awnmyown
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So the DH is a very laisse faire type fellow; he doesn't obsess about the future, just living life as it comes. You can imagine he pairs wonderfully with hype planner me.
We decided to start TTC after our September wedding and are in the TWW now. While I know there's a good chance this isn't our month, I'm seriously stressing about when to test and when to tell him.
I feel like I want to test by DPO-10 since that's the earliest we could see a positive. But I feel like if it is positive, I should tell the DH like right. Except if it's a CP and goes negative later, I don't want to break both of our hearts.
But I don't think I could hide that for another week before we get a true positive. And even then...what if it doesn't work?? Maybe I shouldn't tell him until like 2 months??
The other thought I'm struggling with, is do I tell him I'm going to test and we wait in anticipation together, or do I not tell him and then he misses out on the wait if it's positive??
Seriously. I don't know why all of this bugs me so much. It just feels like the whole testing and positives/negatives is 100% in my court...and that doesn't feel fair!
So ladies, what did you do, and did it work with your man?? He probably doesn't even care how he finds out, just that it's positive and sticks around Typical woman, over thinking it all
We decided to start TTC after our September wedding and are in the TWW now. While I know there's a good chance this isn't our month, I'm seriously stressing about when to test and when to tell him.
I feel like I want to test by DPO-10 since that's the earliest we could see a positive. But I feel like if it is positive, I should tell the DH like right. Except if it's a CP and goes negative later, I don't want to break both of our hearts.
But I don't think I could hide that for another week before we get a true positive. And even then...what if it doesn't work?? Maybe I shouldn't tell him until like 2 months??
The other thought I'm struggling with, is do I tell him I'm going to test and we wait in anticipation together, or do I not tell him and then he misses out on the wait if it's positive??
Seriously. I don't know why all of this bugs me so much. It just feels like the whole testing and positives/negatives is 100% in my court...and that doesn't feel fair!
So ladies, what did you do, and did it work with your man?? He probably doesn't even care how he finds out, just that it's positive and sticks around Typical woman, over thinking it all