We're all in this together!

Sorry to hear AF showed up, I too thought you were going to get that BFP. - How was your first day back at work btw?

No, still having it out with DH; and I am feeling sick because of it. He is renting at a new place right now, and his landlord told him that if I come down they are going to bump up his rent WTF - right? it's for a week even hotels don't start to charge more until friggen after 4 people. Grrrrrr, we are trying to get him into Canada. I understand that we need to save XXX however, if this means that I can't see him until October - I'm done. No more babies for me then, I will be 36 I still want to go back to school I figure that as long as I am 35 I will keep trying, and btw my cut off was 35 and I let it go for another year.

I am feeling that now he is taking those chances away from us. He is hoping to move out of there by the end of the month but I told him this summer I only had about 2 weeks this week was one, my daughter has two appointment that I have to drive her too and the first week of August. I made sure that I booked everything around my O date to make sure I can be with him then.

DH says that he was hoping I could come down for a month, I was like how did you figure, DD is off to college, I have to not only help her move in at the end of the month I have to take her there a week prior for her student card. At the beginning of that week as well she has to have her follow up with the oral surgeon, and that's 2 hour away 1 way. Oh and her college is an hour and 15 minutes. -.-

I am soo pissed; then he goes well you can stay with me during the winter I won't be at this place then. I was like noooooooo I can't my youngest daughter is due in January, plus I can't just be gone for 4 months from DD in college this is her first time away from home.

I am so upset and hurt, I wish I was informed of this before now. :cry:
 
Hope Work Went Ok Hun. x X x

Awww Sweetie Sorry To Hear Your Having A Hard Time. I Understand Where Your Coming From Though Because Your Girls Need You & Will Always Come First. Try Not To Give Up Hope Yet Hun Maybe You'll Be How To Make Plans To See Each Other Soon. x X x
 
Oh dear :( MEN...need a good slapping!

I understand why you are so frustrated hun. Dont give up on 36! Is it because of school that youve set yourself that limit?

Cant believe they want to charge for you being there a week...what a joke! Does he -have- to tell the landlord that you are there? x
 
No, but there are other people taking care of the grounds - per say, his landlord lives in florida; but this older guy chuck drives by once a day, picks up rent and her mail. etc...

Guess who is starting to get a tiny bit of ewcm :cry: Really!!!!!
 
I sometimes get it just after af too hun..im sure you still got time...go visit! You needs to catch that egg! Bugger the landlords friend...ill fly over and sit on him..that will keep him quiet a while! x
 
:happydance:

So it looks like im leaving to go at 7am, I won't reach there till 5pm.

So here's the question for all you ladies, this time should we BD everyday like we did last time, every other day or 2x's a day. :shrug:

We have been kind of wondering whether or not he has low :spermy: (love this guy) So I've been reading every other to help it rebuild, but dam I tell you it's hard to keep our hands off when you know your only getting some for 1 week, and haven't had any for 2 weeks (plus Oing always makes me well......wanting to put more quarter into the bull then the bull can hold) HAHAHAHAHAHA :haha:

anyhow, what do you think, we also have been using the pre-seed, if you have enough of the ewcm do you really need to use it? or is it the more the merrier... If he is low wouldn't some of them get lost in the joy ride.

Let me know what you think... :sleep: Night everyone!! I have a 10 hour drive and at least 15 whole minutes of the first round of the BD to do tomorrow. :winkwink:
 
I sometimes get it just after af too hun..im sure you still got time...go visit! You needs to catch that egg! Bugger the landlords friend...ill fly over and sit on him..that will keep him quiet a while! x

Just so you know I almost peed a little when I read that last part.
:D
 
thanks ladies! sarah hunni i've had it out with her several times, makes no difference!! :nope:

AF turned out to be spotting! nothing as yet today, not holding out much hope now though, no longer feel like im in, i know i am until the witch hits though.

Chasta hunni im glad youre going to see him! :happydance: Id go with daily, 2x is too much and you said yourself every other day is not enough! lol

have a safe journey hunni :flower: xx
 
Chasta Glad Your Going Hun, I Would Say The Same As Laura Hun, Once A Day. GL & Fx'd. x X x

Laura Hun, Well Just Have To Wait And See, Although I'm Secretly Hoping You'll Get Your BFP :D GL & Fx'd & If Worst Comes To Worst Hun, Where All In This Together. :D x X x
 
Hi ladies I met Jessica on another thread and would love to join you all

I'm cmc I just turned 30 and am TTC number 2.

My first pregnancy was so perfect. Got BFP first month of NTNP and she arrived Christmas Day 2010.

Started TTC number 2 in march and got BFP in April. Ended up being horrific ...just knew I was so sore from the start. Though it was all ok as a baby was seen in the womb but had a MC , then a week later I collapsed and that's when the ectopic was discovered.

I'm terrified about conceiving with only one tube......but I TTC last month as AF came back 11th June....bfn and AF arrived today so I'm cd1.....I'm ok with bfn for a while as I want my body to heal.......but I also am dying for my BFP!!
 
Hello Hun, I'm Glad You Joined. Awww Your LO Was Born Christmas Day How Sweet. My DD Was Born On Valentines Day, So Me & DF Don't Get To Ever Do Much Together But We Have A Lovely Candle Light Dinner In The Evening. :D lol. Awww Hun, Sorry To Hear Your TTC#2 Story So Far, I Totally Understand Why Your Terrified. Hun, Aww Hun, I Hope Everything Heals Nicely Soon & That You Get Your BFP & All Is Perfect. :D When Do You Normally Ovulate Hun (What CD) & How Long Are Your Cycle's? If You Don't Mind Me Asking. x X x
 
Because I've been on the pill for years nd got pregnant quickly I haven't had many cycles. Though I came off the pill in jan to TTC in march....so far cycles have been 26 to 29 days, mostly 28.

I did opk last month and it looked like O was cd15 so looks like I get AF on a Tuesday and O 2 Tuesdays later!!

Il use opk,s again this month!


Aww a wee valentine baby....that's nice!

How has your ttc2 journey been?
 
Hey! Welcome! :) sorry to hear of your ectopic and loosing a tube :( hope you heal quick and have a healthy pregnancy soon!

Still no AF here CD44 maybe? EWCM and BFN. Fed up now! Xx
 
:happydance:

So it looks like im leaving to go at 7am, I won't reach there till 5pm.

So here's the question for all you ladies, this time should we BD everyday like we did last time, every other day or 2x's a day. :shrug:

We have been kind of wondering whether or not he has low :spermy: (love this guy) So I've been reading every other to help it rebuild, but dam I tell you it's hard to keep our hands off when you know your only getting some for 1 week, and haven't had any for 2 weeks (plus Oing always makes me well......wanting to put more quarter into the bull then the bull can hold) HAHAHAHAHAHA :haha:

anyhow, what do you think, we also have been using the pre-seed, if you have enough of the ewcm do you really need to use it? or is it the more the merrier... If he is low wouldn't some of them get lost in the joy ride.

Let me know what you think... :sleep: Night everyone!! I have a 10 hour drive and at least 15 whole minutes of the first round of the BD to do tomorrow. :winkwink:

YAY!!! So happy that you are going! Please be safe on the car jourey hun.

Its hard to say about the sex frequency. On a personal level, you name it, we tried it lol. All I can say is that the three cycles I have conceived in my life, all three times we had sex every day through the window. The first and third we had atleast one day in that window when we went multiple times. This one with Alex, we were celebrating our anniversary and went on a bit of a f**k frenzy (forgive my french!) and went 4 times in the day 2 days before my ovulation :blush:

Bull...haha! God girl...I have to say..I LOVE YOU! LOL...you make me giggle so much!!

Ok serious questions aside...what makes you think he has low sperm count? There are things that you can have him take that will assist you with the spermies. For one, folic acid is good for men (I was so surprised to find this out!). Get him to also take a 1000mg vitamin c pill every day, and theres also something called Selenium (think that is how its spelled) that can also help make the sperm better quality.

Preseed is one of those things that doesnt harm ttc whether you have ewcm or not. I had no issues with the CM but we did try the preseed :P Its supposed to make things more sperm friendly and help it live longer/get on its way, so I dont think it will harm to use it. Id recommend not using the noted 3g application amount tho. I found that sooooo overkill. About 1g is a perfect dose if you find the 3g too much like swingling a cat in a carwash ^^

xx
 
thanks ladies! sarah hunni i've had it out with her several times, makes no difference!! :nope:

AF turned out to be spotting! nothing as yet today, not holding out much hope now though, no longer feel like im in, i know i am until the witch hits though.

Chasta hunni im glad youre going to see him! :happydance: Id go with daily, 2x is too much and you said yourself every other day is not enough! lol

have a safe journey hunni :flower: xx

Bollox...you said on FB there was no AF...Im going with an impending bfp! x
 
Hi ladies I met Jessica on another thread and would love to join you all

I'm cmc I just turned 30 and am TTC number 2.

My first pregnancy was so perfect. Got BFP first month of NTNP and she arrived Christmas Day 2010.

Started TTC number 2 in march and got BFP in April. Ended up being horrific ...just knew I was so sore from the start. Though it was all ok as a baby was seen in the womb but had a MC , then a week later I collapsed and that's when the ectopic was discovered.

I'm terrified about conceiving with only one tube......but I TTC last month as AF came back 11th June....bfn and AF arrived today so I'm cd1.....I'm ok with bfn for a while as I want my body to heal.......but I also am dying for my BFP!!

Nice to meet you hun and welcome!

Firstly, congrats on the wonderful christmas baby! How special!

Sorry to hear about your experiences with the ectopic :( I know just how devestating that is to go through..so I send my love to you.

I remember all too well that desire to get that bfp but wanting your body to heal too. Personally, we didnt wait the 3 months we were told, but then I am an eager beaver! You will know within your heart of hearts when is the right ime for you both physically and emotionally to start trying again. The most important thing is to let yourself grieve what you went through. I didnt and it just led to more problems. If you ever need to talk, were all in this together :hugs: x
 
My god...ladies..make this heat bugger off! I am so freaking fed up of it already. Laid on the bed atm and feel like im stuck to the top of it!!

Had a paed appointment today for Alex which went well! He is now confirmed 100% milk allergic and that he has severe reflux disease. But they are happy with the progress he has made with the allergy milk so there will be no invasive testing etc! So proud of my lttle trooper :D

AF is still in the building. Definitely feeling more relaxed about ttc no2 now. We saw so many sick children today waiting for chemo. Really hammers home about how short life can be and to not spend time worrying about non important things. Going to embrace whatever nature throws at me.

x
 
Sarah hunni I hope so!

Jess I totally missed your update, sorry hun, I did post on your journal though xxx
 

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