Who's ttc no.2, who's with me? 4 BFP's!

[5_Year_Plan]

Fingers crossed for u mrs W xx

 

[Mrs W 11]

Thanks 5 year. Sadly though my spotting turned red today. I think af is here. Gutted. I hadn't realised how much I had riding on this cycle, I'm feeling so gutted and still such a short lp, I'm only 10 dpo today.

How are you getting on 5 year? X

 

[5_Year_Plan]

Oh no sorry to hear that mrs W

Not too sure where I am in my cycle really, I only go by CM & it's been a bit hit & miss as there seemed to be lots of EWCM in the week, then none yesterday but a bit more cm this evening again so maybe I still haven't o'd... Who knows, but we've BD'd every 3 days this week & will prob up it to every other from now onwards. I don't want it to feel forced though, which is why we've only done every 3rd so far- plus we'll be due right around Xmas if we catch this month so there are reasons it might be best if we don't... Just trying not to get too worked up over it- easier said than done huh? Lol

I think if AF arrives this month I'll get some ebay opks so I can work out whether I'm even ovulating or not.

Xxx

 

[Mrs W 11]

I know what you mean, a Christmas due date wouldn't have been ideal for us either as I'd like to try for a vbac and with no family close, care for our dd would have been trickier. Plus with a January edd we get to relax and be waited on all Christmas as we'll be heavily pregnant!!

I'm going to order a load more opks today too. I think keeping it relaxed is perfect, I wish I could!! X

 

[5_Year_Plan]

Ha ha about being waited on! Lol

I'm feeling blue today for no real reason, I've got back & thigh ache & have no idea what's going on, as I'm not sure whether or not I ovulated & so can't symptom spot & just feeling generally lost

How are you doing mrs w? Is it AF for sure? I know people say that some people bleed all through pg but I think you tend to know if it's that or AF... When will you test to be sure?

I think I'll test on the 16th as we have a spa day booked for then & it'd be good to know for that, although that would be 2 weeks if I o'd early like I think I may have, but too early if I o'd when my app says I should this wed.

The thing is your cycles change after each pg don't they? & the app is going by my cycles between pregnancies as it's first cycle after mc so who knows what's really going on!! Ugh.

Sorry for the self pitying rant!! Hope you're all doing well & thinking of you mrs w in particular xx

 

[anniecrock]

Mrs W - I'm sorry...is it definitely AF? Hope not!!

And 5 Year Plan...hang in there and big hug to you. Don't apologize for your "rant" - we all got to do it sometimes!!

 

[Mrs W 11]

Yes it's definitely af, it's been really heavy and horrible thanks for thinking of me 5 year. Sorry you feel down, me too to be honest. I had completely underestimated how hard ttc after a loss would be. It's very hard to be relaxed or stop yourself worrying and analysing.

Hopefully our bfps are not far away x

 

[littlelotti1]

Sorry Mrs w! Hope we all get some BFPs soon!

 

[5_Year_Plan]

sorry you're feeling rubbish mrs.w

I tested this morning & got bfn, but trying not to lose hope yet- I think the day I was low & emotional was actually the day I ovulated so I could be only 7dpo so hopefully it's just too early to show up on a test or to have lots of symptoms.

I'm having back ache, sore boobs/nipples on & off & some pains/cramping feeling like AF is on the way... Which it could be but fingers crossed it's not!! Lol

Either way I'm going to enjoy my spa day tomorrow then worry about testing again later.

Hope you're feeling a bit better mrs.W & that this is the cycle for you!
It's so heartbreaking to think "what if" about last time isn't it but it obviously wasn't meant to be so when it happens it will all be perfect (this is what I keep telling myself! Lol)

Xxx

 

[Mrs W 11]

Thanks ladies. Cd11 today so getting closer to ov now (usually cd19). I'm just feeling more upset the closer my edd gets (23 July). I assumed I'd be pregnant again by then, now I'm scared I won't be. There's a girl at work due 29 July and its hard seeing her big bump, knowing that's how pregnant I should be too.

I really hope we get a few bfps on this thread soon. Keep us posted 5 year!! How has your cycle been?

X

 

[5_Year_Plan]

I think timing has been bang on actually, although confusing as my body was giving fertile signs for a whole week which is unlike me. Maybe it's true what they say about being more fertile after mc? Doesn't make it any more likely to get pg I don't think as I almost missed ov altogether, or may have done, because I thought surely it must have already happened!! But got more EWCM & sensitive smell than I ever had before the day before I was due to O so that sounds about right. We BD'd that night as well as previously so hopefully caught it, but got I'll after that so couldn't keep going as per the 'plan'

Since then I've had hardly any symptoms other than a back ache & slightly tender boobs & some aching. I had AF-like aches last night so wonder if that could be implantation but as I wasn't sure when I o'd it was hard to track symptoms. I'm kinda less stressed having got a BFN as it has made me reset my dpos to agree with my ticker & everything seems to make more sense now... So hoping I have had implantation & will get more symptoms & a BFP shortly, but as you know AF could just as likely arrive so will see.

I am a bit concerned that if I'm not pregnant I've had back ache & cramping for a long while though so hope it's not that there's anything wrong :/ the dr checked my ovaries for cysts when I was in for the mc & said all was well so fingers crossed it'll be good news not bad.

My deadline is end of June as that's when my niece/nephew is due & I'd like to be pg before then but EDD was oct 1st so I've got a while till then. I really hope it doesn't take that long.

Hopefully this month will be your month mrs.w.

Babydust to all

Xxx

 

[tigerlilly]

Hi how's everyone doing? I finally got a pos opk on cd 28 but have signs of af approaching i'm guessing sun or mon. it's only been a few months of trying but it's already becoming quite testing! What I give to get a bfp in a short time frame but being realistic we're proberly looking at another long haul of ttc. I'm looking at stopping ttc when i'm 42 so in a year from now.

I hope everyone is well, sending lots of love and hugs to those who need it x

 

[Mrs W 11]

How many dpo are you now tigerlilly?

Could your dr help? I know they say to visit the gp after trying fr only 6 months with no luck once you are over 35 so if you go next month and say its been 5-6 months hopefully they will get the ball rolling to help you?

It's very hard as the months roll by and everyone else in your threads and things get their bfps. Keep believing though, it will happen for you and all of us

I should ovulate early next week I think.

How's it going 5 year?

 

[5_Year_Plan]

Bfn again for me this morning 10dpo, hoping it's still too early but not feeling pg overly so who knows

Xxx

 

[Mrs W 11]

Could def be too early yet Hun! I usually implant around cd10 and no bfp until 14 dpo xx

 

[Eskimobabys]

Hey ladies, I'm ttc #2 I have pcos so that makes things difficult I got off bcp March and I'm not putting much Faith in this month being it but I will be juice fasting and taking femara next cycle whenever that is so excited!

 

[5_Year_Plan]

Hi Eskimo what's juice fasting?

Thanks mrs.w

Xxx

 

[Eskimobabys]

Hi Eskimo what's juice fasting?

Thanks mrs.w

Xxx

Juicing fresh fruits and vegetables and only drinking them instead of eating for a period of time. If you have Netflix watch fat sick and nearly dead its a great documentary.

 

[5_Year_Plan]

Think this is AF...

Ok on to the next month! & I now think my luteal phase is 12 days, so should help me plan a bit better

Anyone else got better news than me?

Xx

 

[yazzy]

Hi ladies,
Can I join your group please?
I am now ttc #2. My LG will be 2 next month and I'd really like to be pregnant by August this year.
I have really long cycles though so it's always a long wait to try each cycle. I had a mmc before my daughter so fingers crossed this time will happen a little quicker