We're all in this together!

[Laura2806]

FXed and lots of to you hunni xxx

 

[Excalibur]

Jess - Good luck chick Sending you lot's of sticky baby xxx

 

[xXxJessicaxXx]

I did was neg, totally new it would be neg just felt different. But never mind on a new cycle now. but sadly girlie's I wont be back hear untill the end of this cycle. Im totally doing nothink at all this cycle but have sex every other day from now for the next 2 week's then when ever we wont and it's actually been nice to have a break and do it less. lol. So Hope you girlie's will be fine and cant wait to find out the rest of your great news to come when I finish this cycle. Speak to you in a while. Anythink is worth a try so I gotta go with the flow and stay internet free for just one cycle. Bye for now. x x x

 

[Laura2806]

We will miss you sweetie! big hugs and dust to you xxxxxx

Totaly understand you've gotta do what you've gotta do, good lick and be sure to come back when your ready xxxx

 

[Excalibur]

Jess - Speak to you soon hunni. Maybe a break from BnB will do you good. Good luck and sending you lot's of xx

Sending lot's of baby out to Pinky, Sarak and KT

 

[sarahuk]

Oooo very nice! I've git cupcakes in the oven atm lol

maybe they are! I always think that lol not long till you find out xx

Ooo, looks like we both were in the mood for baking hehe. Biscuits are finished now, will test one after tea

I say I'm not supersticious but I believe in things like that xx

I hope so...cos I saw two little magpies hopping around in my garden yesterday

Hai btw! Playing catchup..so expect spam lol...and also ill update at the end! x

 

[sarahuk]

Good to see your doing good jess

Well its just me and mr grey tonight as Simons out and yes I've joined the '50 shades of grey' hype! Its sooo engrosing! Can't put it down lol

It is bringing my sex drive back with avengence tho! Not good when Simons out grrrrrrd lol I have text him and informed him tho so holing he won't be late lol anyways that's probably tmi!

Oh and I'm able to eat chocolate again :haplydance: xxx

Haha Im joining you! Im not usually into those kinda books but so fed up of the hype that I just have to see what the fuss is about. Looks odd sitting next to my book 5 of Game of Thrones tho haha

 

[sarahuk]

That's good then pinky lets hope they git the ball rolling

My niece else Louise arrived at 8:30 this morning she's beautful so proud of everyone xx

Awww congrats auntie laura!

Your turn to have your legs up soon! Time FLIES!

 

[sarahuk]

Hello girlie's how are you all? x

Just gonna reply on here so girlie's make sure you let the other's no for me THX x

Well my sister had a beautiful little boy yesterday, went to see him that night and his so cute didnt wanna let go. Bless...

Well i know im some were in my 2WW and had some spotting early this morning. Not keeping track of it as i dont wanna end up working out were i am in my cycle is nice to not no and defo more relaxing and not stressful x

Natt, laura and tennah how are you's, DH's, And Them growing bump's ??? x x x

Sarah hope your ok hun, I cant believe what you have been though and hope that from now one everythink is a load better for ya x x x

KT were you hun, aint seen you on here for a while now, hope your ok and pregnant too x x x

Awww thanks chick

Sometimes letting go of the tracking is all it needs to get it to happen. Even the fertility specialists are big on telling you to stop. I was surprised to hear it!

Hope that your stress free no tracking cycles continue to make ttc and the ttw easier x

 

[sarahuk]

Laura - Thank you hun, he's gone to his Mums this afternoon, I didn't want to go so it gives us a couple of hours apart. Aww that's not too bad then, that was the first time I saw my family in nearly a year! Glad Jellybean is doing great xx

Jess - Thank you chick, I hope he does. We have decided to get railcards though for the train so it works out cheaper for when we do go and see my family, hopefully that will help a little xx

Awww chick. I know it must be really hard being away from the family. I have that prob with Matt since his family is away in sweden. He hasnt seen them for over a year and I see how it makes him feel bad so..massive hugs to you! x

 

[sarahuk]

Laura - That is very true lol, I guess it's a no win situation at the moment Thank you chick For the past few days I have had it rough, I have tried Gaviscon, which nearly made me Rennie's and Milk, it's not as bad today though which is good Aww bless, it will take a while to sink in I think hun, yay for more baby grows xxx

Jess - Thank you hun I am going to try and get over to see them at least once a month, twice if possible. It's really hard to say bye as I don't know when I'm going to see them again xxx

I read that if you sleep/lay on your left side it helps some with heartburn/acid. I havent tried it yet tho!

 

[sarahuk]

Morning ladie's,

AF arrived though the night, but ot be truthful I was waiting for it. After this cycle of NTNP I just feel like giving up all together what more can I do? Nothink... Right. I really do feel there's a problem but I cant even get test's done. I will never know. Sadly. x x x

Awww sorry to hear that af came honey Im sure theres nothing wrong though. Look at honey! And sorry to mention it, but the chemical you had too. And that was recent so im sure everything medically is fine. TTC is such a hard and stressful journey that along with the trying to time things, all that additional stress and stuff too tends to impact.

Now youre on a stress free more relaxed approach, im sure your body is going to be much better placed to help you make that forever baby. xx

 

[sarahuk]

Sorry to hear AF arrived Hun

I'd don't get why they won't do any tests to see if there's anything wrong, doesn't make sense to me.

What and haven't you tried? Let's see if we can come up with something chick xxx

The problem is that all the testing is also done through FS's...as the whole point to the actual testing is to try and get woman and man to conception and pregnancy. There is a strict critera....and the first two big ones are age and children. They wont even consider you until youve been actively full on ttc for X amount of time and then they look at secondary issues like whether you have children already, whether theres medical issues etc.

And thats just to get in the door. Then theres hoping you qualify for the actual treatment. With infertility specialists being so busy these days theres nationally set up guidelines to all clinics that they have to adhere too.

 

[sarahuk]

yep hun been taking it for three month's now still nothink. I dont even think im gonna bother buying it this month. And I know what you mean about me having honey but I think negative rather then positive and some women that have one or two children can still become infertile or have problem's. Maybe I am just worrying to much but It's hard all this TTC and for over 2 year's now. Thank's though hun. x x x

About vitamins!

We need to be taking vitamins every day for three months -before- anything starts in terms of benefit. Our eggs are pre-developed within three months of our AF...so if we havent been taking our pills for three months you dont have the benefit of them to your eggs yet...if you get me!

So keep taking everything for three months and after that youll have nice strong eggies! x

 

[Laura2806]

Hey Sarah!!! How's things going?

Thanks elsie-Louise is beautiful and just starting to smile too soooo can't wait to meet our little man now!

I can see why the criteria is so strict else everyone would be getting tested within months of ttc. Just frustrating for those who feel they need help but don't qualify, which us good that they don't qualify in my eyes as it means they are capable of conceiving and carry to term.

Also it makes sense that they tell you to stop charting etc, it dies take the stress away.

Any news your end? so good to see you back hunni, I hope your getting good news all the while and closer to your super sticky rainbow baby

Wow I got burnt today! My legs, well shins which never tan let alone burn are bright red and burning hot loads of aftersun on!!! Lol man enjoyed the sun tho, kicking away, even if it was my innards (poss cervix?!) he was kicking :-/

 

[sarahuk]

Jess Hun do you still temp?

If I was you I would stop everything! Even the vits, I know you should take folic acid whilst TTC but truthfully I took it for about the first 2months and just forgot to keep taking it and baby is fine.

Have sex when you want to not because its the right time, give your body a break.

But please don't give up, I know it's easy for me to say but I always go on the pregnancy test forums and there's always people on there who have been TTC for 2,3,4,5 years etc and get their BFP.

And just because you have honey doesn't mean you can't give your love to another child. Give it maybe 2months of doing nothing but sexy time and then go back to your docs, weep and whale and do whatever it takes to make them realise how serious you are About wanting another baby and how it's affecting your day to day life.

And don't ever forget that we're here for you no matter what! Give yourself time to get strong and look forward to the future. I used to tell myself that each day is one day closer to getting my BFP and meeting my baby, and that's the same for you, each day you get closer.

xxxx

Tbh...the hospital told me to stop everything. But then I dunno if thats just cos i might be under treatment in the future.

But..they did say stopping tracking is always advised to all people at the clinic, as well as planning sexy time. They say just go three times a week.

Ive been doing some research Jess. They say that every person has the right to be referred to a fertility clinic ATLEAST for the preliminary investigations. I know youve tried to go this route before but you could try pushing.

It might be that they havent pushed your referral because to be completely honest...its true that having honey means you are likely to not be offered proper assisted conceptions like ivfs etc if they did find something. But I really dont see what the problem is to get things checked out.

I also found a guideline for the national criterias for fertility referrals and they did say that in young healthy patients they dont always qualify for "infertility" investigations until 3 years.

 

[sarahuk]

I did was neg, totally new it would be neg just felt different. But never mind on a new cycle now. but sadly girlie's I wont be back hear untill the end of this cycle. Im totally doing nothink at all this cycle but have sex every other day from now for the next 2 week's then when ever we wont and it's actually been nice to have a break and do it less. lol. So Hope you girlie's will be fine and cant wait to find out the rest of your great news to come when I finish this cycle. Speak to you in a while. Anythink is worth a try so I gotta go with the flow and stay internet free for just one cycle. Bye for now. x x x

You know...to be honest you -should- calm the sexy time down I think. They dont advise daily sex when ttc unless the sperm is super healthy. I remember you saying that your oh had some low levels within his tests...so it could be having the too much sexy time thats your problem with ttc

Try going three times a week! x

 

[sarahuk]

Aww thanks chick!

Yep...I feel bad for abandoning you all but...tbh I really needed my break. When I had the chemical it felt like my world fell in for a few days. I always thought if I ever had a chemical that id pick myself up real fast from it and tell myself it just wasnt a sticky but...I tink because it all happened so fast it just dragged me down. It took me a while to bounce back and in that time I think I just needed to close myself off.

Luckily...I had my FS appointment a few weeks after it so that did keep me going. And thats all gone really well too.

ATM...this is my position:

Matts sperm tests were all fab, and they confirmed that my blood tests had confirmed that I wasnt ovulating...or that I was ovulating some cycles and not others possibly. They were a bit confused since my bloodwork pointed towards no eggies dropping but then I then went on to get a chemical.

So..they are looking into things a bit deeper now which has been a blessing. Im being referred for more blood tests. Im getting an ultrasound of my uterus and my ovaries to check for cysts of evidence of pcos etc and all that stuff. AND im getting a HSG done. Im a bit nervous about that but its all good. They said that with my bloods pointing towards no OV they wouldnt have done this if I hadnt of had the chemical so there was a silver lining to that experience. The procedure is basically where they are going to inject dyes into my uterus and take lots of pictures of where the dye is going. It will highlight any scarring or any blocked tubes...AND the best part is that it also acts as a flush so it will clean out anything that needs unblocking. It apparently also makes you quite fertile after since the womb is completely fresh! So...Im having all that done then im back to the specialist to see if I need medicinal help.

They advised to stop all vitamins except folic acid, to stop opking and stop temping and just try and have humpy dumpy three times a week from cd10 to cd20 since my cycles are going a bit haywire.

I feel a lot more relaxed now. It was so long since seeing two line that id started to fear I never would so the chemical brought back my hope in our eggs and sperms liking each other.

If I have another loss though ill be investigated for why...things like our antibodies and genetic matching and stuff like that.

So...im still trying...still hoping...still prepared for the fact that my miracle will happen.

Hows things with my ladies? xxx

 

[Laura2806]

Wow that procedure sounds like a great start Hun! Can't be bad the get flushed out! Lol I think it's good that they advise to only take folic acid, I wasn't even taking this when conceived

And if, which I really hope you don't have another loss, it's good to know they will see if there is a cause.

And yes your miracle will happen!!

As for me, sore legs after getting burnt yesterday and the weathers beautiful again so that's me inside as I'm off work ATM, as in signed off due to severe tension headaches which could only be controlled by diazepam, this is my 3rd full week off and the week before I worked the Monday, went docs tues, opticians weds, work for an hour Thursday but because of what a bitch my boss being I couldn't stay so she sent me home. I self certified for a week then got docs note. So I'm off this week then on holiday nxt week then back to work. Docs told me to get a new job but. Don't see how anyone would take me on almost 22wks pregnant?!

On the plus......we had an offer accepted on a house on weds last week and we complete in about 25sleeps! So 3wks Friday we will (should) be getting the keys

Xxx

 

[Excalibur]

Sarah - Thank you hunni, it's awful being so far away from your family. When you just want a catch up or a family hug, you can't Thanks for the tip about heartburn hun, no matter what position I tried to sleep in, it was just as bad, my doctor prescribed me some gaviscon advance, aniseed flavour, it's helping a little so all is good As Laura said hun, sounds like you are off to a great start with the procedure and are getting the help you need towards getting your rainbow baby xxx

Laura - Ouch! Make sure you do put plenty of aftersun on chick, sunburn is not nice! I remember getting is last year, it was cloudy so I thought I wouldn't catch the sun but got told I will if I stay sat out in it, I didn't believe them but stayed out in anyway, I was like a tomato when I went inside to shower! So sunburnt it was sore to touch! I'll believe what people tell me from now on xxx