 

[Pinky32]

i think public liability should be law for all public shops n offices etc - it only costs about £200 a year!

no pma is fine hun - we all get like that - im sure even laura and natt get those days
even now - its normal - but dont linger on it, realise that pma is low then do something to take your mind off it, spring clean etc i found crocheting doesnt take my mind off things

dont be so hard on yourself - give your body a chance after the chem and hsg - its had a right battering recently

 

[Laura2806]

I know what its like hun, bloody aweful and no matter how much you try to not think about it its all you can think about! I just used to think oh well my body failed this cycle might aswell get on with the next one now!

And yes pinky I still have days where I worry, lil man seems to be quiet Mondays and Tuesdays then makes up for it the rest of the week, his pattern has only emerged this week tho so I hate the start of the week. Then its a case of well is he ok the rest of the time?! I even worry if I don't feel him when I wake up at stupid o'clock in the morning.

The worry and panick never turn to complete pma and I can only imagine it'll get worse!

Then of course there's everything else to have no pma over, the house mainly, then OH's mum upsets me over the wedding everytime we talk about it, needless to say I try to not talk about it. Its all good fun! Lol

Pinky that's not too bad then, hopefully after the 6-8wks you"LL be getting some movement back and that's not far away at all!!

Sigh I better get dressed for another day in shitville! Oh well each day is a day closer to leaving!! Xxx

 

[xXxJessicaxXx]

~Hello Ladie's,

Thank's girlie's for all the comment's, I will keep you all posted. x x x

Lol pinky I didn't think you would like it at first but I love the tune everyone has different taste. lol. x x x

Sarah thx again hun, and yer they are doing bloodwork's ATM but iv put it off for a couple of day's, I hate needle's lol so sad, hehe. But I will be going to get them done soon, Did have an app at doctor's but couldn't make it. But after that god know's what they are going to do guess it just depend's on my result's!!! But I will update when I find out. x x x

Owww and pinky your right, I just need to get in there and dont leave untill im happy with the outcome and if that's the only way im gonna get the ball rolling then that's what I gotta do. x x x

Hope everyone's ok. x x x

P.S Sorry im not on much. x x x