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everdreaming
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I felt like a mom when I could feel my daughter move. It was more real for me and I started to develop a relationship with her. I would pat her bottom in utero (She always shoved it under my ribs and it stuck way out) to sooth her. It still works.
My daughter was born the end of January, she was 3 weeks when she had her first Valentines Day. I got her a card, because I'm sentimental and that's just what I do. I signed it "M" because I felt so WEIRD calling myself "Mom."
It's like when you get married and you say "husband" for the first few times. The label is odd, but it does not change how you feel.
If you do not get a Mothers Day card, consider buying one for your baby and writing him/her a note explaining why this card spoke to you, how being a mom makes you feel, and how these words helped to capture the kind of mom you aspire to be for your little one. This day is to celebrate the greatest bond that you will ever have with anyone, you have the right to celebrate that as well.
That's a really beautiful idea I think I'll do that!!
I'm grateful for all your replies, on both sides