Louise88
Dd- ciara and ds- James
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I've just skimmed but these threads really are making me sad let me say it loud and clear
TWO YEAR OLDS ARENT BULLIED OR BRATTS!!
Seriously I just want to say just you wait!!! Maybe it's time to move up to the kid section as the language people use to describe tiny kids is really getting on my nerves!!
I understand that this is typical normal 2 year old behaviour but I think its more the point the mother sat back and watched her son do this, a child isn't going to know their not supposed to hit and push other kids unless their told if you let them get on with it and hit push whoever they want then they'll think that behaviour is acceptable which could potentially have them grow up to be bullies as they haven't been told hitting and pushing is wrong. So personally I do feel the mother of the boy should have said something to her son rather then watch him and let him feel that it's ok.
I can imagine 2 and 3 years being a difficult age and you can't stop your child from snatching, hitting, pushing etc. but all that behaviour needs addressed as and when they do it so they realise its wrong. I don't think anyone's trying to say that some 2/3 year olds are big bullies etc. it was just how she felt when her son got hit with the ball she felt her son had been bullied just like I felt my daughter had been bullied when she got pushed over its just a feeling and it can break your heart watching your child being hurt by another and the mother not doing anything about it.