Belle, I get your point of view. We are all in different situation and so different things excite, make us happy or annoys us or makes us angry. I agree that I dont think counting losses should be done, but I feel counting how many got bfp should be ok. You do see all the announcements anyway. I dont think it should be putin the subject, as in the name of the thread, just on the list where all the names are and behind each name that gets bfp so the ppl who like to know, like to see or check if someone they have been following has goten their bfp and has a bfp after their name. And it makes the persons who do not care, who it makes them feel bad can ignore cause they dont have to see the first page all the time.
And I so do understand what you are doing Roschey, it has given me comfort too. I know I should just be happy and enjoy being pg but when you have so litle symptoms and had a loss and not long ago you kind of do all you can do to make it seem real, to make it seem ok cause we dont realy ever know how things will go, even if we get over the 12 weeks. If tww is long, how about waiting 3-4 weeks after AF should show to get a viability scan or 12 weeks for a scan (dont know the english word for it)... it is hard. I would love love love to feel calm and just ravel up in being pg, but I cant. My mind is always racing to what ifs, is something going bad now, why dont I feel this and that and so on. I am trying not to worry, but it is hard. Like where I live, they usualy dont due beta tests, unless maby you are in infertility treatment. And if I would go have my blood checked I would not get results as quick as many here do, read it takes 2-3 days. Here it is take home pregnancy test and then order a scan and midwife apointment. If everything does not work out and you start to bleed or something before the scan then you just cancel the appointment.
And so I answer you, I think they are similar the lines, maby tad darker the top one, but it looks like there might be something wrong with the die in the middle of the line, like it didnt fully take there.