Wishing, wanting, waiting.....TTC for a year PLUS!

[tryforbaby2]

Hiya everyone, great to see you Myturn, wow sounds like you have really been through it all recently. Hope the pain eases for you.

Hi Dee and Soph and squirrel and tryfor.

Soph sending you some big

Well as for me, I don't have much to report. OH did another SA and it came back pretty much the same as last time, great count no so good morphology.

I have just been for my day 21 blood test again, get results in a week

Don't really have much to say, we won't get our referral for another few months yet, we have to wait till we have been TTC for 2 years for the NHS docs to refer us.

Although it is only a few months off 2 years now, we are hoping they might start the process.

Hope everyone is doing good, thinking of you all xx

What was his morphology again?....You should be getting your labs back soon huh?....I am surprised there is 2 years of waiting/trying to get on the list!
Thinking of you too!
xoxox

Hi everyone!! I am still lurking around, it is just getting harder and harder emotionally but I still couldn't do this shit with out you all xxxxx

It DOES take an emotional toll on us doesnt it?......xoxoxo I am always holding out hope for us all!

Hi tryfor! How are you?

Myturn, thanks for the info. Hope this does the trick for you and the gas pains ease up too.

Intelligence Let's hope that's it! Hopefully DH and I can have some quality time this month ...getaways are such fun! Where did you go?

CD1 for me today and very hopeful for this cycle!

woohoo quality time! yea yea yea baby! You must be very close in cycle with me. I am CD7 today, just finished up my last clomid for this cycle!

to you!

Just checking in here....I am waiting for AF, and I'll do clomid for another cycle. We'll see what that does. I found out Friday my dad has throat cancer, so TTC will have to take a back seat for a bit.

Hope everyone is doing ok.

Have you tested? It seems as is you have 31-32 days cycles.

 

[Ejay]

Hiya all

Tryfor - should have my day 21 tests on Monday, I wasn't sure if I O'd this month, but I guess we will soon find out.

OH's morphology is about 5-6% it's supposed to be about 15% or more, but he has a high count so the Doctors haven't been too worried about it.

I am hoping we might be able to get a HSG and ten possibly look at IUI but it's a bit of a minefield on the NHS in the UK

Hope everyone is doing ok xx

 

[MyTurnYet]

OMG, OMG, OMG...so I just had my surgery and am 7-8 days late...went to dr. yesterday and he said my surgery may have sent my hormones out of whack. I wanted to have wine tonight, so thought, better test, just in case...had a leftover internet cheapie and you guessed it: freaking BFP!!!!!!!! I am so freaking out right now. Went to store to get more tests and waiting to have to pee again to test more. OMG, OMG, OMG

 

[LuckyD]

OMG, OMG, OMG...so I just had my surgery and am 7-8 days late...went to dr. yesterday and he said my surgery may have sent my hormones out of whack. I wanted to have wine tonight, so thought, better test, just in case...had a leftover internet cheapie and you guessed it: freaking BFP!!!!!!!! I am so freaking out right now. Went to store to get more tests and waiting to have to pee again to test more. OMG, OMG, OMG

So sorry to butt in to your thread, but was just checking up on my favourite ladies and saw this!!

OH MY GOD!!!!!!!!! Jill, I am so happy for you amazing news! Can't wait to see the results of the new tests! I am so happy for you lovely xxxxx

 

[MyTurnYet]

OMG, OMG, OMG...so I just had my surgery and am 7-8 days late...went to dr. yesterday and he said my surgery may have sent my hormones out of whack. I wanted to have wine tonight, so thought, better test, just in case...had a leftover internet cheapie and you guessed it: freaking BFP!!!!!!!! I am so freaking out right now. Went to store to get more tests and waiting to have to pee again to test more. OMG, OMG, OMG

So sorry to butt in to your thread, but was just checking up on my favourite ladies and saw this!!

OH MY GOD!!!!!!!!! Jill, I am so happy for you amazing news! Can't wait to see the results of the new tests! I am so happy for you lovely xxxxx

Thank you sooooo much, Lucky!! I took two more tests last night and two more BFPs. I'm going to run out and get a digital today. I'm just in shock! Also, slightly worried because I must have been pg at the time of the surgery...I took a test that morning, and they tested me at the hospital and both were negative, but it must've been too early. AF was due the day after the surgery and never came. Seriously, I have no idea how this happened!! Going to call the dr. today and praying that everything is ok.

Lucky, you were one of the first people I thought to tell! In fact, I was coming on here this morning to do that...and now I see that you are already almost due! I will be thinking of you and praying for a smooth delivery. Maybe some of your good luck rubbed off on me?!

 

[tryforbaby2]

Hiya all

Tryfor - should have my day 21 tests on Monday, I wasn't sure if I O'd this month, but I guess we will soon find out.

OH's morphology is about 5-6% it's supposed to be about 15% or more, but he has a high count so the Doctors haven't been too worried about it.

I am hoping we might be able to get a HSG and ten possibly look at IUI but it's a bit of a minefield on the NHS in the UK

Hope everyone is doing ok xx

Fingers crossed for you Ejay! Morpology is difficult to be diagnosed with as it cannot be 'assisted' like count and motility can.

Good Luck for the results and please keep us posted!

Hope you are also doing well!

OMG, OMG, OMG...so I just had my surgery and am 7-8 days late...went to dr. yesterday and he said my surgery may have sent my hormones out of whack. I wanted to have wine tonight, so thought, better test, just in case...had a leftover internet cheapie and you guessed it: freaking BFP!!!!!!!! I am so freaking out right now. Went to store to get more tests and waiting to have to pee again to test more. OMG, OMG, OMG

OMFG!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Yay! It is about time one of us moves right along!!!!

 

[SquirrelGirl]

!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!


JILL!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! (now I get Tryfor's post on FB! lol)


JILLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLL I am soooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo

EXCITED FOR YOU!!! I'm CRYING!!!!!!!!! HOLY CRAP!!!! GIGANTIC virtual hug!!

 

[SquirrelGirl]

Its' SMILEY time!!!



:wave:

 

[SquirrelGirl]

eh, that's not enough smileys! We need more!!

 

[MyTurnYet]

!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!


JILL!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! (now I get Tryfor's post on FB! lol)


JILLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLL I am soooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo

EXCITED FOR YOU!!! I'm CRYING!!!!!!!!! HOLY CRAP!!!! GIGANTIC virtual hug!!

Oh no, now I'm crying!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I haven't cried until I saw this. Thank you sooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo much Julia and Sara!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

 

[SquirrelGirl]

EEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEE!!!! I'm just soo soo soo happy for you.

Was this a natural cycle or did you do IUI??? You just must be so shocked!

 

[bbdreams]

OMGooooooooodnesss Jill!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Soooooooooooo excited for you!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I haven't been on here in forever, so I just thought I would drop in and I saw this Jill!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
WOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWW!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

I am so happy for you that I just wanna jump up and down and scream it to the world!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Praying for you and a sticky bean!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

 

[SquirrelGirl]

What's been on my mind all morning is how your doctor didn't do a pregnancy test when you went to see him. Before saying "oh your hormones are all out of whack from the surgery" he should have checked!! Helloooo, mcfly!

Anyway, still just so shocked and excited! woohoooooo!!

 

[MyTurnYet]

Thank you BBDreams and thank you again, Sarah!!! I honestly don't know what I'd do without you girls.

Ok, so here's what happened...we weren't really "trying" this cycle...were on a break because of my scheduled lap and the last IUI not working. I did get into a MEGA fight with DH, anyway, though because he was out at dinner with people from work the night of my "window" so I thought I missed it. Even though we were technically on a break, I went all crazy, anyway. Then, I figured we missed our chance, but went to Boston the following weekend and had some FUN, so am thinking it must've happened in Boston. But at the time of that trip it was very late in my cycle...way past my normal O day so figured, no way. We did not BD after that, that I can remember.

Ok, then the morning of the lap, I took a test just in case and BFN (actually two tests). Then when I got to the hospital, they gave me another test, and also negative. AF was due the following day and I had some bleeding at the hospital and then spotting after and then....nothing.

So, when I went to the doctor I said, "my period never showed up," and the first thing he actually said to me was "and you took a pregnancy test?" And I replied that I did one the morning of the lap, and they did one at the hospital, but there was NO CHANCE. I seriously just thought it was not even a possibility. I'm still a little dumbfounded as to how this happened! I mean I know....but, we didn't BD around the right time at all (or so I thought) and with the other negative tests, I just thought, no way! The dr. said if I don't get my period in 5 days to call him, but it does often cause your cycle to be out of whack.

Ok, so last night I wanted to have some wine and commence operation couch sex and thought I better take a test, just in case...and then got the BFP. I'm still in shock.

Also nervous, because not only did I have surgery, but also had percocets while recovering, and then had a margarita on Thursday night!! (Right after my dr. appointment). When I ordered the margarita DH said, "what if you're pregnant now" and I said "it's impossible." I'm totally beating myself up. But nothing I can do now but call the dr. on Monday and pray that everything is ok. I also have history of ectopic so am in for some early blood tests/ ultrasounds. I hope that they can tell me this week that it'll be ok.

 

[MyTurnYet]

What's been on my mind all morning is how your doctor didn't do a pregnancy test when you went to see him. Before saying "oh your hormones are all out of whack from the surgery" he should have checked!! Helloooo, mcfly!

Anyway, still just so shocked and excited! woohoooooo!!

Looking back, I think I should've pushed for this, too...I just kept thinking "it's impossible."

 

[SquirrelGirl]

well, I can totally understand thinking it was impossible. Especially with how many cycles it's been with no luck. It's just so crazy!

And really, try not to beat yourself up about the margarita and stuff. Apparently people have babies all the time and didn't know they were preggo! There's a whole TV show about them! And then there's the people who don't give a darn and drink and smoke all through anyway....

I'm sure the little beanie is just fine!!!!!!!!!!!!!

 

[tryforbaby2]

I am so fricking excited!!! Don't beat yourself up, baby will be fine!

 

[Ejay]

OMG OMG OMG OMG

I am soooooo excited for you, how fantastic, !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

text can't really express how stoked I am for you. xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

 

[Lucie73821]

OMG, OMG, OMG...so I just had my surgery and am 7-8 days late...went to dr. yesterday and he said my surgery may have sent my hormones out of whack. I wanted to have wine tonight, so thought, better test, just in case...had a leftover internet cheapie and you guessed it: freaking BFP!!!!!!!! I am so freaking out right now. Went to store to get more tests and waiting to have to pee again to test more. OMG, OMG, OMG

Massive congrats!!!!!

 

[soph77]

Jill I am reading your story in happy tears for you, I am beyond excited xoxoxoxox I guess it is YourTurnNOW!