Wicked Witch has arrived!! TTC BUDDIES - *1st BFP Confirmed!*

[Bean66]

Oh Carly. What brought that on. C word is not nice. Love you starfish idea. I'd also drink wine in bed!

What is with these men. They day we're the emotional ones!!

Hoping - so pleased to hear he's calmed down and ready to start a family. That's great.

 

[carlyjade86]

I'm not really sure to be honest... It started coz I told him I'd paid the money back into the joint account that I used when my bank card broke for my account. And he went off on one sayin I can't "sort my money out and keep my mitts out of the joint account" so I said "my card broke so its not nothing to do with sortin my money out - so u can wind ur neck in" and he lost it from there. Effin this and effing that. Then called me the C word so I said "if ur respect for me is that low u can call me that, then get out of my life. Don't know who u think u r"

Then a hour or so later I got a txt sayin he wouldn't be coming home and is giving me a couple of days as he can't stand not knowin where he is. 1 min I want a baby, the next I want him out my life. Not pandering to his tantrums. If he wants to go, he can.

Its like havin a girlfriend....

How u feelin now Rach? Better I hope x

 

[Bean66]

Let him stew in peace. You're doing the right thing not pandering to him. He shouldn't be calling you names like that for no real reason. He's maybe taking his emotions of losing his dog on you but still, he needs to respect you.

I'm ok thanks. Had coffee with a friend and her baby. Didn't talk to her about it though. Just very confused and disappointment but thinking maybe I did ovulate on cd19 but still in with a chance. Just gotta wait it out I suppose. If not AF in 3 days will do HPT and if negative just have to accept that I missed ovulation. It's all so frustrating isn't it?

You take care hun.

 

[Saradavies89]

O god girls its all going, i was in the same boat sat night carly we had a major row cz i wanted to go hme early frm a party cz i had wrk in the morning n i was tierd, so i got called a effing bore since hes been with me we never go out our life is crap and all the rubbish tht cums out of ther mouths he dosent love me he dosent like me mum so i left and god did he come running bk after me dwn the street told him straight nt having it anymre if he ever says anythin like tht again it stays tht way n ther will b no forgiving. grrrrrr dnt lad do ya headin bloody mupets rnt they xxx

 

[2012Hoping]

Hi ladies, how is everyone doing? Im beyond done with men lol. but thats alright.

My guys keeps going back and forth and its bugging the poop outta me! last night he wanted to chat but didnt even come home till midnight and I was beyond sleeping. I even said to him if you want to chat come home at a decent time!

But im sure you guys have heard enough of this.. lol

Anyone close to testing? I forgot to do the dishes last night walked into the kitchen this morning and just about gave everything in my stomach up! havent really been sick otherwise which is nice!

 

[carlyjade86]

Men truely are knobs. Haven't spoke to Tom. He came home but we ignored each other. Its draining!

Sorry u 2 girls r having men trouble too

Yea, bean n messy! Have thou got any good news yet?

The witch has left me already.

 

[2012Hoping]

Men truely are knobs. Haven't spoke to Tom. He came home but we ignored each other. Its draining!

Sorry u 2 girls r having men trouble too

Yea, bean n messy! Have thou got any good news yet?

The witch has left me already.

That witch didnt last very long!

 

[messymommy]

Men truely are knobs. Haven't spoke to Tom. He came home but we ignored each other. Its draining!

Sorry u 2 girls r having men trouble too

Yea, bean n messy! Have thou got any good news yet?

The witch has left me already.

Nope, took a cheapy this morning since my temp hasn't started to really fall yet and it was another BFN.

 

[Bean66]

Hey all,

Sorry your men are being duffus's! Stupid men don't know how lucky they are.

Messy - Sorry BFN, Still got my fingers crossed for you though, you're not out yet.

Hoping - Does he not get that the baby's not a option now and he needs to man up and support you? You want me to come and beat him with a stick? Only joking I'm not a violent person.

Carly - That was a very short visit. You gonna see the doctor? I'm sure everything is ok though so don't worry. How are you feeling otherwise?

I've accepted that my cycle messed up again and I didn't actually ovulate until CD27 so completely and utterly missed that egg. Really want AF to hurry up BUT want a decent length LP. Means this cycle will be around 40days long! So frustrating. Last cycle was 28days the one before that 54 days. BUT at least I've ovulating and I wont be conned into missing that egg again. Not feeling so down now. Sent my DH an email of all the positives of not getting a BFP this month to make us feel better.

 

[2012Hoping]

Hey all,

Sorry your men are being duffus's! Stupid men don't know how lucky they are.

Messy - Sorry BFN, Still got my fingers crossed for you though, you're not out yet.

Hoping - Does he not get that the baby's not a option now and he needs to man up and support you? You want me to come and beat him with a stick? Only joking I'm not a violent person.

Carly - That was a very short visit. You gonna see the doctor? I'm sure everything is ok though so don't worry. How are you feeling otherwise?

I've accepted that my cycle messed up again and I didn't actually ovulate until CD27 so completely and utterly missed that egg. Really want AF to hurry up BUT want a decent length LP. Means this cycle will be around 40days long! So frustrating. Last cycle was 28days the one before that 54 days. BUT at least I've ovulating and I wont be conned into missing that egg again. Not feeling so down now. Sent my DH an email of all the positives of not getting a BFP this month to make us feel better.

To be honest i dont think he really does get that its not an option.. cause u know the other option... but thats not an option

 

[carlyjade86]

Aw Rach, sorry u missed ur egg. But there's plenty of time!

I thought I was feeling ok til I let rip on a woman in B&Q!! I was given a £10 bonus bond today from work as I was 'recognised' by my co-workers for the support I give. So checked the bonusbond website and says accepted in B&Q so thought 'right. That Rose curtain pole from B&Q is mine!!" Well, the woman argued and argued that they didn't take them and I showed her the website and she said 'I've been here 19yrs and we do not take them" - I said "well, u better ring them and tell them then!!" She said "u can ring them if u want" - "excuse me, love (yes. I called her love) but I am the customer not the employee so I will not be ringing anybody apart from maybe ur manager!!" She said "so u don't want the pole then?" - "u don't even want me to tell u what u can do with that pole!!" - and I stormed out, over a tenna. And I still don't have my pole!! Gonna have to go bk in diguise 2moro... - seriously wanted to wrap it round her head tho. And then I ended up popping in Next and buyin Elliot a quilted jacket which cost me £20 anyways... N they don't take bonus bonds either!! Lol.

Messy - ur not out yet!!

Hoping - I know. This is my problem. My flo requires nothing other than a PL and that lasts all day as it only shows on TP really, rather than in my knickers. Gonna see if it gets better now I've breaking from charting and if not, I'll get to the dr.

 

[Bean66]

Aw Rach, sorry u missed ur egg. But there's plenty of time!

I thought I was feeling ok til I let rip on a woman in B&Q!! I was given a £10 bonus bond today from work as I was 'recognised' by my co-workers for the support I give. So checked the bonusbond website and says accepted in B&Q so thought 'right. That Rose curtain pole from B&Q is mine!!" Well, the woman argued and argued that they didn't take them and I showed her the website and she said 'I've been here 19yrs and we do not take them" - I said "well, u better ring them and tell them then!!" She said "u can ring them if u want" - "excuse me, love (yes. I called her love) but I am the customer not the employee so I will not be ringing anybody apart from maybe ur manager!!" She said "so u don't want the pole then?" - "u don't even want me to tell u what u can do with that pole!!" - and I stormed out, over a tenna. And I still don't have my pole!! Gonna have to go bk in diguise 2moro... - seriously wanted to wrap it round her head tho. And then I ended up popping in Next and buyin Elliot a quilted jacket which cost me £20 anyways... N they don't take bonus bonds either!! Lol.

Messy - ur not out yet!!

Hoping - I know. This is my problem. My flo requires nothing other than a PL and that lasts all day as it only shows on TP really, rather than in my knickers. Gonna see if it gets better now I've breaking from charting and if not, I'll get to the dr.

Oh dear. I'm glad I wasn't her but then I hope I wouldn't be a moron like her! Hope you can get your pole tomorrow and nice one on the bonus. Good for you. Yeah I think a chill out is a good idea.

Hoping - You did say your were TTC not TTP. No offence but he has issues if he thinks that you can just have unprotected sex and not expect to get pregnant, then it's a simple of an abortion if he changes his mind. I know it can take a while for some but it also can take only once. He took responsibility by not wearing a condom and he can bloody well face the consequences, take some responsibility and support you. Sorry he's getting my wrath too. Good luck hun.

 

[2012Hoping]

so i sent him a long message saying that all i want is his love and support and nothing else!! and he said your really gunna do this without looking at the bigger picture!

WT* is that supposed to mean!

 

[carlyjade86]

He's a dickhead. Fact.
Sorry not very contructive, but he is.

 

[carlyjade86]

He's a dickhead. Fact.
Sorry not very contructive, but he is.

 

[ashknowsbest]

so i sent him a long message saying that all i want is his love and support and nothing else!! and he said your really gunna do this without looking at the bigger picture!

WT* is that supposed to mean!

So I've kinda been stalking this story of yours for a little bit and I just have some words of support for you.
First off - (I didn't read the whole story so I'm sorry if I have no all of the information) If you guys were trying then why is he so mad? He should accept it. I mean look at all of these ladies on here trying to get preggo and can't and you are and he can't even be happy about it.
Second off - You're going through a lot with pregnancy (emotions, the throwing up (if you're having any of that) so he should stop being a butthead and just be there for you.
Third - if he loves you, which I'm sure he does, he needs to just relax and share his worries with you. I'm sure he is worried because all guys get worried when they're OH or DW are expecting but jesus!!! He should talk to you about his feelings!

Anyways, he just annoying me and I'm not even you!
I hope everything works for you and congratulations on your pregnancy!

 

[Bean66]

He's a dickhead. Fact.
Sorry not very contructive, but he is.

Say it how it is! I like it!

Ash - nicely put! You live up to your name.

Hoping - I really don't know what to say to you. At the moment he is not showing himself in good light and if you weren't pregnant I'd be tempted to say run a mile you deserve better but you are. Did he know you were TTC? He has 4 children already doesn't he? So it's not a responsibility issue. As Ash says I am sure he loves you so try and talk to him. Maybe plan a time in a few days and ask him to think about everything and be ready to talk then so you're not putting him on the spot. Good luck girl.

 

[ashknowsbest]

So, I'm loving this thread because I seem to have a lot of the same issues tracking O as a lot of you so I have a quick question.

I used OPK's this month and I got a positive yesterday morning, and then I took another at 8:30 at night and it came back negative. I did another one this morning at 9:15 and then another at 1:30 and they were both positive. Just wondering if this is normal? Oh and I'm also using preseed for the first time this cycle and I had my HSG about 1 week and a half ago.

And we've been BDing A LOT! Even before the I got the positive OPK we were doing every other day. I hope I caught the egg ....

Fingers crossed for everyone and I'm definitely going to be checking this thread everyday ... I seem to be able to relate to most of you on here (except for the butthead OH's)

 

[Bean66]

So, I'm loving this thread because I seem to have a lot of the same issues tracking O as a lot of you so I have a quick question.

I used OPK's this month and I got a positive yesterday morning, and then I took another at 8:30 at night and it came back negative. I did another one this morning at 9:15 and then another at 1:30 and they were both positive. Just wondering if this is normal? Oh and I'm also using preseed for the first time this cycle and I had my HSG about 1 week and a half ago.

And we've been BDing A LOT! Even before the I got the positive OPK we were doing every other day. I hope I caught the egg ....

Fingers crossed for everyone and I'm definitely going to be checking this thread everyday ... I seem to be able to relate to most of you on here (except for the butthead OH's)

Hey - I just read your journal. Gonna be stalking you if you don't mind. You're having quite a journey. Hope visit with FS on the 7th goes well. I even more hope you get your BFP!

So OPKs - which ones are you using? IC's, digital etc?

The most likely explanation is your urine was too dilute in the evening so not enough Lh in you urine. Had you limited fluid and tried not to pee for 4 hours? Hard I know. They say once you get the first positive you can stop testing. SMEP is great. Unfortunately didn't work for me this month but that's because I missed ovulation. Do you check CP/CM. I find it really useful (ignore the fact that I failed miserably and missed ov - I blame FF).

I used conceive plus which is like preseed.

You bding tonight? Remember you may not ovulate until 48hours after your +OPK. You probably have but always worth the extra one.

I have a great DH too. Does make me appreciate him more.

 

[ashknowsbest]

So, I'm loving this thread because I seem to have a lot of the same issues tracking O as a lot of you so I have a quick question.

I used OPK's this month and I got a positive yesterday morning, and then I took another at 8:30 at night and it came back negative. I did another one this morning at 9:15 and then another at 1:30 and they were both positive. Just wondering if this is normal? Oh and I'm also using preseed for the first time this cycle and I had my HSG about 1 week and a half ago.

And we've been BDing A LOT! Even before the I got the positive OPK we were doing every other day. I hope I caught the egg ....

Fingers crossed for everyone and I'm definitely going to be checking this thread everyday ... I seem to be able to relate to most of you on here (except for the butthead OH's)

Hey - I just read your journal. Gonna be stalking you if you don't mind. You're having quite a journey. Hope visit with FS on the 7th goes well. I even more hope you get your BFP!

So OPKs - which ones are you using? IC's, digital etc?

The most likely explanation is your urine was too dilute in the evening so not enough Lh in you urine. Had you limited fluid and tried not to pee for 4 hours? Hard I know. They say once you get the first positive you can stop testing. SMEP is great. Unfortunately didn't work for me this month but that's because I missed ovulation. Do you check CP/CM. I find it really useful (ignore the fact that I failed miserably and missed ov - I blame FF).

I used conceive plus which is like preseed.

You bding tonight? Remember you may not ovulate until 48hours after your +OPK. You probably have but always worth the extra one.

I have a great DH too. Does make me appreciate him more.

The more stalkers the better!! More adivce!

I'm pretty sure I'm using IC's, they're definitely not digital. I get them from CVS and I'm going to attach a picture at the bottom of this for you to check out if you want. They're all there for the past 8 days except the ones from today ... I didn't take a picture of those ones. Oh and the ones I did this morning were both pos ... so that's weird.

Uhm, I'm trying to learn to check my CM but I'm finding it quite difficult because I can't really tell which one I'm actually having sometimes ... weird I know.
For example, today I'm having very watery CM and it's a tiny bit whitish in color. (TMI sorry) And a few days ago before my pos OPK I was having like lotion/creamy like CM.

Yeah we're going to BD tonight. I told him until I get a neg OPK we're going to keep on BDing .. and of course he's fine with that!

Happy to hear that you have a great DH. It really does make the whole process of TTC easier for us. If I didn't have his support I would go crazy. He listens to all of my crazy rants about OPK's and CM. Lol! (Even though I'm sure he doesn't want to sometimes)

How long have you been TTC if you don't mind me asking? And have you been diagnosed with anything or just unexplained?