pradabooties
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I've been a bit sad lately... DH is still alright with trying in July but he says he prefers 2016, early or mid. It's 'just' a 6mths wait, or at most a year. I can still keep the Jul date but now I don't know whether I should. Reasons for waiting are mainly work deadlines.
On one hand, i want him to be as excited as me and anticipate the TTC process, so I would wait till he's less overwhelmed with his job. On the other hand, he's in a very busy industry and will always have multiple projects, and we'll already be financially ready by July so I just don't want to wait.
Any thoughts/ advice?
Hi skycastles,
Obviously only you and your OH can really make the decision but if I were you I would stick to July. On this website I've been told a lot don't wait to be completely ready or prepared because you never will be, you'll always find a reason however small to put it off again and again, trying to find the perfect time - which does not exist. Realising this is pretty much the basis for why I have decided to definitely go for it this year. It is understandable that your man wants everything in order with his job and perfect for when you TTC but maybe in 6 months time something else will be going on that will make either of you think you should put it off. It's just my opinion but I'd keep to your original date, I'm certain your OH will be completely thrilled when you fall pregnant, regardless of when it is xx