We're all in this together!

[Excalibur]

I know what you mean. Atm its just too much.

Same here lol I wanna go and stand in the rain! Wouldn't look good shopping later then tho lol

See now I was asleep at 8pm last night! Lol all my body wants to go is sleep! It is getting more uncomfortable tho! Bella got in bed with me when Simon got up, she lies on the pillows with her head over your shoulder snuggled into your neck, sooo cute xxx

You would end up with a cold if you went and stood in the rain

I'll swap you for one night? All I want is one good nights sleep lol! Aww bless her lol, I love it when pets snuggle with you hehe xxx

 

[xXxJessicaxXx]

Hello ladie's,

Natt glad to hear job interview went great, but Pinky and laura and you are defo right to much for a pregnant women. But I am sorry to hear you've gotta turn it down as it IS TO MUCH, for you and baby. x x x

Hope everyone's ok?

Pinky and Sarah and KT Good Luck For This Cycle Girlie's. x x x

 

[Excalibur]

Jess - Thank you chick. I am grateful for all your lovely ladies honesty, I would never forgive myself if I went ahead with the job and something happened to me or Tyler Hope you are ok hun? xxx

 

[Laura2806]

That's true natt! Even though I sleep im still knackered

Gotta do what's best hunni xxx

 

[Excalibur]

That's true natt! Even though I sleep im still knackered

Gotta do what's best hunni xxx

It's awful isn't it hun? Feel like I have been out binge drinking for the past few days!

That's very true hun, Karl's best friend said exactly the same to me today, got to think of mine and Tyler's health, stuff the jobcentre xxx

 

[Laura2806]

Yep and its only gonna get worse!! Lol

Stuff the jobcentre indeed

Well im making another cake today! That'll be 4wkends in a row I've made one! This ones for my nans birthday xxx

 

[sarahuk]

Laura - I have sent CV's out to countless amount of companies and I never hear back from any, took me by surprise that this Hotel actually got back to me! There are just no jobs out there whatsoever xxx

Pinky - Thank you chick xxx

Sarah - Is Matt being pressured too? I asked about the chemicals and the lady interviewing me said they don't use any harmful chemicals, what do they use to clean toilets etc then? I would have thought bleach was harmful? Woohoo for crosshairs!!!! xxx

My job interview went well all in all, I think she was pleased with the answers that I gave to her questions. I didn't get to tell her first that I was expecting as she just went into it, she showed me around the rooms then at the end she said you can start on Thursday as a Temporary Contract and see how I get on, at the end, I told her I was expecting and she said she needed to speak to someone and then get back to me, said she'll probably still see me on Thursday, it does seem like very hard work! You have to clean a bedroom and en suite bathroom in half an hour and you get 15 bedrooms a day! If you leave as much as a hair on the floor, you have to do it again! Involves a lot of bending and you have to clean the bathroom floor on your hands and knees

If they force you into doing it natt then go for one day then maybe tell them you cant do the work physically with the pregnancy. I saw how hard my mate struggled with an office job when pregnant let alone a physical one like this.

He hasnt been pressured so far but Im thinking its coming. Mind you, we dont mind because its been ahrd finding him work lately and hes so bored at home so hes said he will even stack shelves

x

 

[sarahuk]

Ooo interview tell all!!

Pinky its def gonna be twins for you, I can fee it xxx

Thanks jess it really hurts keeping our fingers crossed for next week xxx

you can fee it???????????? Have i gotta pay for mine

Fee it...haha

I hope we dont have to pay...dunno about you ut ive already spent a small fortune on ttc since I started lol!!! x

 

[sarahuk]

Glad things are moving hun its about time! Lol tigers crossed for good news whatever it may be

Well ladies, I've now got an infected toe! Looks I growing but I had an op a few years back to prevent them, think my new found hormones could be causing my nails to grow quicker and thus back out to the sides and splinter it bloody hurts!!!

As for the house its looking like next week could be a goer xxx

I had ingrowing toenails and had them both operated on at same time - since then the otherside of the nail is causing problems and i have to keep them really short but if i dont cut them back every few weeks then it starts growing into the skin and i literally have to pull it out - pain!

I find it hard cos my boobs get in the way lol

Its not nice when it gets infected - the natural remedy is soak your feet in warm water with vinegar and rock salt - i pour tons of both in and soak for a good half hour

That sounds right relaxing...and I dont even have the toe probs...might still do this though!

 

[sarahuk]

im sorry, i dont mean this disrespectfully to you natt but i dont think the job centre should be making you apply for a job like that

Its one thing if it was giving a room a light dusting or something equally light but at 23 weeks preggy i think its terrible that they want you bending down, crouching, leaning over baths etc and 15 mins isnt long which means you will be aware of the time and slightly panicing about getting it done on time

how long do the jobcentre think you can do this for? until 10 mins before labour?

edit - im not saying preggyness is an illness - just that i dont think you should be made to do manual work like that

AGREE!!!

I think its well bad. Infact, id make a complain to your personal advisor about this if they do push you to do it. I think personally its disgusting that they would expect anyone pregnant to do this kind of job. Period.

 

[sarahuk]

see what happens and do what you think is best

I will do hun, thank you x

Id also get an appointment with my doc and ask them to write a letter of support to throw at the job center against physical jobs. Might help x

 

[sarahuk]

Hi ladies!

Hope youre all ok and having lovely weekends!!

Sorry ive been so quiet lately but I actually ended up being admitted to hospital with my gallbladder disease and was being put through assessment for surgery to remove it. As I wasnt an emergency (no blockage of the duct cos of the stones)...I gotta wait now for an outpatients departyment appointment.

Man...I hate to say these words but...I hope I didnt catch the egg this month. I ahd to have a lower abdominal xray done and since I was 4dpo I couldnt say there was a chance i was pregnant really. I told her i was trying and ovulated 4 days before but she went ahead anyway. I hope it doesnt do damage to eggs if I did happen to catch it.

Sods law..this will be the cycle I catch it after the xrays...my body craves trouble and dramas lol

xx

 

[Pinky32]

Glad things are moving hun its about time! Lol tigers crossed for good news whatever it may be

Well ladies, I've now got an infected toe! Looks I growing but I had an op a few years back to prevent them, think my new found hormones could be causing my nails to grow quicker and thus back out to the sides and splinter it bloody hurts!!!

As for the house its looking like next week could be a goer xxx

I had ingrowing toenails and had them both operated on at same time - since then the otherside of the nail is causing problems and i have to keep them really short but if i dont cut them back every few weeks then it starts growing into the skin and i literally have to pull it out - pain!

I find it hard cos my boobs get in the way lol

Its not nice when it gets infected - the natural remedy is soak your feet in warm water with vinegar and rock salt - i pour tons of both in and soak for a good half hour

That sounds right relaxing...and I dont even have the toe probs...might still do this though!

its good if youve got a bit of hard skin or just to freshen your feet

 

[Pinky32]

Hi ladies!

Hope youre all ok and having lovely weekends!!

Sorry ive been so quiet lately but I actually ended up being admitted to hospital with my gallbladder disease and was being put through assessment for surgery to remove it. As I wasnt an emergency (no blockage of the duct cos of the stones)...I gotta wait now for an outpatients departyment appointment.

Man...I hate to say these words but...I hope I didnt catch the egg this month. I ahd to have a lower abdominal xray done and since I was 4dpo I couldnt say there was a chance i was pregnant really. I told her i was trying and ovulated 4 days before but she went ahead anyway. I hope it doesnt do damage to eggs if I did happen to catch it.

Sods law..this will be the cycle I catch it after the xrays...my body craves trouble and dramas lol

xx

im glad your home now xx

personally i think ff is wrong this month - i think you ov'd the next day or the day after

I know when i had my MRI scan earlier this year they told me that the egg would still be travelling (i think i was aorund 6dpo) and well hidden

Ive read of loads of pple that have had xrays, scans n operations and then afterwards they find out that they were preggy the whole time

i know you werent classed as an emergency but seeing as you were there, they should have just operated

I know what your like - dont worry about it until you get the letter

 

[Laura2806]

Lol it would be just your luck wouldn't it glad your home now tho and fingers crossed they get it sorted pre baby, an op is the last thing you want with a lil one!

I'm sure it wouldn't harm eggy this early on, as pinky said its sill traveling so tucked away. Fingers crossed either way xxx

And it all only gets more expensive! Worth every penny tho

My toes cleared up now so. Think it could have been just a bit of skin I caught more than anything. xxx

 

[Excalibur]

Laura - It sure is only going to get worse, the way I have been feeling this past week with not sleeping, I would probably have ended up collapsing! No energy whatsoever! Ooo do we get to see pictures of your nans cake? xxx

Sarah - I am so tempted to put a complaint in, I won't be seeing her now until the end of September as I have put myself onto a Confidence Course to get her off my back! I'll see her once after that as it's a 4 week course then I'll be going onto Income Support so all is good! Aww bless, it's only a matter of time before they start pressuring people, I don't blame him, it can sometimes get boring sitting at home all day but when you have no energy, you have no choice Ooo that's a good idea about the letter from my Doctor, thank you for that chick

Really glad to hear you are home and well now hun, as the other ladies have said, I'm sure little eggy will be safe this early on as it's still travelling. I had to have a CT scan when I got admitted to hospital when they thought I had a stroke and they just put a couple of really heavy apron things over my stomach so it wouldn't cause any damage xxx

 

[Laura2806]

Here's nan's cake
https://i852.photobucket.com/albums/ab82/laura_28_06/temporary-14.jpg

Decided to make a chocolate fridge cake too
https://i852.photobucket.com/albums/ab82/laura_28_06/temporary-13.jpg

That's not good, you need to look after you and Tyler! Try resting in the day or getting a mat/v shaped pillow xxx

 

[Excalibur]

Laura - Omg your cakes are beautiful! You sure are talented! Your nan is going to love it and yum yum, chocolate cake! *Licks lips*

I have tried resting during the day but I just can't sleep chick, need something to help me sleep otherwise I'm not going to have any energy xxx

 

[Laura2806]

Thanks hun she loved it!

Maybe ask your midwife at your next apt, see what she says. If she's no help try your gp. Xxx

 

[Excalibur]

Thanks hun she loved it!

Maybe ask your midwife at your next apt, see what she says. If she's no help try your gp. Xxx

You're welcome hun. I thought your nan would love it hehe

I am going to chick, can't keep going on like this with no energy xxx