I'm so very upset. is peaking its head out today and I'm so sad I was so sure I was pregnant, I could have bet on it. I had a miscarriage in october and have been trying since. I have been checking my cm and this past month I have been checking my cervix. The past 2 month I think I have been ovulating on cd 18 but just to make sure I am going to temp this month. What is everyone else doing to check ovulation? I would also like to try for a girl so it does make it harder. Anyone else out there doing the same things?