Wicked Witch has arrived!! TTC BUDDIES - *1st BFP Confirmed!*

[messymommy]

Today it's nearly 1pm and I'm still in my pajamas! I ate leftover chinese food from last night and I'm still all alone as Gage stayed a second night with his sister. I have cleaned a little bit around the house but not much. ONe of my dogs has killed a rabbit in the backyard so I have been disgusted to let them out to potty since they are going over to it to eat it. That's not going to be picked up until Mike gets home from work tonight. *gagging* I'm going to go wrap the Christmas gifts before Mike comes home tonight as well.

As for AF time, I always have 1-2 days of spotting before it gets started in full flow and then I have 3-4 days of bleeding and another day of spotting. You ladies are lucky if you ask me but if that's not your normal and you're gettin BFNs too I'd go to the doctor to see if there's any problems.

 

[Saradavies89]

Im going to leave mine for a bit cz it my first proper period with no pill so mines prob just egetting rid of all the old crap lol xxx

 

[carlyjade86]

I'll be going if its not an actual flow this mth.
Haven't been heavy since my implant was out, but it would last 3 days - not a day of only blood when wiping... And I know that was definitely my AF due to my temp patterns! Hopefully its just been the pressure of ttc that's affected me and this mth it will be back to myself!

Well, just sent the men of the house out for chinese food. McD's and Chinky - all in 1 day!! I deserve to be a chunka

 

[messymommy]

I just realized I have been needing to eat sweet gerkins since the day before I Oed. I'm sure it's just a kick i'm on but I'm not normally a big pickle eater so thought I'd tell you guys just in case it means something of can be linked as a helper in some way if I were somehow to get a BFP this round. I don't need to read into it. I get on kicks with things all the time.

 

[carlyjade86]

Well, like clock work, I have bloody CM on my tissue. No cramping, no draggin feelin, nothing. Diddley squat! Really hoping it turns into a proper flow tho.... Not just this stuff! Had the same box of regular Lil Let's for the past 3 cycles! This is the 4th and only 3 r missing... I knew it wasn't this mth. We didn't put the shift it! But with the nausea and the tuggin, it did plant a little seed of hope. This is my 12mth I've just realised. We've hit our 'year' long milestone and still nothing.
I know I got Els and I'm super grateful for him as I know there are those who'd kill to have what I got... I should stop sulkin based on that alone! But I feel bad for Tom coz he hasn't got what I got. He loves Els yes, but must be so hard for him not having 1 of his own, from his seed. I dnt know how I'd cope if the shoe was on the other foot. Aww maaaan

 

[Bean66]

Hey ladies, sorry not been around and a little behind with posts. I'll catch up later or tomorrow.

Carly sorry the witch got you. And sorry if I added to you getting your hopes up. I hope it's a normal AF for you.

Maybe pop and have a chat with the doctor. Does Tom take any supplements? it's possible it's a male factor issue. Or it maybe just you've been unlucky and it'll happen soon. Either way I am sure you'll get your BFP eventually. 90% conceive within 2 years.

Big

 

[carlyjade86]

Thanks Rach, and don't be silly. U didn't say anything my own head wasn't telling me! Lol.
Tom takes his Zinc but that's all... After Xmas I think he'll go to the Drs. Will crush him if it is him tho... I dnt know how I'd cope with it. It was him who wanted the baby. He knew at 4 weeks togetha that I was the 1 he wanted to have babies with. It wud break his heart!
I know its a game of luck (or unluck, dependant on circumstances!).
Aw I dunno... My NT mth was going so well until I came back on this site! Lol. Obsession got the better of me once again! Debating taking a break from it and totally putting ttc to the back of my mind? For a bit at least...

I'm gonna give the Drs a ring Monday and get in to see 1 and see what she says!

So this is me signing off, for a little bit anyways! Would like to keep in touch with u Rach and u Messy! So I'll PM u's my FB so feel free to add! I'll neeeeed to know when u both get ur BFPs my original ttc buddies! Lol.

Good luck all!!! Xxxx

 

[Bean66]

Oh Carly I really am sure you'll get your baby. There is a trend here at moment about couples with no problems taking a while. It will happen. I think we came to the conclusion that rather than spending money on OPKs, softcups, FF, Conceive plus it'd make more sense to save the money and go on a relaxing holiday during your fertile time.

Even if there is male factor, there is so much that can be done to help increase sperm count.

I'll add you to FB would really like to stay in touch. Even if we don't mention TTC.

 

[carlyjade86]

Thanks Rach. I won't be gone forever. Just need a couple of mths of no tryin and no hoping! That u for the link. I'm gonna have a little browse now.
I know we'll get there eventually, its just hard as I didn't expect it to take this long! Not when it didn't the 1st time...

Hope next time I sign on I get some good news from u all!! Xx

 

[messymommy]

Sorry about AF Carly. I hope it's a normal one this time for you though.

 

[2012Hoping]

hi ladies, just wnated to check in, had my d and c yesterday and they did an ultrasound again before and there was nothing but the sac. Im gunna leave for a while probably. Wanted to wish everyone good luck and best wishes!

 

[Bean66]

Hi Hoping, sorry again about the MS. Best of luck for the future.

 

[messymommy]

Hi, How is everyone today? This thread is pretty quiet.

 

[Bean66]

I'm good thanks messy. DH and I had a lovely day, went to a museum and ice skating and dinner. Just waiting. At the mo 5dpo, trying not to SS. Just hoping for a reasonable length LP.

How are you?

 

[messymommy]

I'm good thanks messy. DH and I had a lovely day, went to a museum and ice skating and dinner. Just waiting. At the mo 5dpo, trying not to SS. Just hoping for a reasonable length LP.

How are you?

I'm doing good. I had a rough afternoon yesterday with the DD's drama. Got that figured out and it was apparently a misunderstanding on my part. Glad to have that straightened out though. Went to the dentist and need a filling now. Gage on the other hand who never brushes his teeth doesn't need anything! So unfair, LOL! Now today I'm going to go pick up our family pictures from a few weeks ago and then grocery shopping. I gave into myself and tested early, BFN of course. I'm only 10dpo but I've seen positives on FF charts with BFPs around this time but not for me. Oh well, nothing I can do about it so not going to stress on it. If I am not there's always next month but still wish it was even a faint one

 

[ashknowsbest]

So I haven't posted here in a while, I hope everyone is doing good. I've been in the TWW and then got a bfn and then I've just been waiting to O so nothing exciting going on here.

I had a quick question about how the cervix is supposed to be close to O. Is it supposed to be high, low ? Soft hard ? If anyone can help me I would really appreciate it.

Thanks in advance! I hope everyone is doing good and staying patient!

 

[Bean66]

So I haven't posted here in a while, I hope everyone is doing good. I've been in the TWW and then got a bfn and then I've just been waiting to O so nothing exciting going on here.

I had a quick question about how the cervix is supposed to be close to O. Is it supposed to be high, low ? Soft hard ? If anyone can help me I would really appreciate it.

Thanks in advance! I hope everyone is doing good and staying patient!

Hey Ash! Sorry for delayed reply.

SHOW when you O! Soft, High, Open and Wet.

What CD are you now?

 

[Bean66]

I'm good thanks messy. DH and I had a lovely day, went to a museum and ice skating and dinner. Just waiting. At the mo 5dpo, trying not to SS. Just hoping for a reasonable length LP.

How are you?

I'm doing good. I had a rough afternoon yesterday with the DD's drama. Got that figured out and it was apparently a misunderstanding on my part. Glad to have that straightened out though. Went to the dentist and need a filling now. Gage on the other hand who never brushes his teeth doesn't need anything! So unfair, LOL! Now today I'm going to go pick up our family pictures from a few weeks ago and then grocery shopping. I gave into myself and tested early, BFN of course. I'm only 10dpo but I've seen positives on FF charts with BFPs around this time but not for me. Oh well, nothing I can do about it so not going to stress on it. If I am not there's always next month but still wish it was even a faint one

Hey Messy. Glad you sorted everything with DD. I hate misunderstanding.

Grrrrrr to dentists. Sorry you have to have a filing. I am sure there is a genetic factor to tooth decay.

Sorry about the BFP but as you say it is still very early. Fingers crossed for you!

 

[ashknowsbest]

So I haven't posted here in a while, I hope everyone is doing good. I've been in the TWW and then got a bfn and then I've just been waiting to O so nothing exciting going on here.

I had a quick question about how the cervix is supposed to be close to O. Is it supposed to be high, low ? Soft hard ? If anyone can help me I would really appreciate it.

Thanks in advance! I hope everyone is doing good and staying patient!

Hey Ash! Sorry for delayed reply.

SHOW when you O! Soft, High, Open and Wet.

What CD are you now?

I'm CD 17 now so I'm expecting my temp to rise sometime tomorrow or CD 19 because that's when FF said I Oed last time ...
Like I said before I'm not having any EWCM or watery ..it's still minimal and when there is some it's sticky. Unless it's hiding like you said ... =\ but I did use preseed ...

I don't know if the medicine I'm on dostinex has anything to do with that but I'm just hoping everything will turn out ok.

My RE told me and OH to BD every other day from CD 12 - CD 20 so we've been doing that ... all I can do it keep my fingers crossed and hope for the best =D

 

[Bean66]

Keep bding. If you reach CD20 and no temp rise keep going.

Not sure about affects of meds. Usually even if EWCM is hiding you wont have sticky too.

I think maybe you'll notice CM changes in the next day or two and O CD20.

Good luck!