babycrazy1706
Mummy to Elijah and TTC
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there probably wont be many of us, but.....
do you worry that if you meet a white guy and have a long term relationship with him it would be unfair for your child/ren to be raised in a totally 'white environment'
especially when there is only one child (like mine) would it be confusing being a mixed-race child living with 2 white parents? feeling so different and 'the odd one out'
i also then think if we went on to have more kids, elijah would feel even more 'different'
it makes me want to meet another black or mixed race guy so elijah's cultural/ethnic needs are more incorporated, mums with mixed race kids will understand me more, but welcome comments from everyone, or if you have experience with growing up as a mixed race child yourself etc. thanks
just one of my many worries as a mother!!!
do you worry that if you meet a white guy and have a long term relationship with him it would be unfair for your child/ren to be raised in a totally 'white environment'
especially when there is only one child (like mine) would it be confusing being a mixed-race child living with 2 white parents? feeling so different and 'the odd one out'
i also then think if we went on to have more kids, elijah would feel even more 'different'
it makes me want to meet another black or mixed race guy so elijah's cultural/ethnic needs are more incorporated, mums with mixed race kids will understand me more, but welcome comments from everyone, or if you have experience with growing up as a mixed race child yourself etc. thanks
just one of my many worries as a mother!!!