Wishing, wanting, waiting.....TTC for a year PLUS!

[Titi]

I have post O temps the last two days....last night I was sick as a dog until this morning....the night before I slept an extra 2 hours later than normal,so i am sure that had something todo with my temps. Does anyone temp? Should I discard them?

Hi sweetie! Sorry am super busy and haven't been able to get on much, but yes-both those temps are unreliable. Your temp goes up and up and up the later you sleep in and also goes up when you aren't feeling well. You can use the temperature adjuster but I've never found it to be accurate-would just disgard.

 

[Titi]

Don't know if you girls have seen this before, but I am thinking of giving this letter to my family. I thought I would share it with everyone.

https://www.holisticperspectives.com/articles/shared_journey.htm

Amazing-I love it.

 

[soph77]

Kootchgirl, I can't watch that video, I can't find my headphones! Kids have moved them...
Julia I would just make a note of the different waking time and illness in the symptoms. FF will automatically disregard for you.
Lucie, I'm glad you had some good news Just what you need at Christmas time.
bbdreams, I am jealous of your snow days! It's getting really hot here and I have never seen the snow! It sucks that you would have to make up snow days, whoever made up that rule needs to be punished! I love that letter too.
I've just been enjoying my first few days of holidays and getting ready for our camping trip. 2 more sleeps!! I'm 8dpo and am trying not to test until I get back. I'm not taking my thermometer with me, gasp! I'll take heaps of photos and when I come back post some of the island for you

 

[tryforbaby2]

Kootchgirl, I can't watch that video, I can't find my headphones! Kids have moved them...
Julia I would just make a note of the different waking time and illness in the symptoms. FF will automatically disregard for you.
Lucie, I'm glad you had some good news Just what you need at Christmas time.
bbdreams, I am jealous of your snow days! It's getting really hot here and I have never seen the snow! It sucks that you would have to make up snow days, whoever made up that rule needs to be punished! I love that letter too.
I've just been enjoying my first few days of holidays and getting ready for our camping trip. 2 more sleeps!! I'm 8dpo and am trying not to test until I get back. I'm not taking my thermometer with me, gasp! I'll take heaps of photos and when I come back post some of the island for you

Thanks for the info! Have a great time and fingers crossed for a holiday bfp!

I have post O temps the last two days....last night I was sick as a dog until this morning....the night before I slept an extra 2 hours later than normal,so i am sure that had something todo with my temps. Does anyone temp? Should I discard them?

Hi sweetie! Sorry am super busy and haven't been able to get on much, but yes-both those temps are unreliable. Your temp goes up and up and up the later you sleep in and also goes up when you aren't feeling well. You can use the temperature adjuster but I've never found it to be accurate-would just disgard.

Thats ok! Thanks for the info, thats what I thought but wasnt too sure. I think I will discard them and see what FF has to say.
Hope you are doing well!!

 

[Titi]

Doing okay just busy with work and last minute holiday stuff. Nothing new to report! : )

 

[tryforbaby2]

me neither.....waiting to O.....made an RE appt but dh wants to reschedule for next month when hopefully our new insurance will cover it. We at least want an SA done to see if there is an issue or not, ya know. It sucks not knowing if there is something wrong or not.

As always Titi, thinking of you!!!


I hope everyone is doing ok. Moon, I hope you are well!!!

 

[tryforbaby2]

Soph......I see you have had spotting yesterday!!! I also noticed you havent had that lately!!! Awesome!!!

Good Luck Soph!!!!!

 

[soph77]

I've never had spotting before Julia!! Fingers crossed it means something and not just rough sex

 

[tryforbaby2]

Awesome!!! I hope it means something wonderful for you!!!!

Spotting =


Good Luck!!!

 

[honeybee28]

fx for you soph!xxx

 

[tryforbaby2]

I love you Em.

 

[honeybee28]

Love you too Jules. Can't wait til I can be cycle buds with you again.xxxxx

 

[tryforbaby2]

You are my BNB bestie and I really do love you. I have gotten to know you very well over the year (plus) we have been talking. We talk almost every day and nearly a few times a day on FB. I felt a blow to the heart when I seen what happened to you. Never in a million years would I have wanted a friend so near and dear to me to ever experience this. You and noodle are in my thoughts always xxoo

Have you had a scan to confirm? Maybe some hope.......

 

[honeybee28]

sorry hun, i should have told you, it's in my journal.... lost clots over night. had a scan. incomplete miscarriage, so it's dead but still in there. waiting to see if it comes out over the next few days, if not will take medication to induce it. Heartbroken. I'm so naive i know, but i never thought this would happen to me.

you are my bnb bestie too and i love you. i remember when you lost Jordan, i sobbed for about an hour. And it kills me that you're not knocked up again already. there is no fairness in this world.xxxxx

 

[tryforbaby2]

Em, I shouldve looked at your journal again before asking. Stupid me.

I know you dont want to hear sorry....but Em......this shouldnt have happened to you. You are amazing and wonderful and cheery and smart and kind.

No apologizes needed.

I was also very naive. I thought "I dont smoke,I eat pretty healthy, I exercise, I have a great relationship, healthy sex life, have it pretty good all the way around....there's no way it would ever happen to me".......It's BS, and seems so unfair. Why does it take sooooo long to gte pregnant and then this shit happens?????......As we seen in your journal from others....baby noodles was/is perfect and he will hang out up there with our angels and wait for a perfect body just for him to snuggle into. We WILL get our forever babies very soon. Support and Love is a nice cure to start with.

I couldnt deal with passing anything on my own. I hated waiting a whole day with Jordan gone inside me. Made me feel helpless

I am not sure if it will help you, but listening to sad music and looking through the mc support threads gave me big huge cries that actually helped. Just a thought. Have you thought of a way to memorialize him? (a name, a teddy bear, a poem, sonogram in a picture frame)......I just love you. This feeling sucks and it hurts so bad.

 

[honeybee28]

im crying enough without all that stuff, ive literally sobbed all night and all day. i realised what was happening to me at about 2am, it's a feeling i will never ever forget.
if i could know for sure i would get knocked up again straight away it would be easier, but what if we get to this time next year and im still not pregnant? how would i cope with that? I dont think i would.

i would have had a d and c given half a chance, but as im not an emergency case they dont have time to do it before christmas, and dh doesnt want me to have it unless i have to.

im putting all the tests i saved and the scan piccy in a box and hiding it away for now. Noodle will come back. its just a question of when.

thank you for your love and support.xxxxxx

 

[tryforbaby2]

im crying enough without all that stuff, ive literally sobbed all night and all day. i realised what was happening to me at about 2am, it's a feeling i will never ever forget.
if i could know for sure i would get knocked up again straight away it would be easier, but what if we get to this time next year and im still not pregnant? how would i cope with that? I dont think i would.

i would have had a d and c given half a chance, but as im not an emergency case they dont have time to do it before christmas, and dh doesnt want me to have it unless i have to.

im putting all the tests i saved and the scan piccy in a box and hiding it away for now. Noodle will come back. its just a question of when.

thank you for your love and support.xxxxxx

I dont know how to cope with not getting pregnant quickly after. In the same boat. I wish I knew so I could ease your pain. Due date next month......totally sucks. I will cheer you on to get pregnant super duper fast!!!!

D&C does have a big risk. I was told they may go through one side of my uterus and it will take away my chance of having a baby, and if my cervix scars after, havent been looked at since, but if it scars I wouldnt even be able to get pregnant again as I guess the scarring blocks the sperm from getting through. Its a big decision, but for me I had to get a D&C as they said Jordan cry was toxic to me since he was gone for so long inside me.

Everyone grieves differently love and you do what you need to do. We are all here for you. Any questions about mc's you may have, I will try my best to help.

 

[honeybee28]

oh GOD it SUCKS!!!!! You should be pregnant already, it's awful and unfair and an injustice that you're not

(to all the other WWW girls, im so sorry about dragging down the vibes in here, i will quiten down soon i promise).

It SUCKS IT SUCKS IT SUCKS. And they wont even let me go back to the FS, as I can 'get pregnant'. I have to either go for another year with no bfp, or have 3 mcs before they will see me again. im seeing the acu lady on saturday, and going straight back on the high protein, plenty of water diet from tomorrow.

xxxxxx

 

[soph77]

Emily I am absolutely gutted for you. Gutted. There are no words I can say that will make you feel better I just want to you know, plain and simple, that I love you dearly and I am grieving for your loss. You are such a special person and it is just not effing fair that this has happened. You are right though Em, Noodle will come back. So it is not goodbye, but just goodbye for now. xxxx

 

[bbdreams]

Honey I will be praying for you for peace and comfort. I don't know why this had to happen, but I pray that it never happens again and that you get your bfp straightway.