Here I see kids as young as 4 walking to school ALONE. When I spoke to Oh about it he did it was normal and everyone did it and I was just in utter shock. My OH thought I was mad for wanting to drive lo to school until a certain age (11 for example). He said I have to trust lo ... um I do, it's the freaks and weirdos out there I don't trust!
May I use this as an example? (And it isn't meant to attack you in anyway, but I thought your post was very representative of the concerns that have been expressed several times here.
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I absolutely understand your concern and fears, but what if I pointed out to you that the hard numbers (statistics of traffic mortality and obesity) showed you that your child is
more likely to be harmed by you not allowing them to walk to school?
There is real evidence now that our perception of "freaks and weirdos out there" and the choices we make to protect our children from this perceived threat is doing more real damage to them than the highly isolated incidences of abduction.
Our kids may be the first generation in centuries in which their life expectancies and standard of living will not surpass that of their parents. This is in great part due to the fact that they are significantly less active than we were at their age.
I am 37. I walked or rode my bike everywhere as a kid. So did all of my friends. Granted, I lived in a small town and everyone knew everyone, but it was very rare for anyone to get a ride to school.
My kids get driven practically everywhere, by contrast. Again, I cannot allow a 2- and 4-year old to navigate a city this size on their own as they'd be at huge risk from traffic. But I want my son to be able to walk to school by himself by the time he is in Grade 1. I want this for his health and his autonomy.
Driving him to school would impact his physical safety and health in two ways: it reduces his physical activity level and it creates a very real traffic danger zone right where small children are trying to cross the street to access the school grounds. We (my city) have had to put all sorts of traffic controls in place in school zones because of this.
So a very real health and safety risk has been created because we have collectively perceived a non-existent threat.