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Im sure its fine Katie 
When I had my bleeding with my first bfp the hospital told me that red blood is actually really quite common. Infact they said that it was more common than people think.
Im sure all is well. The hospital will take good care of you. They will do bloods and probably an internal to look at the cervix and then they will give you the vaginal ultrasound. Since youre quite early on its a possibility that they wont be able to pick up much on the ultrasound though. Im just saying this so you dont panic tomorrow if that is the case. Infact its not until betas hit around 1500 that the sac is visable if I remembe what I was told right. I had my first scan at 5wks 4 days and I wasnt able to pick up anything on mine but there was when I went back the week later.
Sounds like your betas are rising though and hoping that you are far enough in to see the sac! Keep your chin up...it will be FINE
Laura the hsg was not pleasant at all. Infact, it was pretty uncomfortable. The catheter into the cervix wasnt easy to place. Apparently my cervix was quite far back so she had a job getting it in. Weird when you can feel then twisting it in like fastening a bottle lid! Then they do this thing where they blow up a balloon on the inside and bloody hell. I normally have a high tolerance for pain but they didnt warn me they were doing it and I have to be honest I did have to cry out a little. Was intense. The dye itself wasnt too bad...just started as a slight af cramp really low down that then spread up to my stomach and got more uncomfortable as it went. The pain side only lasted about 5 mins in total though but glad it was over. Some women feel it and others dont apparently...I wasnt so lucky!
They couldnt give me the official results today as she was a sonographer/radioligist and not my doctor. But it looked like the dye was flowing nice and clear through my left tube but not my right. So theres a high chance of a blocked right tube which is where I had my ectopic.
Apparently that would explain my cycles of no confirmed ovulation. OV doesnt alternate between ovaries so its pot luck each cycle which one drops the egg. If my right tube is indeed blocked then it might explain why im having a hard time getting pregnant.
Treatment for blockage is surgery or ovulation stimulants, they prefer the pills. So clomid would probably be my next port of call. Not likely ill get the clomid till I can get some weight off so sounds like im gunna be left on my own till I get to the bmi they want.
Glad I know there might be something going on so im just not that unlucky..but fairly guttered that if i am blocked, that my chances of conceiving have just dropped yet again. 2 years and 8 months and no baby has really started to get to me today with this news...considering it could take me just as long to get a bfp again. And my chance of ectopic with a blockage goes up even higher. I alrady had a high chance of a repeat having had one..didnt need to have yet another increased risk!
So thats my day in a nutshell. My bodyis knackered and is trying everything it can to keep me away from having a baby. Matts been great and hes trying hard to keep me focused but I think im just way too tired with it all. Its one hurdle jumped and 10 more pop up in front.
Yep...today and the next few days...are sarah wallowin in self pity days!
P.s. Charl - Dont think there was any partiular reason you were last on the list. I know I dont think about order when I type stuffs like that
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When I had my bleeding with my first bfp the hospital told me that red blood is actually really quite common. Infact they said that it was more common than people think.Im sure all is well. The hospital will take good care of you. They will do bloods and probably an internal to look at the cervix and then they will give you the vaginal ultrasound. Since youre quite early on its a possibility that they wont be able to pick up much on the ultrasound though. Im just saying this so you dont panic tomorrow if that is the case. Infact its not until betas hit around 1500 that the sac is visable if I remembe what I was told right. I had my first scan at 5wks 4 days and I wasnt able to pick up anything on mine but there was when I went back the week later.
Sounds like your betas are rising though and hoping that you are far enough in to see the sac! Keep your chin up...it will be FINE
Laura the hsg was not pleasant at all. Infact, it was pretty uncomfortable. The catheter into the cervix wasnt easy to place. Apparently my cervix was quite far back so she had a job getting it in. Weird when you can feel then twisting it in like fastening a bottle lid! Then they do this thing where they blow up a balloon on the inside and bloody hell. I normally have a high tolerance for pain but they didnt warn me they were doing it and I have to be honest I did have to cry out a little. Was intense. The dye itself wasnt too bad...just started as a slight af cramp really low down that then spread up to my stomach and got more uncomfortable as it went. The pain side only lasted about 5 mins in total though but glad it was over. Some women feel it and others dont apparently...I wasnt so lucky!
They couldnt give me the official results today as she was a sonographer/radioligist and not my doctor. But it looked like the dye was flowing nice and clear through my left tube but not my right. So theres a high chance of a blocked right tube which is where I had my ectopic.
Apparently that would explain my cycles of no confirmed ovulation. OV doesnt alternate between ovaries so its pot luck each cycle which one drops the egg. If my right tube is indeed blocked then it might explain why im having a hard time getting pregnant.
Treatment for blockage is surgery or ovulation stimulants, they prefer the pills. So clomid would probably be my next port of call. Not likely ill get the clomid till I can get some weight off so sounds like im gunna be left on my own till I get to the bmi they want.
Glad I know there might be something going on so im just not that unlucky..but fairly guttered that if i am blocked, that my chances of conceiving have just dropped yet again. 2 years and 8 months and no baby has really started to get to me today with this news...considering it could take me just as long to get a bfp again. And my chance of ectopic with a blockage goes up even higher. I alrady had a high chance of a repeat having had one..didnt need to have yet another increased risk!
So thats my day in a nutshell. My bodyis knackered and is trying everything it can to keep me away from having a baby. Matts been great and hes trying hard to keep me focused but I think im just way too tired with it all. Its one hurdle jumped and 10 more pop up in front.
Yep...today and the next few days...are sarah wallowin in self pity days!
P.s. Charl - Dont think there was any partiular reason you were last on the list. I know I dont think about order when I type stuffs like that
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Sorry it wasn't nice hun 
but its done now and can give you some answers which is the main thing chick. As for the possible blockage, the thing is its treatable and means your not a write off, hope that doesn't sound horrible :-/
Can't begin to imagine how your feeling right now which limits me as to what I can say to you, I don't like this, I really don't know what to say to you without sounding harsh or uncaring. You deserve your baby and you will get your baby. And I know you will do whatever it takes to get to him/her.
I may sound harsh here but im trying to be supportive, how much weight do they want you to loose? Is it realistic and have they given you any sort of timescale? I'm crap at loosing weight! I lost 3stone in about 9months before using a really simple diet, then put it all back on bar half a stone when I got with Simon.
You know we're all here for you and will do whatever it takes to help you along the way.
Remember this for me, the road may be an uphill battle but the view from the top will be incredible. I know you and your body can do this and I just pray it does it soon. You deserve this sweetie xxx
but its done now and can give you some answers which is the main thing chick. As for the possible blockage, the thing is its treatable and means your not a write off, hope that doesn't sound horrible :-/Can't begin to imagine how your feeling right now which limits me as to what I can say to you, I don't like this, I really don't know what to say to you without sounding harsh or uncaring. You deserve your baby and you will get your baby. And I know you will do whatever it takes to get to him/her.
I may sound harsh here but im trying to be supportive, how much weight do they want you to loose? Is it realistic and have they given you any sort of timescale? I'm crap at loosing weight! I lost 3stone in about 9months before using a really simple diet, then put it all back on bar half a stone when I got with Simon.
You know we're all here for you and will do whatever it takes to help you along the way.
Remember this for me, the road may be an uphill battle but the view from the top will be incredible. I know you and your body can do this and I just pray it does it soon. You deserve this sweetie xxx
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Awww thanks chick I think im just being a moaning minnie today ill be back to pmaville tomorrow just you watch! I think its easy sometimes to get bogged down by the bad side of the coin but I needs to focus on the goods. Ectopic didnt take my tube...i do ov...even if it turns out to be just sometimes...and I defo have atleast one good tube! Matts sperm are viking strength...just gotta get all my peas and carrots aligned now!
Im rubbing ur bumps in my mind for good luck! Cross those fingers ladies for a left side OV this cycle! xxx
I think im just being a moaning minnie today ill be back to pmaville tomorrow just you watch! I think its easy sometimes to get bogged down by the bad side of the coin but I needs to focus on the goods. Ectopic didnt take my tube...i do ov...even if it turns out to be just sometimes...and I defo have atleast one good tube! Matts sperm are viking strength...just gotta get all my peas and carrots aligned now!Im rubbing ur bumps in my mind for good luck! Cross those fingers ladies for a left side OV this cycle! xxx
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I think you have a right to be a moaning minnie! But yes def look to the good side of things and that you now hopefully know what's going and making conceiving take longer.
Iss there anyway they can stimulate the left ovary to either produce more eggs or release every month? If not, I've found a gap in the market lets get mpworkign on it!
And go those Viking spermies! Lol xxx
Iss there anyway they can stimulate the left ovary to either produce more eggs or release every month? If not, I've found a gap in the market lets get mpworkign on it!
And go those Viking spermies! Lol xxx
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Thanks Sarah, u girls have given me far more reassurance than my doc gave me. I know they cant be too positive bcoz it cld b a miscarraige but he didnt say much really. He basically said its a 50/50 chance my baby will survive.
Thanks for ur warning about monday, im quite hsppy to see nothing as long as the lady doing the scans etc thinkd everything looks normal ill be happy. If everything goes ok b4 that ill be 5 weeks 6days so ur right still very early.
Thanks for ur warning about monday, im quite hsppy to see nothing as long as the lady doing the scans etc thinkd everything looks normal ill be happy. If everything goes ok b4 that ill be 5 weeks 6days so ur right still very early.
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Hello girlie's,
Laura thing's are going good thx hun, Glad baby's higher hopefully everythink will go to plan. x x x
Kt hope your ok sweetie and hope the bleeding's stopped. Big hug's. x x x
Sarah Sorry to hear you think your right tube is blocked, and if that is so hopefully they will be able to un block it. FX'd. Hope it's good result's though. x x x
Natt how are you hun? x x x
Laura thing's are going good thx hun, Glad baby's higher hopefully everythink will go to plan.
x x xKt hope your ok sweetie and hope the bleeding's stopped. Big hug's. x x x
Sarah Sorry to hear you think your right tube is blocked, and if that is so hopefully they will be able to un block it. FX'd. Hope it's good result's though. x x x
Natt how are you hun? x x x
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Morning kt, how's things today?
At least you'll be prepared for you could see
I'm ok hun, I'm up and down really. I'm positive most of the time as I'm not bleeding and I only bled a tiny bit. However I'm reminded that something could be wrong with tummy cramps very similar to period pains. Their not bad but their there!!
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KT - Sorry to hear about your Wedding Venue hun, hope they sort something out soon Sorry to hear you have had some bleeding hun, hopefully it's just breakthrough bleeding and it's baby snuggling in more, sending you big and sticky 
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Jess - We are all great thank you hun, hope you and Honey are ok too? I will do a Bump picture on Monday when I'm 22 weeks. We are having a little boy hun, Tyler James Wrigley 
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Laura - Things are sounding promising for Blue turning around
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Pinky - How are you doing hunni? Sending you lot's of xxx
Sarah - Ouch! That does sound rather painful!
Glad it's over and done with now though. Fingers are crossed for a left side Ov xxx
Sorry to hear you have had some bleeding hun, hopefully it's just breakthrough bleeding and it's baby snuggling in more, sending you big and sticky xxxJess - We are all great thank you hun, hope you and Honey are ok too?
I will do a Bump picture on Monday when I'm 22 weeks. We are having a little boy hun, Tyler James Wrigley xxxLaura - Things are sounding promising for Blue turning around
xxxPinky - How are you doing hunni?
Sending you lot's of xxxSarah - Ouch! That does sound rather painful!
Glad it's over and done with now though. Fingers are crossed for a left side Ov xxx
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Katie dont worry chick...sounds like you just had some spotting. Its very normal after bfp and could just be normal for you around when youd have normally had your AF
Also...dont worry about those cramps! Its all very normal too even though they feel like AF. Its just the uterus expanding and changing shape to accomodate whats going on.
Monday will go fine, and im sure that at that point in your pregnancy youll be able to see the sad and know everything is ok! I know how worrying bleeding is, but im sure that if it was something bad going on, youd have continual bleeding and it would be getting heavy by now. So sounds just like snuggling in spotting to me!
As for the egg...they can give you pills which make both ovaries produce eggs. Thats the clomid..just gotta hope they let me have it now! IF I did get it right about the blockage. I think it was mostly just the concerns considering im already high risk for a tubal, and then to find out i might have a blockage means my potential for tubals will go up yet again. I kinda liked the knowledge that I had always a backup tube..but now im acutely aware that if im down to one, theres no backup...and that makes me super nervous.
Feeling a bit more back to normal today though! Just muscular sore and the feeing of the parked car covered in razer blades has finally left the building down there
Have you ladies got nice plans for the weekend?
Also...dont worry about those cramps! Its all very normal too even though they feel like AF. Its just the uterus expanding and changing shape to accomodate whats going on.
Monday will go fine, and im sure that at that point in your pregnancy youll be able to see the sad and know everything is ok! I know how worrying bleeding is, but im sure that if it was something bad going on, youd have continual bleeding and it would be getting heavy by now. So sounds just like snuggling in spotting to me!
As for the egg...they can give you pills which make both ovaries produce eggs. Thats the clomid..just gotta hope they let me have it now! IF I did get it right about the blockage. I think it was mostly just the concerns considering im already high risk for a tubal, and then to find out i might have a blockage means my potential for tubals will go up yet again. I kinda liked the knowledge that I had always a backup tube..but now im acutely aware that if im down to one, theres no backup...and that makes me super nervous.
Feeling a bit more back to normal today though! Just muscular sore and the feeing of the parked car covered in razer blades has finally left the building down there
Have you ladies got nice plans for the weekend?
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Kt I'm glad your feeling better Hun, like Sarah said it sounds like spotting so everything should be fine? Roll on Monday! Gutted I'll be back at work so won't be able to check in every 5mins, that's providing I last longer than the last day i was in!
Jess glad your all doing good too
Ladies he seems to have moved back down again hurry and move boy! Lol
Sarah - good to see your feeling better today, don't rule that tube out just yet
fingers crossed they can do something about it and put you on clomid too. Boost all your chances
As for my weekend, today I'm baking a christening cake ready for Sunday as I'll be making 80cupcakes also tomorrow so I can deliver them Saturday afternoon/evening. Also gotta go get mums birthday prezzie, clean the house ready for them coming home and do all my ironing, which is mountains! And we're going for a meal tomorrow night with OH's folks.
What about you Hun, any plans? Xxx
Jess glad your all doing good too
Ladies he seems to have moved back down again
hurry and move boy! Lol Sarah - good to see your feeling better today, don't rule that tube out just yet
fingers crossed they can do something about it and put you on clomid too. Boost all your chances As for my weekend, today I'm baking a christening cake ready for Sunday as I'll be making 80cupcakes also tomorrow so I can deliver them Saturday afternoon/evening. Also gotta go get mums birthday prezzie, clean the house ready for them coming home and do all my ironing, which is mountains! And we're going for a meal tomorrow night with OH's folks.
What about you Hun, any plans? Xxx
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WOW sounds like its all systems go with you chick!!
Awww how do you feel about going back? I reckon youll be off on early maternity leave with the little one you know. Those headaches and the pains must be really taking it out of you. Take extra special care of yourself honey!
Hmm..I think I shall be on a crochet frenzy this weekend. Ive been working on a baby blanket to test out a pattern and really wanna get it finished..and need to make a doily with proper crochet thread for my sisters upcoming birthday. Problem is ive been getting so sidetracked lately with lots of reading...and my love of poker has resurfaced too...damn! lol.
Awwww I wanna eat your cupcakes...your baking always looks so super yummy!!
Awww how do you feel about going back? I reckon youll be off on early maternity leave with the little one you know. Those headaches and the pains must be really taking it out of you. Take extra special care of yourself honey!
Hmm..I think I shall be on a crochet frenzy this weekend. Ive been working on a baby blanket to test out a pattern and really wanna get it finished..and need to make a doily with proper crochet thread for my sisters upcoming birthday. Problem is ive been getting so sidetracked lately with lots of reading...and my love of poker has resurfaced too...damn! lol.
Awwww I wanna eat your cupcakes...your baking always looks so super yummy!!
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Oh yes lol very busy weekend!
Honestly, I'm dreading goi back cause I know she's gonna be vile to me. She'll have me in the office to do a 'return to work interview' and she'll either thrust loads of work at me or will have taken it all off me and I'll be doing office shit, I'd sooner do office shit tho! Lol I think the headaches will come back once I'm back at work too. I shall do hunni early mat leave will suit me!
Yay for crocheting we need piccies too!
I've never made 80 before so just hoping they all turn out spot on I shall post pics once done xxx
Honestly, I'm dreading goi back cause I know she's gonna be vile to me. She'll have me in the office to do a 'return to work interview' and she'll either thrust loads of work at me or will have taken it all off me and I'll be doing office shit, I'd sooner do office shit tho! Lol I think the headaches will come back once I'm back at work too. I shall do hunni
early mat leave will suit me! Yay for crocheting
we need piccies too! I've never made 80 before so just hoping they all turn out spot on
I shall post pics once done xxx
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Thank you so much ladies you have been very reassuring i hope your all right!! I hope my lil blip is in there and this is just my bodies way of dealing with it!!
Sarah i hope they put you on clomid hun how fab would that be. I thinks its such a step forward for you to know whats going on! Thats wonderful news!
I hope my lil blip is in there and this is just my bodies way of dealing with it!! Sarah i hope they put you on clomid hun how fab would that be. I thinks its such a step forward for you to know whats going on! Thats wonderful news!
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Yep Katie...I know its hard but...try and put it out of your mind chick. Your next digi is gunna say 3+!
Your work sounds right pants Laura...id defo be looking for a new job after youve had your little one!!
Yep Katie...I know its hard but...try and put it out of your mind chick. Your next digi is gunna say 3+!
Your work sounds right pants Laura...id defo be looking for a new job after youve had your little one!!
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There's no way I'm going back mat leave. My boss is the biggest of all bitches! Not long left!
Feeling sorry for myself today, pretty lonely and fed up, even took some diazepam earlier cause I was getting upset over work
On the plus side, the christening cake is done! What do you guys think?
https://i852.photobucket.com/albums/ab82/laura_28_06/temporary-9.jpg
Xxx
Feeling sorry for myself today, pretty lonely and fed up, even took some diazepam earlier cause I was getting upset over work
On the plus side, the christening cake is done! What do you guys think?
https://i852.photobucket.com/albums/ab82/laura_28_06/temporary-9.jpg
Xxx
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OMG laura the cake is amazing. looks really pretty. oww and thx hun. x x x
Awwww natt a boy well i was wrong lol, wouldnt it be mad if teenah and kt was having a boy to. really cute name hun. cant wait to see bump pic. Yer me and honey are great thx sweetie, getting on just fine. So busy lol. thanks for asking. x x x
looks really pretty. oww and thx hun. x x xAwwww natt a boy well i was wrong lol, wouldnt it be mad if teenah and kt was having a boy to.
really cute name hun. cant wait to see bump pic. Yer me and honey are great thx sweetie, getting on just fine. So busy lol. thanks for asking. x x x
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There's no way I'm going back mat leave. My boss is the biggest of all bitches! Not long left!
Feeling sorry for myself today, pretty lonely and fed up, even took some diazepam earlier cause I was getting upset over work
On the plus side, the christening cake is done! What do you guys think?
https://i852.photobucket.com/albums/ab82/laura_28_06/temporary-9.jpg
Xxx
Oh thats a beautiful cake hun, well done!! Hope ur feeling better tday, dont let work get u down im sure their not worth it!
I just had a quote through from my florist jeez they want double the cost i budgeted for. Crrraazzzzyyy!!
