hopedance
Sam's mum and pregnant
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hi ladies, was just wondering if there is anyone in the same position as me. i had a bit of a rubbish pregnancy with sam, first they thought he was ectopic, then that i was going to lose him as hormone levels were low, then i bled from about 10 weeks through to 25 weeks, my 20 week scan showed anomalies (his umbilical cord wasn't developed properly and his kidneys had fluid on them), then i got pre-eclampsia at 27 weeks, had to stay in hospital for a month before having an emergency c-section at 30 weeks. then sam was in there for another 6 weeks. i also got a problem with my hips, it's like SPD but with the bones at the back of your pelvis, plus the pregnancy triggered thyroid disease, first over active, now underactive. and i have PCOS so getting pregnant in the first place was a bit of an achievement.
so, i do want another baby, and i don't want it to be too long after sam so he has a sibling to play with.. but i just don't know if i am brave enough to attempt another pregnancy. friends tell me to adopt, but there is something so special about having your own.
have any of you had another baby after an awful pregnancy?
so, i do want another baby, and i don't want it to be too long after sam so he has a sibling to play with.. but i just don't know if i am brave enough to attempt another pregnancy. friends tell me to adopt, but there is something so special about having your own.
have any of you had another baby after an awful pregnancy?